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Since relatives come from different families, they also have different interests. If they live together, they will inevitably take the lead in taking into account their respective interests. Verbal disputes or economic disputes will occur from time to time. The price paid is to consume the previously accumulated family affection.
1. There will be differences in the living habits of relatives
Different living habits can be tolerated in a short period of time. If you live together for a long time, there will be a variety of frictions, and there will be differences in eating habits and work and rest habits. Moreover, relatives have different measures of home hygiene, either they are not aware of cleaning up hygiene or they are willing to create garbage. In the long run, there will inevitably be complaints between relatives. Originally, they were kind-hearted and kind to let their relatives live at home, but their relationship with relatives was downhill. Both parties will never agree with each other's living habits, which deteriorated into the fact that both parties did not agree with each other. Although you have paid a lot, the relatives did not appreciate it, and instead they repay their kindness with grudges.
2. Relatives will lose their words when they live together, and chatting cannot be fully covered from beginning to end.
When relatives do not live together, they meet each other in a limited number of times a year. Even if they meet occasionally, they will talk about carefully selected topics. Often, before the carefully selected topics are finished, the meeting will come to an end, and the relatives will get together and part. If relatives live together, sooner or later, the carefully selected topics will be over, and the carefully selected topics will cause hidden dangers of losing words. Anyone who says something inappropriate, whether it says too much or too little, is a mistake and mistake. Even if you speak unintentionally, your relatives will sound intentional. Although what you say is not malicious, and although the starting point of what you say is for the good of your relatives, relatives may take it out of context and then interpret it over-explain, simply treating your kindness as a donkey's liver and lungs.
3. Relatives don’t know how to cherish you without reservation, and they don’t think about rewards and are insatiable.
Living with relatives is the beginning of trouble. If you take the initiative to pay for your relatives, you thought your relatives would reciprocate, but you didn’t expect that your relatives would take your efforts as cost, especially when your relatives live in your house, it will become even worse. The more you give, the more your relatives will take it as if they are right. When you interrupt your efforts, your relatives will turn around, as if you owe something. Typically, you are promoted to Mien and fight against Mien. In addition, relatives will often interfere in your family affairs, either talking too much or pointing fingers. The various situations at home will be heard and witnessed by relatives. They will be unfree when they say something at home, and will be uncomfortable when they do something at home. Since living with relatives, the free space in the home will no longer exist, and the unrestrained atmosphere will disappear.
Conclusion: Relatives don’t live together easily, just because they are still far away and smelly. Only by maintaining the distance they should be able to produce beauty. At least every time they meet, there will be freshness and enthusiasm.
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