Facing his father who came to the door, Zhu Jiajia only said: "If you repay grievances with kindness, how can you repay kindness? Receive straightness with straightness and repay kindness with kindness, you will know that there will be good and evil in the world."
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Zhu Jiajia, 34 years old, a teacher in a university, has a house, a car, and has a deposit and is still unmarried. It’s not that no one pursues her, but because her parents’ marriage makes her feel no love and fear of her. She was afraid that she would give her wholeheartedly like her mother, but she would betray her family and abandon her wife and daughter. She was afraid of meeting a husband who was like a father and turning her child into the second Zhu Jiajia.
She had been wet with the rain and would rather keep getting wet with the rain herself. She thought she was not good at managing a marriage, and she was not sure to manage a marriage well. Being single is the most ideal state that neither harms others nor herself. Of course, she doesn't think being single is definitely not good. In addition to running a business without worries, she has many other things to do, such as travel, painting, and dancing. She can do whatever she likes. Although her life is flawed, she also has time, space and more possibilities than housewives.
If there were no that father, Zhu Jiajia would think that her life is not bad now and she would probably be good in her later years.
Zhu Jiajia's father Zhu Dahai is 58 years old this year. He is diagnosed with lung cancer for three months. He is currently unemployed and lives on the savings he has left behind before. After learning that he had cancer, his girlfriend not only ignored him, but also sued him in the name of her younger daughter, demanding that he pay 180,000 yuan in one lump sum of child support and dividing the small house under his name.
Facing his girlfriend's aggressiveness, Zhu Dahai found Zhu Jiajia, his ex-wife's daughter. On the one hand, he hopes that Zhu Jiajia can treat him, and on the other hand, he also hopes that Zhu Jiajia can see him and give his half-sister some help, and it is best to adopt her as a sister.
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In Zhu Dahai's words, he knew that his girlfriend was not a serious person, and was worried that she would meet an unreliable man in the future, and that her youngest daughter would be bullied by a bad person. He believes that Zhu Jiajia has certain financial ability and has not been dragged down by her marriage. She can help take care of her sister and raise her sister to adulthood. Even if he leaves in the future, the two sisters can rely on each other.
Zhu Jiajia only found it ridiculous for her father Zhu Dahai’s request, because in her life and emotional world, there is no sister at all. Her relatives are only mothers, only grandparents and uncles and aunts who helped her raise her, and she only had one cousin.
20 years ago, Zhu Dahai, who was 38 years old at the time, had an affair with the divorced 39-year-old Hao Hongmei.
At that time, Zhu Jiajia was 14 years old and was in junior high school. Hao Hongmei's son is 13 years old and is also in junior high school, but Zhu Jiajia is in the city's focus. Hao Hongmei's son is in junior high school in the town, with average academic performance and causing trouble all day long.
Hao Hongmei applied for the job as a cleaner to the building where Zhu Dahai is located, and the area he is responsible for includes the company where Zhu Dahai is located. The two people knew each other after a while. Hao Hongmei envied Zhu Dahai's working environment very much. After learning that he was still a small supervisor, she admired him even more. Hao Hongmei is a woman with fair skin and big eyes. She always has a little seductive charm when looking at people. You have feelings, I have intentions, and two men and women with different goals quickly got together.
Zhu Dahai and Hao Hongmei have been secretly struggling for more than a year. Hao Hongmei, who confirmed that the time is ripe, directly stabbed the matter to Zhu Jiajia's mother. Zhu Jiajia's mother is an elementary school teacher. Although she is eloquent, she is limited to the class, facing Hao Hongmei, who is like a shrew and has no resistance.
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Even now, Zhu Jiajia doesn't understand why her father Zhu Dahai was fascinated by such a vulgar woman. In short, in order to protect her, her father can only see the difficulty of Hao Hongmei. Hao Hongmei's endurance of humiliation cannot see her mother's tolerance and her mother's efforts for the family, and even more so, her daughter's grievances.
In order to get divorced, her father had a fight with her mother for three years, and she also went from junior high school to high school. Because of her father and Hao Hongmei, she was criticized at school, and both her studies and personal psychology were affected. What made her even more sad was that during the three years when her father was divorced, he only tried to please Hao Hongmei, not caring about his life and his mother, and was not willing to pay even her tuition.
For her, my mother found a relationship and transferred her to boarding high school. She couldn't bear to let her down and could only turn all her attention to studying. In order to support her in school, her mother saved money and used her free time to set up stalls on the street. Originally, she was a woman who wanted to save face because her father cheated on her and wanted to support her daughter in school, and she threw all her face to the ground.
My mother waited for three years and tried to stay for three years, but her father was still entangled with Hao Hongmei.
In the year of freshman year, my father and mother divorced. At that time, both my mother and father were close to 40 years old.
When her father was 42 years old, Hao Hongmei said that she was pregnant. Her father proposed to get a marriage certificate, but Hao Hongmei refused, saying that she had made a vow that she would not get married without a child. For the sake of the child in Hao Hongmei's belly, the father found his mother and asked her to give up the wedding room. When his mother refused to agree, he would block people and make trouble in various ways, and even ran to his mother's unit to attack his mother.
Hao Hongmei's child in her belly was not saved. Her father did not say that it was because of her genetic problems or her youth. He insisted that her mother refused to let the house, and that her mother killed their child.
Perhaps it was for that house, Hao Hongmei got pregnant again regardless of her age, and her father became more and more serious for the child in her belly. In order to calm down, my mother had to sell the house, half of the money per person in order to get rid of her father and Hao Hongmei. My mother gave her the money for the sale of the house to be used for her to study. My father bought the small house now and wrote Hao Hongmei's name, but until now, Hao Hongmei has not married him.
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Hao Hongmei was almost 45 years old when she gave birth, and she was considered a standard elderly mother. Zhu Jiajia's father Zhu Dahai was already 44 years old. He was so fond of that little daughter when he was old. But anyone with a discerning eye can see that his youngest daughter is neither like him nor Zhu Hongmei. Someone joked that Zhu Dahai would do an paternity test . Zhu Dahai didn't believe it and thought it was normal for his daughter to be different from him.
In a blink of an eye, more than ten years have passed, and Zhu Dahai's daughter has grown to the age when Zhu Jiajia lost her father. I don’t know if it was God’s will, but Zhu Dahai was diagnosed with cancer, and his beloved young daughter was about to lose her father.
Zhu Dahai has not been doing well over the years. Although he has not married Hao Hongmei, he has been worried about Hao Hongmei's family affairs at all. He arranged for Hao Hongmei's son to get married, but the child was not doing it properly. Not long after marrying his wife, he was doing it outside like his mistress. Seeing this, the wife left a child and left. Hao Hongmei has to raise children and grandchildren, and her life is also bumpy. With Zhu Dahai here, she can earn two more money. Zhu Dahai is now sick and becomes a burden, so of course she has to get rid of him.
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house, she wants to fight for her son. She had to fight for the support for her daughter, but she didn't care whether Zhu Dahai was dead or alive. Zhu Dahai knew that Hao Hongmei was a person who couldn't live in idleness. She had been living with him for many years and had sex with other men outside. It was because of this reason that he did not get a marriage certificate with her.Now that he has cancer, what he is most worried about is that young daughter, who is worried that she will be bullied in the future without any support.
Zhu Dahai found Zhu Jiajia, which was helpless, but it was reasonable for Zhu Jiajia to not forgive him. In her life, from the moment her father Zhu Dahai cheated on her, she had no father. She was willing to provide him with food and drink, but she was spared from medical treatment and she didn't think that was the responsibility she should bear. If her father sued her, she would not even care about his minimum food and drink.
Facing the ruthless and innocent Hao Hongmei and his son, facing the ex-wife and daughter who hated and disliked him, Zhu Dahai did not regret it. Only he himself knew what it felt like. His original life was a mess by himself. Now that he is sick, he has to face not only his lonely and helpless old age, but also the dispute caused by the house and money. But who can blame this?
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