It was probably during the summer vacation last year that Xiaolu’s two children clamored to see their father. She had no choice but to travel thousands of miles from her hometown to a big city in the south with her children.
On that day, after the children's father took them to his dormitory, he hurried back to the unit to go to work. After Xiaolu settled the child, he began to clean the dormitory.
As she was doing this, she suddenly discovered that her husband's bed looked like there were indentations from two people sleeping on it. This might have been the deer's imagination, but when she was cleaning the ground later, she discovered long hair that didn't belong to her.
At this moment, Xiaolu immediately realized that her husband might have someone else. It seems that there are other women living in this dormitory on weekdays.
A normal person would definitely get furious when faced with this situation. But Xiaolu didn't. She was stunned for a moment and then returned to the tidying up work. Because she has long been mentally prepared that there will be others around her husband.
Speaking of which, the two of them are thousands of miles apart, and they barely see each other a few times a year. In this situation, how could she ask her husband to protect her body and mind? After all, she didn’t do it either! In recent years, due to their different division of labor, my husband had to leave his hometown and come to the south in order to make money. For the sake of her children, she chose to take care of them full-time and occasionally work odd jobs near home.
Only then can I barely make ends meet, including the mortgage loan in my hometown and the tuition and living expenses of my children. Although it is not good to be separated in two places, if she took her children and went to join her husband, the cost of living would not be comparable to that of a small county town.
Therefore, it is best for them to maintain the status quo, and Xiaolu acquiesces to her husband's emptiness and loneliness and lets him solve it on his own. But the husband never expected that the wife he thought was virtuous would actually have cheated on her long ago.
In order to solve his own needs, Xiaolu has secretly talked with several people in his hometown. However, Xiaolu still doesn't want to give up her family. She said that she never talks about relationships. If the other person wants to fall in love seriously, she will give up immediately and find someone else.
Just like that, Xiaolu didn't mention her discovery during the half month she was reunited with her husband. The husband also works hard to play the role of a loving couple. But in fact, both of them have ghosts in their hearts, so they can only compensate the other party twice as much.
However, to be honest, I can understand their thinking, but I really cannot accept their behavior. What is the point of this kind of marriage? Just for the sake of the children? Want them to have a complete home?
Although Xiaolu said that she only solves needs outside and does not talk about feelings. But if your body has been cheating for a long time, your heart will definitely be shaken. In the same way, so does her husband. The separation time may not be too long now, and the two have no plans to divorce. What happens when they are ten years old? Maybe he really becomes a stranger.
I think Xiaolu’s idea is wrong and not normal. Maybe it will be very hard for a couple to work hard together in a big city. But a family should still be together, work together, and build a home together. It's much better than using money as an excuse, but actually just seeking personal comfort.
In a marriage like this where each person already has someone, don't deceive yourself. You have no tomorrow!
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