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Divorce lawsuit caused by a card
There was once a divorce lawsuit in court in Tongzhou District, Beijing. The plaintiff Mr. Xu came to the court to sue, and he demanded the termination of his marriage with his wife Ms. Wang . However, the husband's divorce request that his wife and did not agree with is not too strange, but in fact, the lawsuit is unimaginable.
Start with Ms. Wang's words "disagree" in court. Mr. Xu, opposite, was furious when he heard this. He said that his wife had concealed and deceived him for seven years, and this kind of deception was very extraordinary. What he endured was a kind of shaming and humiliation that men in the world could not bear.
Mr. Xu recalled that things had to start with card . This card was a bit special. It would be a good thing to put it on single men and women, but it would be like thorn in their house, which made him feel a little painful.
Mr. Xu said that it was in 2007. Once he accidentally took an ticket holder from his wife. When he opened the ticket holder, he found that there was an pink card inside. The words on the card made him confused.
This is a membership card for "Love Garden" . Mr. Xu seemed to have heard these three words. After thinking about it carefully, he remembered that this is a very famous matchmaking company in the local city, which means that this is a membership service card for blind date .
This card is placed in Ms. Wang's ticket holder, and the most important and incredible thing is that the card holder's name is actually written in the column of the marriage enlistment. Not only that, there is also a receipt for in , which shows that Ms. Wang paid 1,200 yuan and became a lifelong member of of this matchmaking agency .
Three years of enduring humiliation and bearing heavy burdens
Mr. Xu couldn't believe that his wife actually got a lifetime card. What shocked him even more was that the time on the card was November 11, 2000, which means that when the card was discovered, it had been seven years since . Mr. Xu felt so cold. You should know that the couple had been married for more than ten years, so it was obviously a card that was issued after marriage!
Mr. Xu believes that after getting married, his wife has been dating others for half of the time. Isn’t this just treating herself as a fool for seven years?
Mr. Xu said that when he thought that his wife had planned it, his anger in his heart could not suppress , and he wanted to question his wife in person immediately. But at that time, Mr. Xu made a move that no one expected. After some ideological struggle, he put away the card and didn't tell his wife about .
Mr. Xu said that his daughter happened to be in high school at that time, and he didn't want the divorce to affect his children's studies, so he had to to hinder himself . But whenever he thinks of this card, he feels uncomfortable. At this time, "wine" becomes his only reliance on .
just drink this for three years. People are drunk, but their hearts are not drunk. That card is in Mr. Xu's mind every day, lingering and . Finally, three years later, his daughter also graduated from high school. On the second day after her daughter's college entrance examination, Mr. Xu immediately showed up with his wife and . He decided to divorce his wife. In January 2011, Mr. Xu sued his wife and sued her for divorce .
A wife’s marriage card, a man’s endurance of humiliation, and his wife’s betrayal of ten years of . This sounds like is a bit tortuous and .Let’s look at Mr. Xu sitting in the court again. It’s very likely that he has already interpreted today’s scene countless times in his mind. No matter how his wife opposed it, he looked calm and determined to divorce him.
Another version of the story
However, no one expected what happened next. Ms. Wang on the other side suddenly slapped the table and left the court . When the judge chased after her, she saw Ms. Wang actually lay on the ground and cried bitterly, saying that her husband turned black and white .
Why is Ms. Wang so excited? There are only two possibilities. First, because my husband exposed the shortcoming in court, he became angry and made a fuss on the ground. Another possibility is that is injustice like the sea, and he is extremely sad and angry. Judging from the words "Inverting black and white" by Ms. Wang, is there really something else in this matter?
When everyone finally persuaded Ms. Wang back, she told everyone about the truth about the divorce. Another version of . Ms. Wang said that everything started from when she first met Mr. Xu. At that time, they all worked in a factory in Shanxi. Ms. Wang was an accountant and Mr. Xu was a technical worker.
Both of them admire each other and got together like that. It was not until 1994 that the couple returned to Mr. Xu's hometown, Beijing with their small daughter, where the family of three started a brand new life in .
But a new life must first have a new job. Ms. Wang found a job in finance very smoothly, but Mr. Xu had the skills but did not live well. Finding a job became a troublesome thing.
Ms. Wang said that at that time, the whole family was supported by her own salary and life was very hard, but she did not despise her husband for this. Instead, she was afraid that her husband would be in a bad mood and was more considerate to him .
"Invention" that changed her destiny
Ms. Wang said on the one hand she did feel sorry for her husband and couldn't bear to blame him. On the other hand, she has always been confident in her husband's technology , and believes that her husband will eventually make a comeback. Although Mr. Xu had no job at home at that time, he was not idle either, but was busy "inventing" every day.
, but invention is not an easy task, the key is that it is very expensive. It is cheap to invest , 20,000 to 30,000 yuan for , but where does this money come from?
Ms. Wang said that it all depends on her hands, and she had little income, but in order to support her husband's invention projects, she tightened her belt and pieced together to save her husband money . The most important thing is that even if the invention is successful or even applied for a patent, these do not mean that you can get the money back, because the product cannot find the market, and the money invested is still and no return to .
Ms. Wang said that those days were really not easy, but she didn't even complain. As long as her husband asked for money, she would try her best to find a way. Until 2002, her husband invented something very special - ice bicycle!
This kind of bicycle has only one wheel, and an ice blade in front of it, which can drive on the ice freely. It looks very interesting. Even Mr. Xu did not expect that such a small invention would change the fate of the whole family of .
At that time, Mr. Xu mass-produced many ice bicycles and rented them in the park. Unexpectedly, if you don’t make any money, you can’t stop . He earned more than 300,000 in just one winter in 2004.
The husband who ran away from home
In 2007, Mr. Xu officially established the company and began large-scale operations. Now Ms. Wang’s hard life is over. After tasting Coptis chinensis, she realized how sweet the honey is. At that time, she would wake up laughing in her dreams, but who would have thought that was contrary to her wishes.
Ms. Wang said she didn't expect that just like the one she played in a TV series, the fact that a man becomes bad when he has money actually happened in her family.I can only say that it is difficult to prevent people from being on guard. My husband has an affair with . What should I do now?
Ms. Wang is afraid that her husband will never look back, so she wants to go to her company to be an accountant first. This will not only bring you closer to her husband, but also help her husband share some work. It just so happens that kills two birds with one stone.
But Ms. Wang didn't expect that her husband would reject without even thinking about it. Mr. Xu said that the company belongs to a family business and does not require any finance at all. Just let your wife take care of the children at home with peace of mind.
Ms. Wang couldn't figure it out, so she asked her husband whether she wanted to concentrate on raising the children or was she trying to deliberately save herself? The most annoying thing is that she asked her husband away after asking this question. Mr. Xu packed up his clothes and luggage, and then ran away from home!
Later, Ms. Wang was stunned when she asked about it. This time her husband actually lived with someone else! This woman is not someone else, she is the company's new accountant. No wonder she had to let her wife take charge of the accounts. This clearly meant that she wanted to treat the accountant as her wife. Ms. Wang collapsed suddenly. Her hard work for more than ten years was exchanged for her husband's betrayal. She felt in her heart that was bitter and bitter.
A stranger in a room
Ms. Wang said that at this time she finally couldn't help it, so she specifically followed her husband, and finally let her find Mr. Xu's love nest. Thinking that her husband, who had been with each other for more than 20 years, was talking sweetly with another woman, Ms. Wang could hardly control herself, and she wanted to knock on the door like crazy.
As expected, the door was blocked . Ms. Wang was angry and anxious at the time, and she was also ruthless, so she simply called the police.
But even if the wife and daughter were all on the battlefield, the police came to the door later, but Mr. Xu inside still made up his mind to ignore . It is said that trees are afraid of hurting their skin and people are afraid of being sad. In the middle of the night, they were blocked by their husband and his lover at the door. Apart from crying, Ms. Wang has no better way to express the pain in her heart.
But what makes people confused is that most people hide this kind of thing, but Mr. Xu later did not shy away from at all, because he had already had a very perfect explanation for to .
Mr. Xu said that he had not cheated, nor was he at fault. He did not separate from his wife, but after the separation, he had to have a place to live, so he rented the house.
Mr. Xu also explained that the woman who lives with was not a lover at all, but "Pinke " who rented a house together. The two lived together just to save money for . That was just a stranger living in the same house.
How does this make people feel when they hear it? A man and a woman rent a room together. It is quite fashionable to put it on a young man, but for a middle-aged couple, this statement is not believed in if she is beaten to death by Ms. Wang.
Ms. Wang said that she came to this house later and saw the layout inside. It was like living at home and . Ms. Wang even suspected that the house was bought by her husband, but she had no evidence that the court could not accept the statement of .
The current divorce lawsuit is getting more and more confused. On the one hand, there is a wife's marriage card, and on the other hand, there is a video of the police arresting her husband. Both parties have their own words, , and both accused the other of betrayal of the marriage.
But some people say that Ms. Wang’s marriage card has been issued for ten years. Could it be that Mr. Xu began to give up on himself and began to retaliate against his wife after he discovered the marriage card? Will cheating be a counterattack against her ?
The origin of the marriage card
seems to make sense to say this, but Ms. Wang was so angry that she said that the most terrifying thing about her husband was here. Not only did he betray the marriage, but he also shouted that thief deliberately framed her . The "marriage card" was a huge conspiracy of her husband from beginning to end.
Ms. Wang said there is indeed a marriage card, but the person who is seeking marriage is not her at all, but her younger brother. It was in 2000. Her younger brother was already old, but he had not yet started a family, which made her sister very anxious. helping her brother find a wife became her top priority.
Ms. Wang said that she found the "Love Garden" matchmaking agency with this idea at that time. In order to learn more about the girl's information, she applied for a lifetime membership card.
. The most important thing is that Ms. Wang clearly remembers that after she finished applying for the card, she told her husband about this matter. In other words, Mr. Xu knew about the origin of this marriage card itself, and now she still uses it as an example. This is obviously a false accusation.
After hearing this, Mr. Xu shook his head and said that his wife's level of making up stories is really bad. Because the membership card clearly states that it is only for me to use, and the gender on the marriage card is clearly filled in. It is a woman. How could the marriage agency introduce her to a girl?
Next, Mr. Xu even gave his wife a blow. Mr. Xu said that his wife has been considerate and caring for her for twenty years and is hardworking and virtuous. In fact, she is her one-sided word .
The cold-blooded and ruthless wife
Mr. Xu said that he had no job in his early years but he still had an income from . He often did some small projects for others. Although the money was not much, his wife couldn't say that he didn't make money at all, right? It's not just this that saddled him the most, but his wife has told him that he has lost all his dignity for so many years.
Mr. Xu said that once he went out to take a small job as usual. He didn't have any change and wanted to ask his wife for 100 yuan, but his wife's actions made him feel ashamed of . Ms. Wang said that 's own money was not in vain , and she tore the money to pieces in front of Mr. Xu and threw it on the ground .
Mr. Xu said that from then on, he never asked his wife for money again, and from that moment he truly felt his wife's cold-blooded and ruthless .
Later, Mr. Xu's father fell ill and went to the hospital. The medical expenses made Mr. Xu feel worried day and night. He originally wanted to ask his wife for help, but when he thought of his wife's face of tearing up money that day, he suddenly felt disheartened. . Finally, he spoke to his friends and solved his urgent problem.
Mr. Xu also said that the reason why he moved out of the house was actually because he could not bear the irritability of his wife. When quarreling, his wife often threatened him with a kitchen knife. It was precisely the accumulation of these conflicts in that made him despair about this marriage.
A sentence that tramples on dignity
plus the marriage card issue was discovered by him. The emotions that had been suppressed for many years suddenly erupted. His wife's previous evils magnified infinitely in his mind, but even at this time he still did not think about divorce. What really made him decide to end it all was because of his wife's one sentence .
The couple started arguing again on this day. Mr. Xu was so angry that he finally took out the marriage card and threw it in front of Ms. Wang. Unexpectedly, his wife was just stunned for a moment, and then he actually said that You must find a home to divorce yourself before you can divorce.
Mr. Xu's mind exploded after hearing this sentence. He had originally expected his wife to explain it, but he never expected that she could say such words. How could there be a trace of love between husband and wife? not only hurts people's hearts, but also puts his self-esteem under his feet and steps on . At this time, Mr. Xu made up his mind to , and this marriage must end.
said one after another, and the two of them said is always the opposite . Who is telling the truth? But no matter what, the faults of both parties must be judged in turn in court, and what is the origin of the "marriage card" at the core of this lawsuit?
In order to fully understand the truth, the court summoned witness , which is the actual party involved in the marriage proposal that Ms. Wang mentioned, that is, her younger brother.
husband's determination to divorce
According to Ms. Wang's younger brother, this marriage card really seemed to be done by his sister, but could it be that he favored his sister? Ms. Wang said this is an impossible for . If she really wants to go on a blind date, she can tear or throw away the card. How could she be caught in the ticket clip and found by her husband?
Ms. Wang thought that her explanation could make her husband believe it, but she seemed too naive because there was no joy after finding the answer on Mr. Xu's face. On the contrary, he lowered his face and once again firmly expressed his willingness to divorce.
Some people say that the Jingwei bird first filled the branches into the sea because it had the belief to fill the sea, but the same movements were repeated day after day, year after year, not because it still remembers the original intention of reclamation, but because it has become accustomed to such a posture, so that the original reason has long been no longer important , and Mr. Xu is the same now.
No one knows what Mr. Xu is thinking. If they really divorced, what else would they get besides freedom? In addition to some visible property in this marriage, what is really valuable is actually Mr. Xu’s patent and the company , which is the patented product. But can Ms. Wang get these things?
Unclear property accounts
In fact, Article 17 of the Marriage Law has clearly stipulated that personal rights in intellectual property rights are only owned by the intellectual property owner and do not share the same due to marriage relationship.
In plain words, it means that if the two divorce, Ms. Wang will not get in , and Mr. Xu can get the freedom to be single, and even don’t have to share half of the money, so there is still a certain reason why Mr. Xu insists on divorce.
For Ms. Wang, the worst situation is more than that. The most incredible thing is that the current property situation Ms. Wang actually has no idea about at all.
Ms. Wang said that since her husband refused to be the company's finance department, she has never been able to access important information about the company again. However, she also knew that her husband was rich. She had more than 300,000 yuan in the winter of 2004 alone. Will it be difficult to earn or millions in a few years? With the value of this patent, she didn't know how to settle the accounts with her husband.
But Mr. Xu said that Ms. Wang didn’t know anything at all. bicycles on ice. This activity requires to eat on the weather. First of all, you need ice to play. If it happens when it is a warm winter, it won’t work.
, and the profit time of each year is only for more than 20 days. He has invested all of these revenues into the company's operations. Mr. Xu feels that the millions Ms. Wang's mouth is simply for a fantasy.
The final judgment of the divorce lawsuit
Now, in addition to the marriage card and the third party, there is another topic of debate between the two. This pool of water is also getting more and more messy . Finally, in July 2011, the Tongzhou District Court of Beijing made a judgment on the divorce lawsuit.
The court held that Mr. Xu only provided a marriage membership card ten years ago as evidence to prosecute divorce, and this evidence was not enough to show that Ms. Wang cheated, so the court rejected Mr. Xu's divorce appeal request.
When Ms. Wang got this result, she breathed a sigh of relief. Their marriage was temporarily maintained, but can they still go back to the beginning?
If Ms. Wang could understand earlier and grasp the company's situation, would she still face such a passive situation today? Can Mr. Xu still sue for divorce so leisurely?
Many people say that the most important thing in married life is trust. Only unreserved trust can bring a happy marriage. But while trusting, there is also a little hope that everyone will not forget, that is, remember to protect themselves.
