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The father of a woman in Shangqiu, Henan was paralyzed in bed. In order to take care of her father, she gave up her happy marriage and prosperous career. How is she like who is nearly 40 years old this year? Has her father's health improved?
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This woman is called Xiaocao . She is a hard-working girl. After she graduated from school, she found a salesperson and visited dozens of customers every day. After get off work, she would also go to the market to find more customers. With this job attitude, she was valued by the company's boss. However, in more than a year, she took up the management position and gained her own love. Her boyfriend was her colleague. The two of them fell in love with each other day and slowly got together.
After dating for a while, they have regarded each other as their only ones, and have met each other's parents, and soon they will reach the stage of discussing marriage. This period of time has also become the happiest memory of her life, but fate played a big joke with her. When she was both successful in her career and love, she ushered in bad news.
That day, she went to work in the company as usual. During her lunch break, she received a call from her neighbor. The neighbor told her that her father fell down from the upper floor and was covered in blood. The situation was very serious and had been sent to the hospital, so she asked her to come to the hospital quickly. After hearing that her father had an accident, Xiaocao felt as if she had entered an ice cellar and felt chill all over. She immediately explained the situation to her superiors, and then took a taxi to the hospital. When she arrived at the hospital, her father was still undergoing surgery in the emergency room, and she was anxiously waiting outside the emergency room.
After more than half an hour, the doctor finally came out of the rescue room. The doctor told Xiaocao that her father was out of danger of life, but his spinal injury was too serious. could only lie in bed in the future. When Xiaocao heard the news, she burst into tears in a collapse. She didn't know what to do next. At this time, her boyfriend rushed over. After learning about this, he did not give up on Xiaocao, but held her in his arms to comfort her. After Xiaocao's mood stabilized, he suggested that Xiaocao send his father to a nursing home and ask a special caregiver to take care of his father, so that Xiaocao can continue his career and his father can also be well taken care of.
boyfriend's suggestion is very reasonable, but Xiaocao shook her head after hearing this. She didn't want to be separated from her father. After saying this, she went to her father's ward to take care of her father. After her father's situation stabilized, Xiaocao went to the company to complete the resignation procedures, and then asked her boyfriend to break up with her. . Her boyfriend still wanted to keep her, but Xiaocao had decided, and the sweet love between them could only end regretfully.
After doing this, Xiaocao returned to the hospital to take care of her father. In order to treat her father, Xiaocao took out all her savings, but her father's condition was too bad. Xiaocao's savings were not enough to pay the treatment fee. In desperation, Xiaocao could only sell the only house in her family for money . Later, she found her relatives and friends to borrow money, and then she could only make up the surgery fee.
After my father was discharged from the hospital, Xiaocao took his father back to his rental house to take care of him. In order to facilitate her father, she found a job nearby. had to get up at six o'clock every day to make breakfast for her father . During lunch break, she immediately returned home from work to feed her father, and after finishing, she returned to the company to work.
Every night, Xiaocao has to help his father massage his legs and wipe his body, but his father's body is more than 150 kilograms. Every time he helps his father turn over, Xiaocao is so tired that he sweats all over. Seeing that Xiaocao is so hard, his father felt very distressed, and he asked Xiaocao to send himself to the nursing home several times.But Xiaocao was very stubborn. She was worried that her father would be lonely in the nursing home alone. She was also afraid that the nurse would not take good care of her father. Because of this, the father and daughter often burst into tears. After Xiaocao cried for a while, she would wipe the tears and take care of her father with a smile on her face, and her father no longer said discouraged words.
The relationship between father and daughter touched the people around her, and she was also very curious why Xiaocao didn’t send her father to a nursing home? Xiaocao smiled embarrassedly at this. She felt that these were what she should do. Her father raised her with great difficulty alone because she also sacrificed a lot. If she had no father, she might not have existed in this world for a long time.
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What does Xiaocao mean? Is there any touching story between her and her father?
Xiaocao's parents are an ordinary farmer. Although their family is barely empty, their parents love Xiaocao very much. Although their lives are very difficult, the family of three is very happy. But this happiness did not last long. When Xiaocao was still young, her mother died of illness. After her mother left, Xiaocao's father did not marry a new wife, but worked hard to support the children. In order to make more money, Xiaocao's father had to choose to work farther away. Xiaocao had no choice but to send it to his neighbor's house and ask his neighbor to take care of him.
But this method is never a long-term solution. When Xiaocao's father was thinking about what to do next, the neighbor called him. Xiaocao had a fever, was hot all over, and was very confused. After hearing this, he was so anxious that he immediately took leave and returned home from the construction site to take care of his daughter himself. He gave Xiaocao a fever-reducing medicine, but it was not effective at all. Xiaocao started to talk nonsense when he was burned. He anxiously sent Xiaocao to the hospital. When the doctor saw Xiaocao, he was also shocked and immediately treated the child.
After working hard, Xiaocao's temperature finally dropped. Seeing this, the doctor and Xiaocao's father both breathed a sigh of relief. The doctor told him that it was fortunately delivered in time. If is a little later, Xiaocao will burn it to a fool at the least, and at worst, it will be in danger of life. Xiaocao's father was also scared after hearing this. no longer dared to hand over Xiaocao to others to take care of . In order to facilitate the care of his children, he found a job near his home. Although he earned a lot less money, it could at least support his daily food and clothing.
A few years later, Xiaocao reached the age when it was time to go to school, and their daily expenses became more. In order to collect Xiaocao's tuition, he went to work a little further. In order to make more money, he rarely rested. Others were on vacation and he was still working. Xiaocao knows the situation at home, is very sensible and filial. He spends time at home doing housework and farm work, reducing his father's pressure, and studying very hard. He has excellent grades in , and is in the top ten in the grade. He is every time.
After entering junior high school, Xiaocao's study expenses became more and her father became busier. Looking at her hard-working father, Xiaocao felt very uncomfortable. At this time, an idea came to her mind. After hesitating for a while, Xiaocao found her father, said that she didn't want to study anymore, she wanted to go out to work . Her father felt very complicated when he heard these words. He knew that Xiaocao was feeling sorry for him and wanted to reduce his burden.
father is serious enough to let Xiaocao study hard, strive to go to a good university, and find a job with good salary after graduation, which is considered to be a relief for himself. Going out to work now will make his previous efforts in vain. After hearing this, Xiaocao nodded and no longer made any comments about dropping out of school and working. She became more diligent in her studies. After graduating from junior high school, she relied on her own efforts to get into a key high school, , and the head teacher knew about Xiaocao's family situation, so she helped her apply for a subsidy and reduced part of the fees. With the help of the teacher, Xiaocao's father was much less stressed.
After three years of hard study, Xiaocao got a good grade and a good university, which put a perfect end to his high school. Xiaocao did not immerse herself in joy for too long. After resting at home for a week, she went to work part-time to make money and earn living expenses for herself. After entering university, Xiaocao did not slacken at all. She studied hard every day. With her excellent grades, she won many scholarships. She was not idle in her spare time and used her part-time job to make money, becoming the desperate Thirteen Niang in the eyes of her classmates.
When the university was about to graduate, Xiaocao's tutor thought she was very outstanding. suggested that she study for graduate school and improve herself . Maybe there is still a chance to study abroad in the future. These words made Xiaocao very moved, but when she thought of her hard-working old father at home, she still rejected the tutor's proposal. After getting her graduation certificate, she began to submit her resume and look for a good job. Xiaocao received many offers, but in the end she chose to become a salesperson because she was so sleepy that she made money faster in this profession. As long as she was willing to work hard, she could get tens of thousands of salary in the first month of , so that her father could enjoy a happy life earlier. After that, as Xiaocao planned, she earned more than 10,000 yuan a month, and her father no longer went out to work. She thought her life would get better and better, but she didn't expect her father to accidentally get paralyzed in bed. In order to take care of her father, she gave up a lot of things and her own happiness.
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Before she knew it, she was almost 40 years old. How is the current situation of this father and daughter?
At first, Xiaocao was not skilled in taking care of her father. Every time she wiped her father's body, it was already dark. Now Xiaocao is very skilled. After taking care of her father, she still has most of her time to be busy with her own affairs. In order to help his father recover, Xiaocao would take two hours to massage his father's legs for two hours after getting off work. The reason for this is that massage can stimulate blood circulation and stimulate the nerves in the legs.
Seeing that Xiaocao is getting older and older, relatives are very worried about her lifelong affairs, so they ask the matchmaker to help her see the man. Xiaocao is beautiful and filial, and many people have a good impression of her , but when they hear that she has a paralyzed father, they backed down, otherwise they would ask Xiaocao to send her father to a nursing home.
of course Xiaocao refused to agree. If she really wanted to send her father away, she would have done this many years ago, and slowly no one would show her good feelings. Her father felt very distressed about this and felt that he had become a burden to his daughter. However, he did not express this emotion, but cooperated more actively with the treatment plan formulated by the doctor. After years of treatment and cultivation, my father's body has recovered some perception. Although he can't get out of bed, he can still turn over. This has increased confidence and hope for both the father and daughter. is less bitter and sweeter, and is a little more sweet.
Xiaocao knew that father would one day leave her and she would become alone, so she filmed her and her father's daily life into a video and shared it online. In the future, she could still recall the past time with her father. After Xiaocao's video was shared online, it attracted the attention and extensive discussion of many netizens. Most netizens praised Xiaocao for being filial, but some netizens questioned it, thinking that Xiaocao was doing a show and was selling miserable, with the purpose of gaining attention and gaining traffic.
Fortunately, Xiaocao is not a person with a fragile heart. She shared the story of herself and her father and told them the reason why she did not send her father to a nursing home. Her approach has won praise from many people. The story of Xiaocao and her father has attracted the attention of many caring people. Some people contacted Xiaocao and expressed their willingness to fund her and let her and her father move to a better place to live. Some even wanted to donate money to Xiaocao, but Xiaocao refused.
Xiaocao feels that he has good limbs, no problem with intelligence, no problem with making money to support his family, and this is what he should do. Now Xiaocao has paid off all the debts with his own efforts, and has also made his own self-media account . He can make money and reduce the pressure of life. Seeing Xiaocao's life getting better and better, netizens are very happy.
From Xiaocao, we see the filial piety as a child. After the father had an accident, she dared to give up the career and love she already had and took care of her father personally. If it were someone else, she might not be able to do this. Of course, Xiaocao's father is also a person full of responsibility . When his family was so poor that he couldn't bear to lose his temper, he did not let Xiaocao give up his studies and work, but did his best to let Xiaocao study with peace of mind and change his destiny with knowledge.
The relationship between parents and children is the simplest and purest . They do not seek rewards, but only ask for a clear conscience. However, there are also examples of father and son turning against each other in reality. The famous military strategist Liu Bocheng was once betrayed by his son Liu Juntai. For money, Liu Juntai sold his father's whereabouts to the police station. If the central government had not responded in time, Liu Bocheng might have lost his life.
So the relationship between Xiaocao and his father is very rare. I hope Xiaocao can find his own happiness as soon as possible, have his own family and children, and let his father hold his grandson as soon as possible.
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