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Inappropriate help, the relationship between brothers and sisters will not advance or retreat, just because the direction of help is wrong. The more you do your best to help, the more you will be contrary to the wrong direction.
1. Don’t interfere too much in the family affairs of brothers and sisters
Brothers and sisters have their own lives, and their families have different actual situations. Before fully understanding the actual situation, blindly interfering in the family of brothers and sisters will cause trouble for brothers and sisters. After all, the siblings' families have corresponding plans. Regardless of internal or hidden information, the brothers and sisters are not open and honest. The random interfering in the private lives of the siblings is very likely to disrupt the overall arrangements of the siblings. In the long run, it will cause grudges between brothers and sisters at the worst, and in the worst, it will cause conflicts between brothers and sisters. Although you will just live a life of mediocrity, brothers and sisters will either have complaints or apologies in their hearts. After fermenting the situation, the feelings of brothers and sisters will be much worse than before.
2. Don’t be confused.
Brothers and sisters should avoid economic exchanges of larger amounts as much as possible. Unless they need emergency relief, large or small amounts of economic exchanges can occur. Brothers and sisters still need to borrow and repay. If the borrowing time is long, the interest needs to be superimposed on the loan. Brothers and sisters need to settle accounts clearly, and borrow and repay. If a situation occurs between brothers and sisters who save the poor in order to save the poor, it will not only not help the brothers and sisters, but will also implicate their own family. If there is a loan or not, borrow or repay the more or repay the less, it will all cause hidden dangers for brothers and sisters to maintain family affection. Brothers and sisters still have corresponding material foundations. If the material foundation is shaken, the upper floor buildings of brothers and sisters will still shake.
3. Don’t always respond to your requests
Brothers and sisters help you to do what you can. You must pay attention to principles and follow the bottom line. If your brothers and sisters get more and more demands, you need to stop your efforts. Otherwise, you will be dragged down by your brothers and sisters. Don’t think that you will give unconditionally. Brothers and sisters will be grateful. Maybe you will be very likely to have a fight of rice to support your enemies. Brothers and sisters need to help each other, but whether to help or not is necessary to judge the specific level of help. Helping each other means respecting each other, giving each other, and getting rewards for each other. Only when the help of brothers and sisters will have a virtuous cycle, otherwise sooner or later, will there be a situation of repaying kindness with grievances.
Conclusion: Brothers and sisters should not think that they have a good relationship. They can help you with anything, and even if they give everything, they will be willing to do so. This is a big mistake. When helping brothers and sisters, the temporary solution is to help something, but not.
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