text | Zhu Sinyong
Will a man repeat the same mistake after returning? Generally, we need to judge based on his behavior:
First, no longer propose a track event, and the wife must turn it over.
If a man truly regrets his betrayal of his marriage and is determined not to make any more mistakes, he will have a reflective attitude and feel guilty towards his wife, and will also want to make up for it as much as possible.
At the beginning, he was even careful with you and would rush to do housework to show himself.
On the contrary, if a man has an indecisive attitude, refuses to admit his mistakes to his wife, and looks impatient, and threatens his wife not to mention it, that is, he has not reflected on his cheating behavior. He even feels that he cheated because his wife didn't do it well. In this case, even if he returns to his family, he will still treat you as usual and will not feel guilty towards you. He is willing to return to his family, probably just because he is tired of the women outside.
Second, do you want to continue to keep in touch with the women outside?
If a man truly regrets and wants to change his past, he will definitely cut off all contact with the other party to show his determination.
He did this, first of all, to let his wife see his determination and reassure her. He knew that this would allow him to live a stable life, otherwise he would be suspicious of his wife every day and would definitely be depressed.
Secondly, he wants to break his thoughts and lose contact information, and he will no longer think about it. Even if he thinks about it, or drinks too much, he will not make any move to contact the other party.
To this extent, the probability of a man making a mistake again will be much lower.
And some men, saying that they put down the other person, or using work as an excuse, still keep in touch with the other person.
Think about it, what kind of thoughts are they holding?
Although many people swear that they have returned to their families, they still have a little outward heart.
Maybe he would explain, saying that he just wanted to know her current situation and had no unconventional ideas. Although this may be the case, this kind of attention will also change in the process.
So, when encountering this situation, don’t just listen to what he says, but judge it through his attitude and take corresponding measures.
Third, it still cannot be publicized economically.
After the cheating behavior was exposed, many men will hand over their financial power to their wives in order to seek forgiveness from their wives, and even explain their daily expenses in detail just to win their wives’ trust.
This attitude of a man can indeed make his wife feel much more at ease. After all, if a man has no money, it is difficult for him to talk to other women.
But after some men return to their families, they will still hide anything from their wives in terms of expenses.
This concealment is suspicious in itself, which means that he may have spent his money on other women or spent it during the date.
Of course, it is also possible that he has not started to take action yet.
When the husband starts to hide his expenses, at the beginning, the wife may still be suspicious and will deliberately check it out, but when she finds that there is nothing special, she will laugh at herself for being too complicated and then relax her vigilance towards her husband.
This is true. When a man makes a mistake again, his wife may still be ignorant or later.
So, in terms of finance, women must hurry up and not relax at all.
Women should not think that men are willing to end their relationship outside and return to their family, but they feel that everything is going well.
Even if a man chooses to return to his family, there will still be many uncertainties, so you need to master the marriage management system, know how to manage marriage, and completely kill extramarital relationships.
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