Text丨There is Love in the West Chamber
Time is not long, I hope you will meet in my words and it will not be too late!
After a breakup, men seem to be more heartless than women. Once they say goodbye, they never pay attention to it again. They are still having fun with their friends, as if they had never experienced a breakup, without any sadness.
After a breakup, women often experience grief for a long time and cannot get over it for a long time. But if a man still bothers you like this after a breakup, it means that he still has lingering feelings for you.
Deng Xuelin, 27 years old, employee of tobacco company : If a man has no feelings for you, he will seem to disappear from the world after a breakup and will never appear in your life again. And if he contacts you frequently, it means he still has feelings for you.
A year ago, I broke up with my boyfriend because of a little quarrel. When we first broke up, I was in a very bad mood and felt very depressed. After my friend's explanation, my mood gradually improved and I got out of the shadow of broken love.
However, after I adjusted my emotions, my boyfriend contacted me again. He didn't directly talk about getting back together, let alone anything related. He just wished me a happy holiday during the holidays.
However, he will not send me blessings on days like Valentine's Day and 520. Instead, he will send blessings on traditional festivals like Dragon Boat Festival.
I feel like he still likes me, otherwise he wouldn’t contact me, but I’m not sure what he means. After all, he would avoid wishing me a happy holiday on a holiday like Valentine's Day.
Maybe he also wants to get back together, but he doesn't know what my attitude is, so he wants to test my mind step by step.
Although I have not completely given up, I should not be impressed by his actions. He still did too little.
Indeed, most men will not do things without purpose or meaning. If he still sends you blessings on holidays after a breakup, then he is often testing your feelings and deliberately showing off his presence in front of you.
A man like you loves you, but is embarrassed to take the initiative to talk about getting back together. He still cares too much about his own face. But in general, he has lingering feelings for you and wants to renew his relationship with you.
Shi Ruochen, 26 years old, front desk: If your ex-boyfriend often "patronizes" your social platforms and follows you secretly, it means that he still has feelings for you.
My ex-boyfriend and I were classmates in high school. We fell in love together at that time, and we stayed together after entering college. However, after entering my junior year, I clearly felt that he had changed. He was no longer considerate of me, and would even not reply to my messages for a long time.
Before, he would comfort me when I lost my temper, but later he just thought I was being unreasonable and had a bad temper. In the later stages, we often had conflicts and broke up, but we were still in a state of disconnection.
During this period, he met a new person of the opposite sex and fell in love underground. In other words, he was with another woman before he broke up with me. After
found out that he betrayed me, I never contacted him again and deleted all his contact information. We learned through our mutual friends that he and the woman later got together and he went to study abroad. In the years after
broke up, my Weibo and other social platforms were always visited by people, and the access records were deleted. My intuition was that he had visited.
Although, sometimes it comforts me to think that he still has old feelings for me, but I also know that this relationship cannot be turned back.
His behavior touched my bottom line. No matter how passionate our feelings were and how many traces we left in each other's youth, we can't go back. His interruption will only make me unable to leave for a long time and will not help me in any way.
When you have someone in your heart, you will want to know how he is doing, but you don't want to be discovered by others. Therefore, I can only pay attention secretly, as if I have never been here.
After breaking up, a man may still have you in his heart, but that feeling is just nostalgia rather than true love. He will pay attention to your social platforms and even contact you through a small account.
Liu Yuxin, 26 years old, loan salesperson: If a man has an old relationship with you, he will definitely find a way to attract your attention and try to rebuild the relationship with you.
Not long ago, I had some differences with my boyfriend over the issue of marriage, and I broke up in anger. He agreed immediately, and we informed both parents that we were no longer together. During
, my boyfriend never asked me for peace, but I could clearly feel that he regretted it because he was always trying to get my attention. After
broke up, I did not delete his contact information, I just stopped contacting him. Not long ago, he sent me a message, but he quickly withdrew it. It only showed that the other party had withdrawn a message.
But I didn't pay attention to it. I saw that he had sent a message and didn't care. I just ignored it. Later, when I posted to Moments, he would pretend to be swiping and like it, and then cancel it quickly.
He has done things like this many times. I know that he just wants to attract my attention, but I just don't let him get it.
A man wants to get back together, but he can't keep his face off, so he tries to arouse your attention through some small actions. These seemingly childish and ridiculous behaviors of his are just to arouse your curiosity and make you take the initiative to talk to him, which seems quite funny.
After a breakup, if a man still contacts you and secretly visits your social media platforms in an attempt to attract your attention through these small actions, he is actually showing that he still has lingering feelings for you.
However, belated affection is more contemptible than grass. If I had known this, why bother in the first place. If he really loves you, he won't break up easily. The current compensation is just because of his loneliness.
