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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional instructor, who writes heart-wrenching emotional texts, hoping to bring you some spiritual comfort with warm words.
Whether a woman has ever been in love, it doesn’t need to be tested, and you can judge it from the details of dating.
If a woman has been in love, she will not be nervous or shy when dating the opposite sex, and will act generously when getting along with each other, and will look relaxed and natural.
On the contrary, if a woman has never been in love and gets along with the opposite sex, she will definitely be nervous, easily shy, act very unnatural, and even a little helpless.
From this we can see whether a woman is in love or not, it can be seen from the signs in her, which is very obvious.
Especially those women who have been in love many times, they are particularly relaxed when dating the opposite sex, and have less expectations for love, but more rational and indifferent. Women like
have relatively rich love experience and are more familiar with men's thoughts, so they will not be too persistent.
When they love, they can give their sincerity. Once they don’t love each other, they can leave as soon as they say they don’t stick to it blindly.
If you take love indifferently, your mentality will be very calm and free. If you have too many experiences, you will truly grow and become mature.
As Zhou Guoping said: "I don't understand love without breaking up, and I don't understand life without frustration."
After all, women fall in love too many times, and the following three "signs" will become more and more obvious:
1. It is very rational about love and will not be moved easily
0. A woman has had many loves, and she will gradually grow up, and faces love with a more rational attitude.
Whenever a man comes to pursue him, they will not be moved easily, but will observe and understand the man more carefully to make sure he is sincere.
Before deciding to date, women will definitely maintain their principles, neither accept men's kindness nor have too much interaction with men.
They have been hurt in their relationship and have many painful memories. They are afraid of being let down again and dare not accept the pursuit of men easily.
Therefore, they act coldly in front of men and it is difficult for men to get close to them.
It’s not that they don’t want to fall in love, but that their past experiences have given them more rationality and will not rashly enter love without verifying the true heart of a man.
Colleague Xiaohui is beautiful and has been in love since college. When she started working, she has been in love three times.
Every time I fall in love, Xiaohui is very serious and devotes all her thoughts to her, hoping to fall in love with her boyfriend and get married.
However, Xiaohui is too simple, and her efforts are not cherished by her boyfriend, and she has been disappointed again and again.
The longest love is two years, and the shortest love is only three months. Finally, after experiencing the pain of love, Xiaohui dared not fall in love easily. Even if she meets a man who is moved, her inner feelings will quietly close.
So, when she meets the male colleagues around her pursue, she acts very cold and hardly lets them get close.
She is very rational and will not be as blind as she used to be. No matter how sincere the man is, she is not moved.
So, A woman has experienced many loves, she will become very mature, not a young and ignorant girl .
In front of men, they are very sure that everything will follow their hearts. If they cannot feel the true heart of men, they will not be able to interact. They are very principled and difficult to be moved.
2. Pay attention to reality and no longer believe in sweet words
After women have been in love many times, the most obvious change for them is to value reality and no longer believe in sweet words of men.
Once upon a time, they fell in love seriously and devoted themselves to it, but did not exchange for the love they wanted, but were disappointed by men, which gave them unforgettable reflection and awakening.
So, they become very realistic. If men refuse to give and don’t give them what they want, but they won’t get into easily.
In their opinion, the love words in men's mouths are unreliable. 's ethereal promises cannot withstand the test of reality .
Therefore, they feel that no matter how beautiful love words are, they cannot match money and material things.
It’s like this. They gradually learned to measure men’s sincerity by economic conditions. If men confess their love to them without actual actions and without any effort, they will definitely refuse directly.
There is a saying that goes: "Friends cannot drink enough water."
No matter what kind of love is, it cannot be separated from the support of basic material. If love is to be stronger, it must require a certain economic foundation.
This is an experience and summary that women have only gained after experiencing many loves. They have learned to make choices and after falling and frustration, they understand what is the most important thing in love.
Many men say that women have become realistic, but they have never thought about the reasons behind this. The reason why they do this is nothing more than the pain of being worried about gains and losses in their relationship and being disappointed by men again and again.
Therefore, if a woman falls in love too many times, they invisibly understand the importance of the economic foundation and think that money is more reliable than love.
Women like this have too many stories and too many sadness in their hearts. If a man pursues them, they dare not bet on their youth. If a man does not have strong financial strength, they would rather not love him.
3. I have a clear mind about intimacy and no longer simple
A woman who has never been in love must be very simple. She always looks forward to a beautiful love in her heart and looks forward to meeting the prince charming in her heart.
A woman like this will be very reserved in front of men and it is difficult to let go. She likes to blush and shyly. A word, a smile, and an inadvertent holding of hands will be bumped into the deer, sweet and emotional.
However, when women fall in love many times, they will not be like this simple, but will become very mature and generous.
When getting along, this kind of woman is very relaxed, her words and deeds are casual, and she lacks the reserve and shyness of a woman.
They are open to intimate relationships. can love when they love them, and can leave when they don’t.
They will not get entangled with men. They have already seen through the breakup and reunion in their relationship. There are no too many constraints. They are more about enjoying love, rather than having to take the man responsible.
Zhang Xiaoxian said: "Love has always been a matter of twists and turns. I have never been abandoned or hurt. How can I understand love? Love is an experience, I hope people will last forever."
Women have experienced a lot, and become more and more mature, and have a deeper understanding of love. If they see everything, they will naturally immerse themselves in intimate relationships and no longer be bound by morality.
When they have not met true love, they have learned to enjoy the joy brought by love. Once they truly meet a good person, they will firmly move on in love.
Women who have no love experience will definitely put the man in charge once they fall in love, especially when the man does not meet the standards of inner expectations, they will definitely make trouble and hold on to the man.
But women who have experienced a lot are different. They know how to understand their lovers. If the two decide to continue, they will sincerely deliver them. Once the man keeps something, they also know how to fulfill each other and leave quietly.
has no burden to each other, and in close relationships, it is easier to integrate and separate . This is the essential difference.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
In summary, women fall in love too many times, these three "signs" will be obvious:
is very rational about love and will not be easily moved; value reality, no longer believe in sweet words; be open to intimate relationships, no longer simple.
It can be seen that love often makes women grow up. When they experience the ups and downs of love, their body and mind will become mature.
They gradually realized that love is not smooth sailing, but accompanied by pain and regret, and they have to learn to compromise.
As Zhang Xiaoxian said:
"I thought love could fill the regrets of life, but what creates more regrets is love. The weather is full and waning, and it keeps repeating in a love story. If someone else is gone, it will not always be blue."
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