Although love runs through a person's life, whether it is young, young or old, everyone hopes to be loved.
But in reality, love is not really important to many people.
Especially in middle age, people generally believe that men do not need love, or do not value love so much. For them, career development is more important at this time.
When there is a conflict between marriage and work, most people basically put their career first, and they will not spend a lot of energy and money to maintain their relationship with someone.
So people think that compared to middle-aged women, they are more trapped in love. In fact, when you truly understand the thoughts of many people, you will find that for middle-aged women, love is important, but it is more important to live a good life.
In the hearts of middle-aged women, family is more important than love.
Most middle-aged women may not have received the care of men and are just a title, but they did not choose to leave.
It’s not that she doesn’t need love, but that her family is important in her heart. If she can maintain this family for the sake of her children, as long as the other party doesn’t have to be overdoing it.
They can still continue like this, which is why many people still forgive their husbands after they find that they betray them.
Economy is one aspect and family is also one aspect. If it is because of love, they can leave it all.
Middle-aged women began to realize that they were also important
Many middle-aged women began to go out of their family life, and they didn't want to be so confused in the rest of their lives.
After half of their life and having experienced emotional baptism, they have taken the worldly love lightly and knew what they need.
"The Moon and Sixpence" says that love requires knowing how to show weakness, knowing timid and shy emotions, giving care and care to the other party, and giving and pleasing enthusiasm.
For middle-aged women, there are countless jobs and children waiting for her to take care of. At this time, love is more luxurious than any expensive bag.
She also wants to show weakness, but the burden and responsibility of life give her no chance to show weakness, and she also needs care and care.
If the people around her only need her to give, she doesn’t want to live by pleasing others all the time, and she has also become a self-satisfied person.
Faced with the so-called love, they began to be cautious
Not like young girls who can do whatever they want to do for so-called love words and promises.
For them, whether these so-called loves can really make her happy needs to be tested.
They need people to take care of, but they also need a sincere and stable life. This life is very good if you can give it.
She will go in both directions with you, but she will not lose herself for it.
They need love, but they want to live a good life. The happiness of this life is important to her, and you are just one of them.
Your departure will no longer have a great impact on her life, and will not make her panic and mess up like before.
From then on, her life was decided by herself.
