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Liu Yulan (pseudonym) was already 47 years old before she remarried. She had a 16-year-old daughter with her deceased husband, but it was really tiring and hard to raise a daughter by herself. This gave Liu Yulan the idea of remarrying. She hoped to have a man who could support her, so she met Deng Xianyou through a friend’s introduction.
Mr. Deng lives in a rural area. He is 50 years old this year. However, even though he is so old, he has never been married, so he does not have a son or a half of his daughter. This is because Mr. Deng’s family was poor when he was young and no woman was willing to marry him. On the other hand, he has a relatively independent personality. His previous blind dates always ended in vain, which is why it has been delayed until now.
The introducer also told Liu Yulan about this, but after two contacts, Liu Yulan felt pretty good about Xianyou Deng. She just wanted to find an honest man by her side, and did not care about how powerful or rich he was, so after knowing each other for about two months, the two quickly went through the marriage formalities and officially entered the marriage hall.
This made Deng Xianyou very happy. He didn't mind even if the other party brought a daughter here, just for the dream in his heart.
Speaking of Deng Xianyou’s dream, he hoped to have his own children. Especially after he turned 50, this dream became increasingly strong. His obsession with money, land, and houses has now gradually let go and turned into an obsession with children. He hopes to have his own blood. Therefore, during this marriage, he very much hopes that Liu Yulan can give him a child, either a boy or a girl.
Therefore, after only three months of marriage, Mr. Deng asked Liu Yulan to live as a couple three times a day, which made Liu Yulan miserable.
In fact, she first heard Deng Xianyou talk about this matter. At that time, she thought that Deng Xianyou was a few years older than her and how could he have so much energy. She thought that if she persisted for a month at most, she would no longer want it. In this way, she could enjoy her married life and return to normal.
But he never expected that this would last three months. No matter how tired Mr. Deng was during the day or how late he came back, he would never get tired of living as a couple with Liu Yulan, and the time was very long every time. Once he came back at 11 o'clock in the middle of the night and kept struggling until about 1 o'clock in the morning. Liu Yulan's waist was broken, and it also left a huge pressure on her spirit: "It went on every day, and my throat was so hard that I couldn't speak."
Liu Yulan also told Xianyou Deng many times not to do it so often. Besides, she is already 47 years old and should not be able to have children. Not only will she be an advanced maternal age if she becomes pregnant again, but her health is not good to begin with and she might end up giving birth to half her life.
But Xianyou Deng didn't listen at all, saying that she married Liu Yulan just to have children. The daughter she brought was not of her own blood, otherwise she would not have a need to marry a wife.
She was already married, but hearing her husband say this made Liu Yulan heartbroken. She thought she would find an honest man who knew how to care for her, but she didn't expect that he was a hungry wolf.
However, Xianyou Deng did not agree to divorce. After all, from falling in love to getting married, and now, Xianyou Deng has spent a lot of money on Liu Yulan, and he no longer has any extra money to marry anyone else in order to have children.
But Liu Yulan could no longer hold on and insisted on getting a divorce. Deng Xianyou reluctantly said that he could get a divorce, but he would have to pay 30,000 yuan in mental damages. After knowing this condition, Liu Yulan said she would borrow it even if she didn't have that much money, as long as she could get a divorce.
In the end, the two signed a divorce agreement and agreed to divorce, and this "twilight love" only lasted for 3 months before it ended in such a hurry.
As the old saying goes, "Ten years of cultivation can make you cross the same boat, and a hundred years of cultivation can make you sleep on the same pillow." The ability of men and women to unite and become husband and wife is a fate cultivated in previous lives. Why don't you know how to cherish it?
Especially Mr. Deng, you need to reflect carefully. Although blood descendants are important, all this must be based on harmony between husband and wife, mutual respect and love. If it is just to marry a fertility tool, then no woman will marry him. After all, he is not so good that women will willingly bear children for him.
But if you can't figure this out, maybe Deng Xianyou will never be able to get married in this life, let alone have his own love and offspring. All his dreams are empty.
At the same time, Liu Yulan was also bruised and bruised in this marriage. As she said when she asked for a divorce: "I never want to get married again in my life, and I never want to have contact with a man!", you can see how painful the realization Deng Xianyou left her.
It is said that marriage is the second reincarnation of a woman, but it stands to reason that Liu Yulan has been married once, so she should be more clear about what kind of marriage she wants. However, the experience of her first marriage did not allow her to better understand men and the nature of marriage, which is why her second marriage failed so much.
Therefore, "open your eyes before marriage and turn a blind eye after marriage" is not just for little girls. Every woman must understand the truth. Otherwise, the misfortune of marriage cannot be blamed on others, but is the result of not knowing how to cherish and manage it!
