90% of boys have heard girls say this sentence, "I don't want to fall in love yet", right?
Then your answer is "Why?" or "You don't want to talk to me?" In fact, these two answers of yours are especially likely to become girls' backup tires and emotional trash cans! Sister Xuan will tell you how to pursue a girl who doesn’t want to fall in love!
1. Don’t ask directly
After a girl tells you this, you must don’t ask why anymore, because there are too many reasons for not wanting to fall in love, such as being too busy at work, wanting to focus on studying, not getting over the last relationship, etc.
This is especially easy to block the way for you to pursue her. She doesn't really want to fall in love right now. If you ask her to tell you the reason again, it will only reinforce her idea that she doesn't want to fall in love.
Even if a girl is really attracted to you later, she will not take the initiative to express it, because girls are naturally stronger than . If you take the initiative, it will just slap yourself in the face again, right? So don't ask the girl face to face why, leave some escape paths for yourself, and leave some escape paths for the girl. Secondly, if the girl is really because of her previous relationship, if you ask, the girl's hidden memory will be opened.
This will have two results. First, it will make her more determined not to fall in love. Secondly, after she talks to you, she will come to you to talk to you next time she is in a bad mood.
Therefore, we can find out the reason from her friends, best friends or other social platforms, or we can think about it after you have been together for a long time. We must not ask in person.
Second, arouse the other person's desire for love
If a girl is still willing to chat with you, it means that she still has a certain affection for you, but the feeling of love is definitely not as good as , , so the girl does not want to upgrade the relationship with you, so you must make it clear that at this moment, you should not regard yourself as a suitor, treat her as a friend, and still let her have emotional fluctuations for you.
It's like, if she tells you "I don't really want to fall in love right now", then you reply to her "I'm like, what would happen if two people who don't want to fall in love chat for a long time".
I believe Sister Xuan, the girl will definitely be a little disappointed at this time, because what the girl thinks in her heart is that you want to chase her! At this time, it doesn't matter what the girl replies to you. Your next sentence is to say, "I feel like we will become brother and sister."
When a girl sees this sentence, she will feel even more depressed, because girls are such a kind of creature. Although she says she doesn't want to fall in love, she still really likes the feeling of being pursued by someone.
Then you reply, "But I don't treat you as a sister. I thought you were cute when I first met you." At this time, the girl may ask you, "Don't you want to fall in love?" or "Don't waste your time on me anyway." Don't panic at this time. Let's say to her in a mean tone, "What are you thinking? I have always treated you as my daughter, be good."
Compared with serious pursuits or blindly pleasing girls, this kind of chatting method that can make girls feel emotional can really make girls feel excited. Also, when chatting with her, don’t just talk about daily life. What you are thinking about must be to guide girls in the direction of love.
Third, identify the emotional needs
In fact, some girls who tell you "don't want to fall in love" actually mean that girls don't want to break out of their current comfort zone. From their current inner thoughts, there is nothing wrong with being single. They are comfortable living alone. Even if they come home late, no one will care. When they are bored, they go out with their best friends, have dinner with their best friends, etc.
Therefore, when pursuing this kind of girl, you must establish attraction for her outside her comfort zone and let the girl take the initiative to step out of her comfort zone instead of you forcing her into her comfort zone. However, everyone's needs are different, and different girls attract them in different ways, so Sister Xuan will not say much here. If you need it, you can come to Sister Xuan and I will analyze it for you one by one.
