It is said that every Chinese has such a group called "Love Family" .
cares for each other and helps each other. This is the ideal family look for most people.
However, in reality, most families are more like an "palace drama" : Hiding a knife in a smile, and the mechanism is all done.
Especially in the face of personal interests, the greed of human nature will be fully displayed.
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I saw a post posted by a netizen before, and I was particularly impressed:
My brother-in-law sold the house, and I said I would sell it to me for 500,000, but he wanted 550,000, but I didn't buy it. A month later, he actually sold it to someone else for 650,000 yuan, which was so unkind!
Some netizens commented: If you don’t take advantage, you will be angry!
People's hearts are often not easy to satisfy. Even if the transaction is 500,000 yuan, he may also think: Oh! It’s expensive to buy 500,000 yuan, so it should be sold to me at 450,000 yuan.
This is one of the reasons why many people are reluctant to sell their houses to their relatives.
There are also netizens who self-destructed their experience:
I have encountered it.
My relative lived in a house in my county town. I lived there for 10 years for free, but the rent was not paid.
Later, I wanted to sell the house because I was anxious to use money. After he learned about it, he wanted to buy it for 200,000 yuan. I agree.
He said he gave it to installment and added a sentence: The houses nearby are only sold for more than 100,000 yuan.
I was angry and sold 400,000 yuan to someone else.
Why do those relatives buy your house? Is it because they especially like your house?
obviously not!
Many relatives just rely on this relationship to take advantage of you.
If you don’t give up any cheapness, it means you are distracted and have no human touch.
And even if you are much cheaper than others, people will still not be satisfied and will only gain a better position.
So I think this brother-in-law's approach is right. He used the results to show his relatives that he could not sell his house. Not only did he sell it, but he also sold it at a good price.
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Some people used to not understand the meaning behind this behavior, and when they understand, they were already insiders.
A female netizen said that her family once wanted to buy a house for relatives. But not long after it was proposed, the relative sold it to someone else at a high price. Her parents also complained at the time why they didn't sell it to their house.
Later, her small house changed to a big house, and when her neighbor's son got married, she sold the house to them. As a result, the quarrel started over the housing payment and other issues, and the old neighbor who had been together for many years turned against each other.
She said that when she thinks back now, that relative lives clearly.
Another Guangdong netizen said:
is the same as what I encountered when I was a child.
htmlAround 396, my second uncle wanted to sell a house, and my mother wanted to buy it. The total price was 50,000 yuan, and it was still about 10,000 yuan short of it at that time. My family had a chicken farm at that time, selling eggs and grain from the field. It would definitely be given the same year, but my aunt did not agree and finally sold it to her neighbor for 48,000 yuan. Because of this, my mother ignored my uncle's family for a long time. It will only get better in the next few years.
The two in the story are brothers and sisters, and they have fixed economic income. They can pay the difference, so why do they still sell it to others at a low price?
From the perspective of probability, when a relative conducts real estate transactions, no matter whether the house rises or falls in the future, one party will feel uncomfortable.
The house has risen, and the old homeowner is unhappy; the house has fallen, and the new homeowner is unhappy.
This is easy to be unpleasant on both sides, and perhaps it is a wise choice to avoid it.
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3 If you don’t know how to reject relatives, you are destined to suffer a loss.
Zhang Yong shared his experience on social media.
There is a house in his hometown. My cousin wants to buy it. His parents thought that who would buy it is not a buy, but relatives would be better to buy it. It can enhance the relationship between the two families, so they agreed. When they were in a relative's case, they gave many discounts, which were tens of thousands of yuan cheaper than the market price. The total price is only more than 400,000 yuan.
However, this house payment is not paid in one lump sum.
At that time, his cousin said that he didn’t have that much money in his hand, so he could only take out 100,000 first, and pay back the remaining 300,000 in batches every year. Be careful, there is no interest. Zhang Yong’s father thought that they were all relatives and were afraid that you would not be able to escape, so he said yes.
just pays back tens of thousands every year. After three or four years of repayment, there are still more than one hundred thousand not paid back.
In addition, Zhang Yong's family is a small business. Due to poor management, he needs capital turnover. At first, his father was embarrassed to urge him to pay back the money, so he went to the loan and owed a lot of debt. I have been unable to turn around recently, so I have no choice but to let go and urge his cousin to pay back the money.
But unexpectedly, his cousin said: "Didn't it be enough to pay tens of thousands a year? I used all my money to lend, and I don't have money to you now."
Until the debt collector came to the door every day and was seen by my cousin, he believed that his family was really short of money.
After some noise, my cousin barely took out 30,000 yuan, saying that the rest would be owed and paid it slowly in the future. It is certainly unlucky to have such relatives stuck in
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But no matter how others treat you, you are essentially used to it.
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People are not satisfied with their hearts and snakes swallow elephants. Good things will be expensive, but when they are cheap, others will think that things are problematic.
, especially among relatives, many things are hard to explain.
So the smartest way is: brothers, settle accounts clearly.
If you want to sell the house to a relative, it is best to make a decision while ensuring that both parties are satisfied, explain the money clearly and sign the agreement well.
Because the problem you are facing at this time is not only whether you can sell a house, but also the possibility of losing a relative because of this house.
But from another perspective, it seems that it would not be such a bad thing if you can use this opportunity to eliminate the garbage relatives around you.
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