My name is Xiaoqin, I am 35 years old this year. My husband and I met on a blind date in our hometown. We had basically no basic relationship and could not withstand the urge to get married at home. We finally chose to marry him. I got married after a month of knowing each other, which can be regarded as a "flash marriage". After marriage, my ex-husband was very nice to me and handed over all my monthly salary to me. I always think of me at the first time if I have anything. I can say that I love me very much. Although he treats me well, I can't accept him in my heart.
When we got married, we agreed to sleep with our own sleep three months before, and only if I had him in my heart after three months could I sleep together. He was very obedient. We had been sleeping in separate rooms for those three months. When family members asked about it, he would also help me with cover.
We still slept in separate rooms after half a year of marriage, and my mother-in-law was anxious. Because the villagers who married us at that time were pregnant, and I haven't made any noise yet. So my mother-in-law asked her ex-husband to take me to the hospital for examination. When I found out, I was very angry, and had a big fight with them, packed up and went back to my parents' home.
On the first day of returning home, my mother was still standing by my side to protect me. Later, she heard that we had not slept together for half a year after we got married, so she was so angry that she was admitted to the hospital. My brother and sister-in-law also said it was my fault and advised me to go back and live a good life. He happened to pick me up, so I followed him back. He was still kind to me as always, and I began to accept him slowly.
The next year, I gave birth to a boy for him. He was filled with joy and said that he wanted to let us mother and son live a better life. In order to make more money, he went to work in Jiangsu when his child was 6 months old. At first we were in contact often, but later he switched to a long-term night shift, so we had less contact and gradually became distant.
Once the child was feeling unwell and I wanted to take him to a hospital in the county for examination. Our place is remote, and there is only one bus to and from the county town a day. Unfortunately, when we arrived at the station, the shuttle bus had already set off. Seeing that the child was uncomfortable and uncomfortable, the car left again, I hugged the child and cried anxiously on the side of the road. At this time, someone patted me on the shoulder and I saw that it was a man in his 30s. I hurriedly walked away with the child in my arms, and the man said, "Big girl, why are you crying? Can you tell me what happened?"
I didn't think he looked like a bad person, so I told him that I wanted to go to the county town to check the child's health, but the shuttle bus had already been departed today. After hearing this, he said, "It's such a coincidence that I'm going to go to the county town, so I'll take you with you." I hesitated for a moment, but I had to go for the sake of the child. I told him repeatedly that I would give him the fare. He smiled and said nothing. In this way, we got into his car and went to the county town.
After I arrived at the hospital, I gave him the fare, but he didn't ask for it, saying that I would keep it for the child to see the doctor first. Seeing that I was very unfamiliar with the hospital, I helped me register and pay the fee, I was very moved. After the child was finished checking, I wanted to invite him to dinner. He said there was something urgent, so we left each other's phone number and he went to work hard.
One day I suddenly received a call from him and he came to our town and asked if I had time to have a meal. Without thinking, I agreed to him that I could repay the favor I owe him last time. I arranged the child and went to the town to find him. During the meal, we all drank some wine. He said he couldn't drive anymore and asked me to help him find a place to stay. After checking out a room for him, I told him that I was going home. He took advantage of the alcohol to pull me into his arms, and kissed me with the flow. After struggling for a few times, I completely fell into his tenderness. That night, he told me that I was moved when I first saw me. He and his wife also met on blind dates and had no feelings for each other. They are now having a divorce. Maybe it was because I had the same experience, so I felt sorry for him. He would come to me every now and then, and I fell in love with him unknowingly.
He said he would marry me when he divorced, so I took it seriously. So I told my husband that we were not suitable for us and I wanted to get a divorce. My husband agreed without saying anything. I called him to tell him that I was divorced. He was not as happy as I thought. He just said he was busy and called me again in the evening.At night, I called him, but he didn't answer. Then I sent me a message: Sorry, I can't divorce and marry you, my company still has to rely on my wife's house to continue to develop... After seeing this message, I collapsed to the ground. I divorced for him, but he rejected my love for the sake of benefit. This is the price I paid for love on my impulse, and I really regret it to death. It is impossible to go back to my husband's house, and the rest of my life can only go on the road by myself. I hope you take me as a warning and don’t easily divorce for extramarital affair.
