Picking chrysanthemums under the eastern fence, you can leisurely see the Nanshan Mountain.
After staying in the city for a long time, some people begin to "romanticize" rural life. Just like Li Ziqi , you can grow vegetables, pick fruits, and keep a dog to accompany you, and live a very comfortable life.
Because there is no mortgage, the pace of life is very slow. Many people think that life in rural areas has the atmosphere of fireworks. Living in the city is like a machine, busy and busy.
However, is this really the case?
In Anhui, a woman photographed the real rural life. The life is a mess, but there is no poetry and romance.
For those elegant rural lives, you still need to be rich and not live in the world.
The incident happened at the home of a villager in Anhui. The woman looked at the messy room and shook her head helplessly.
However, the woman did not intend to clean up the "mess". She just took a video and then took the child out to play.
"I can't control that much. Whoever drinks the wine will take care of it!" the woman said to herself.
The drinking happened last night. The woman’s husband and a few friends had another drinking party last night. They started drinking after dinner and continued drinking until 10 pm.
Because the living room was too cold, they moved the table into the room and turned on the air conditioner to drink. Anyone who has drunk alcohol knows that the smell of alcohol fills the whole room, and the smell of the food is so offensive that women are reluctant to enter the room.
What’s even more outrageous is that after the husband and the others finished drinking, they ran off to play cards and mahjong, leaving a mess behind and wanting the woman to clean up.
The true state of rural areas
The real ability is to survive in your hometown. You don’t have to be displaced and you can be with your wife, children and parents.
But women don’t think so.
The woman's husband's living situation is that he has a drinking party 2 out of 3 days. Today he is at his house and tomorrow he is at another friend's house. He drinks all night long.
Moreover, since there was no wine at home, they drove 20-30 kilometers to the town to buy it, and they were not afraid of the cold at all.
After the wine game, I often play mahjong and sing songs at night, and drive 20-30 kilometers to the town. I don't feel troublesome or tired at all. It seems that if I don't go, I will lose a pound of meat. I never tire of it.
The woman also advised and scolded her husband not to do this for a long time. This kind of living condition is very unhealthy. She hoped that he would spend more time with her children and herself.
Unfortunately, my husband feels that this is their only way of entertainment and is unwilling to change.
’s persuasion was ineffective, and the woman no longer helped clean the room. No matter how the room looks like after drinking, it will still be the same the next day, so let your husband clean it up by himself.
Even so, my husband still went his own way, mopping the floor, washing dishes, tidying up the room, and after a few days, he resumed his original drinking party.
Over time, both of them got used to it.
Why not divorce?
There is no doubt that many families in rural areas are basically in this state. Eating, drinking and playing cards are their way of entertainment.
To be honest, this kind of lifestyle is very negative and cannot be accepted by many girls. Being drunk, having to be taken care of, and vomiting all over the floor is really nauseating.
Since you don’t like this kind of life, why not divorce?
The reason is very simple. Love is a matter between two people, but marriage is a matter between two families. Just like a woman who now has two children, she cannot raise the children by herself and rely on her husband to make money to support the family. There is no way to divorce.
Girls don’t like to marry in rural areas?
It is not difficult to find that more and more girls do not like to marry in rural areas. Especially girls who are accustomed to living in the city do not like or adapt to the "customs and customs" of rural areas.
After dinner, my husband and I walk, exercise, watch movies, occasionally cook skewers, eat hot pot, and take our children to parks, playgrounds, etc. The family lives a happy life.
Make a little progress, do some side jobs, and tutor your children with homework, which is beneficial to your career and family. Who drinks and dines every two days?
Don’t blame girls for being materialistic, who doesn’t want to run for a better life!
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