describes the unfathomable marriage so easily. Eternal yearning = encounter but hard to come by. All three are all, but they can't compare to two so-called best friends who are more poisonous than arsenic. My story was originally a trivial matter between husband and wife. The two arsenic poisons kept adding fuel to the fire, making my husband and wife want to divorce.
Have a child, and still need time to make friends with best friends? I am a child and I am very busy every day for money. How can I have time to play with my best friend? Will your best friend collect your body? It’s better to care less about other people’s affairs, especially if others have established a family, let alone care. Best friend is now a derogatory term, haha.
I am thinking, why do couples who can’t live with them? Restore freedom. . Wouldn’t you be tired if you hold on like this? I didn't understand before, but now after having children, I really live together to live, so what else can I do? . Freedom can be restored. There is no need to be with someone you no longer love. There is no complete love? Didn’t the author explain it very clearly? There are only these three values. At least the value of sleeping when you are old is greatly reduced. Where can I find true love? Isn't it better to be alone? Free and carefree. Can you say that you can suffer for your children? Have you lived with a strange and familiar person for decades? ? People have different choices, just follow their hearts, there is no right or wrong. By the way, many people endure their children's divorce after becoming adults, going to college, or getting married, usually only more than ten years. Yes, just follow your heart and be happy. Yes, anyone can live with him when he is away, but children cannot live with him when they are young. Where after
is gone? It will be the same after a few more years. One is the child, and the other is the division of property. It’s okay if you don’t have children, you can leave at any time. For the sake of the child, how can you leave casually? It’s okay if the child is grown up. If you are still young, it depends on whether you can get custody?
Just have a baby, but nothing else. If you think too much, there will be no feelings. Eat or sleep, and you have no need to chat. Can it be possible to communicate thoughts and feelings without chatting?
We have nothing but sleeping generally, and we also like to quarrel. As a single dog for 31 years, I still don’t understand what love is. Even if my family is anxious, I still have no intention or confidence to contact girls. None of them survives for the sake of the child. This kid explained the most complex problems simply and simply, and even grasped the core. In this era, a good couple relationship must be able to eat, sleep, and play. Have you eaten or spent your own money, have you sleep (you can't do it once a year), chat (you can't say a few words in a month), keep going, your physiological needs are basically based on your hands.
Impossible triangle of emotion △: economic value, emotional value, sexual value.
law 1: It is difficult to have three at the same time, and it is even more difficult to require the other party to have three.
Law 2: One of the values can usually be exchanged with the other, and it is difficult to exchange for the other two and maintain balance.
Law 3: Value co-creation is better than value exchange, which is extremely rare and most people have lost.
eat well, sleep soundly, chat happily [like] so well said! The essence of a marriage relationship is actually: two people can eat, sleep and chat every day!
eating = economic status, sleeping = physiological harmony, chat = spiritual resonance. As long as there is one of these three things, marriage can survive, two can be more stable, and three are hard to come by.
So, eating well, sleeping soundly, and chatting happily in your marriage life is the best day!
substantive summary. At a young age... I'm one year older than me, my name. What I said is just a matter of course. If you have to add something to your definition, I like what you said "everyday"! Day after day until year after year... As for a relationship that is deliberately maintained, it has already lost! If you can't control the time, you will be forced to do it. Leave it to it. One second slower, no one can define it. In the middle, try to understand gently. The essence is the beginning of oneself! If you don’t chat every day, you will be gone without sleeping every day, and you will be gone with eating every day. It seems like three, but in fact one is one.You didn't say whether the original family interferes or not! The last three are not the key points! The understanding is too shallow, the essence of marriage is: the state machine that protects private property. Marriage is given by the fate of parents or grandparents, 100% and definitely not by one's own destiny. A big mistake, the key is to have children! If that is easier, the easier it will be. As long as you can never get tired of each other and talk about each other, you will be a very qualified couple. [Yes]
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