Life has been through decades, and has experienced ups and downs, joys and sorrows, and has summarized the following ten life taboos. I hope it will be beneficial to everyone!
1. Arrogant and arrogant
"Fullness brings harm, humility brings benefits", this ancient saying must be remembered for life! No matter how successful you are, don’t be complacent or self-righteous. As the saying goes, "The moon is full and the water is full and overflows." As long as a person develops arrogance, he will definitely suffer losses, and good things will surely turn into bad things.
2. Ingratitude
As a person, you should be grateful and always have a grateful heart. If you receive a drop of water from others, you must repay it with a spring, so that the road of life will become wider and wider and you will get more help and support from more people. If you are ungrateful and think you have taken advantage of it, and others are fools, you will block your future path.
3. Saying three things
As the saying goes, "Sitting in meditation always reflects on your own life, don't talk about others' mistakes." Don’t talk about others behind your back, and don’t talk about other people’s right and wrong. Because I don’t know which day it will reach the ears of the person involved. Some people with ulterior motives will add fuel to the fire, and then you will have an extra enemy.
4. Believe in others
You must not have the intention to harm others, and you must be careful of others. People have ulterior motives, and the world is dangerous. Many bad people look more like good people on the surface. As the saying goes, "The road is far away and the horse's strength can be seen, and people's hearts will be seen over time." When we meet for the first time, no matter how good or enthusiastic a person performs, don't believe it easily.
5. Blind promise
Integrity is the foundation of being in the world. If you lose your credit, you will not be able to gain a foothold in society. Therefore, you must cherish it. You cannot blindly make promises to others on impulse. If you cannot fulfill it at that time, you will lose the trust of others.
6. Open the river without a word
Disease comes from the mouth, and disaster comes from the mouth. Words are the most likely to cause trouble, so don’t just think and speak nonsense. There is a saying: "The speaker is unintentional, and the listener is intentional." Many times, if you say something inadvertently, you will offend others' pain points and other people's taboos.
7. Blame the world and others
Mencius said: "If you don't get in , you will look for it yourself." When you encounter adversity and unsatisfactory things in life, don't blame others. This will not only be useless, but will make things worse. Only by calming down, reflecting on ourselves, and summarizing the experience and lessons can we get out of the predicament.
8. Floating and restless
No matter at all times, try to keep your mind calm and avoid being restless. As the saying goes, "Impulse is a devil." Once a person becomes impetuous, he is prone to making mistakes and doing stupid things. It is too late to regret it when something happens.
9. Sarcastic and mean
Be lenient to others and be strict with yourself. Never do it wrong. If you treat others mean, be loose to yourself, be unforgivable, and speak unacceptably, you will offend others everywhere and make enemies for yourself. Some people even claim to be "a knife-like mouth, a tofu heart", which is useless.
10. Insatiable
As a person, be content and happiness, and not be insatiable. The reason why so many liars in the world always succeed is because they grasp the greedy mind of the world. As long as people become greedy, they are easily deceived. If they are not greedy, then there is no way for scammers to do so.
