Love is an eternal eternity.
No matter how many years ago, our ancestors and generations of people have pursued love, and have been crazy and crazy about love.
Whether it is the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl, Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai , they are all unswerving in true love until death.
Their love story is heroic. Although the ending did not come true, I did not regret going through fire and water, which is heroic and sad.
The ending of Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai's "-turning butterfly " witnesses the great power of love and people's persistent pursuit of beautiful things.
Once you are moved, once you identify a person, you will be determined without hesitation. No matter how difficult it is, you will not change your own feelings.
In a relationship, love and not love are completely different.
In love with love, you will care, take care of, accompany, give and give.
Moreover, everything is proactive and willing.
And in the relationship without love, there is only indifference, just perfunctory, and even impatient.
And even if you don’t give you anything, I still feel that I’ve given you too much and think that you are very material.
So it is still obvious whether a person loves you or not. Especially, if you have these three "active" people, you must love you very much.
Take the initiative to accompany you, that is the guardian of love
A person who is not free for you is never really free, but is unwilling to have free for you.
A person who always tells you that he is not free can only mean that he doesn’t love you.
Everyone’s time is limited; everyone also has time.
only see, who is his time willing to be assigned to. That is to say, who is most important to him.
A person who loves you and values you very much will naturally put you first and is willing to allocate time to you.
No matter how busy you are, you will take time to stay by your side.
If you are not busy, you are more willing to stick to your side and be with you all the time.
To put it bluntly, everyone is willing to be with the person they like and with the person they love.
That is a kind of beauty. Time will become sweet and will be surrounded by a romantic atmosphere.
Actively accompanying is a kind of protection of love. If you are by your side, you will feel at ease and peace of mind.
takes the initiative to give, that is the recognition of love
Without love, there is no effort, let alone giving.
people are all selfish, and no one will willingly give to others unless that person is his lover.
Only when you fall in love with someone, especially when loving the other person is better than loving yourself, will you be willing to give, and you are selfless and rewardless.
When you feel that the other person is very stingy with you and gives you nothing, to put it bluntly, he just doesn’t love you, and he loves himself more.
And a person who loves you sincerely will put you first, will give you his goodness, will care about you and take care of you, and will even give you his money.
He loves you and will give you everything as much as possible, and I wish I could give you everything.
And he is also worried that he will not give you enough. The kind of giving of
is a kind of heart-to-heart, a kind of heart-to-heart relationship, and a kind of self-sacrifice for love.
takes the initiative to give, that is the recognition of love. If you recognize yourself in your heart, you are the person he should cherish and cherish in his life.
takes the initiative to approach, that is the love that cannot be controlled
Yesterday, a fan consulted me and said that her husband always hides from her far away. If she doesn't approach her, she will be pushed away even if she takes the initiative to approach. What's going on?
I told her that this is a repulsive, even disgust in her heart, so she would do this.
All actions of a person are manifestations of inner activities and a reflection of emotions.
The person who physically resists you will definitely resist you psychologically, and will not allow you to get close to you at all, let alone take the initiative to get close to you.
And a person who truly loves you will be close to you involuntarily, hoping to stick to you and keep the closest physical distance from you.
Two people are together, and they will involuntarily hold your hand, hold your waist, or touch your hair.
It is a physical interaction, a way of communication of emotions, and a silent flirting.
The person who loves you just likes to sit next to you and get close to you.
Even when watching TV, I am willing to sit next to you, or even lean on you on your own initiative.
takes the initiative to approach, that is, the approach of the heart, the love cannot help but be involuntarily.
true love is not in the mouth, but in the heart.
The person who loves you may not necessarily cry out for love you, but the love for you must be hidden in the action. The most obvious feature of all actions in
is initiative.
Those who love you will take the initiative to accompany you, give actively, approach you actively, put you first from beginning to end, and be happy for you from beginning to end.
Being with a person who doesn’t love you will not only suffer and torture, but it can also be said to be chronic suicide.
Life is so short, you must be with the person who loves you. It is not only happiness, but also the best health preservation.
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Author: Chu Lanqi, a writer who keeps writing.
May you find warmth and belonging in my text, thank you for your attention.
