The happiest thing for a woman is to find a man who cares for her and then live a good life with respect and love. But good men are hard to come by. Some men act differently before and after marriage, so they live a very upset life.
Yunduo, who is not 26 years old, has only been married for a year, but her husband Li Qiang has a big difference before and after marriage. She has to use Yunduo's AA system everywhere. Yunduo said it can be AA system, but in the future, housework and childbirth will also need to be AA system.
The reason why Li Qiang proposed the AA system was because of his mother, Yun Duo's mother-in-law. This old lady is recognized as a scheming woman in the village, and no one who deals with her can take advantage of her. She asked Li Qiang to propose the AA system because she felt that Yunduo had a younger brother in her family, and was afraid that Yunduo would use money to subsidize his younger brother.
In fact, the old lady was thinking too much. Yunduo had a younger brother, but her parents had already bought a wedding house for her son, and the young man also had a good job and had a high income. It was impossible for him to live a life with his sister and brother-in-law.
Li Qiang is a high-spirited marriage to Yunduo. Li Qiang's family is in the countryside, and there is a younger brother and a younger sister in the family who are all in school. His parents have no job and rely on the weather to make a living, so they can only live a close life every year.
Li Qiang was a part-time job when he was in college, and he had to use his rest time to do part-time jobs every day. He earns his university tuition and living expenses through his own efforts, and he will send the remaining money to his family.
This is what Li Qiang’s mother is particularly proud of. She tells everyone that her son is capable and can make a fortune by relying on herself. In fact, she didn't know how difficult the money Li Qiang saved was.
Although Yunduo also has a younger brother, his parents treat them equally, and some younger brothers have many Yunduo. Yunduo also has the best food, clothing and use.
The reason why she was willing to marry Li Qiang was because she was attracted by Li Qiang's hard-working spirit.
When they were in college, they were classmates, and Li Qiang was the person with the least class time but the best grades. It seems that Li Qiang is rushing through every day. Yun Duo admires him very much and thinks he is an inspirational and responsible person.
But parents are not optimistic about Yunduo's choice because they are experienced people and they know how difficult it is to have an unfamiliar marriage.
However, a woman in love has zero IQ and cannot listen to any advice. In the end, she stubbornly married Li Qiang.
There are no flowers, no wedding house, no bride gifts, just Yun Duo’s wishful thinking and Li Qiang’s ulterior motives.
After getting married, Li Qiang did not pay his salary for several consecutive months and occasionally took on some living expenses. Yunduo thought there was something wrong with Li Qiang's unit efficiency, so he didn't think much about it.
It was not until Yunduo eavesdropped on the conversation between Li Qiang and his mother-in-law that he understood the reason.
It turns out that the mother-in-law taught Li Qiang not to hand over money to Yun Duo. The older man had to take charge of the money himself to be confident. He also said that if he gave it, he could only give half of it. The two of them had to live an AA life so that they would not lose money.
Yunduo was very angry when he heard this, and snatched his phone to his mother-in-law and said, "You are really working hard. You don't have a bride price when you get married, and you don't have a wedding room when you get married. You are still trying to guard against me at a little salary. Then, in the future, you have half of the housework and half of the baby." After saying that, he threw the pregnancy check-up form to Li Qiang.
When Li Qiang saw that he was going to be a father, he quickly apologized to Yunduo, but Yunduo refused to accept the apology. She said she could not accept that her man could live a life and was always on guard against herself. According to Li Qiang's AA system, she has completed half of the work now and Li Qiang will complete the remaining half!
Then Yunduo decisively filed for divorce to Li Qiang. After her mother-in-law found out, she came to visit Yunduo with gifts from all over the world, but no matter what she said, Yunduo no longer believed in this family.
at the end: Li Qiang and his mother were a little too dissatisfied. They married Yun Duo without paying a penny. After marriage, they still plotted against Yun Duo like this, not only did they have no conscience and no sense of responsibility.
If you want to manage a marriage well, not only should both parties trust each other but also work together. Everyone in the family has different roles and different efforts, but the credit is no matter how big or small.
If you only know how to beware of the other party, it is a torment to persevere in such a distrustful marriage. It is better to let go and give yourself freedom!
