Sometimes after chatting with the other party for a while, I finally had the opportunity to get along with each other, and finally the other party agreed to be together, but the other party was reluctant to make their relationship public. He may tell you "When we are more stable, you will be public", "I don't like being gossiped about", "I don't like being too scattered"... and other statements, if you want to wait or convince you, don't make it public.
I think that in some cases I think low-key is not a bad thing. For example, when this disclosure will cause you to be troubled and hurtful, and you are verbally verbally verbally, or even physical violence may occur, then when you understand the situation with each other, being low-key is really a better choice.
For example, it is like the partner of well-known people such as the King of Heaven and Queen of Heaven. I often find that they may disclose their relationship or be married, but they will not publicly say who the other partner is, especially when the partner is outsiders, I can understand such a "protection" method.
But most people will not be surrounded by others after they disclose who their other partner is. The possibility that the other party is unwilling to disclose is that you are not worth it, and the other is that your relationship cannot be disclosed.
is not worth it, including that he doesn't like you so much, and making your relationship public has no "plus points" for him or even ruining his value. The most common relationship that
cannot be disclosed is that you become a third party or a fourth party without knowing it. This is definitely impossible for everyone to know. He will even deny your existence with other friends when you don’t know it. Another thing is that he actually wants to see if there are more opportunities to meet better people, so he is with you with the mentality of riding a donkey and looking for a horse.
Someone may ask, since that is the case, why agree to date? Usually it is because there must be something the other person wants in him, and to be more vernacular, there is some value in utilization.
And some people may also know that they do not want to be sneaky, but they are worried that the other party will be angry, quarrel with them, or fear that the other party will break up. Therefore, they would rather sacrifice themselves, but they must also think about it, if one day the situation that really does not favor him, will he be more "accustomed to" sacrificing his partner? And is this humble life what you want? Not only that, when you get used to being humble, it may also make the other party trampled on your own efforts even more.
Therefore, regardless of men or women, it is important to remember that only when you feel respected and cared about in the relationship and feel that your identities are equal rather than humble can your relationship last for a long time.
