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In the relationship that Ma Er cannot handle properly, the most important thing is to have a father. I don’t even know where to start, but once I made my sister unhappy about it, so I was not allowed to talk about my father. She said. Ma Er has experienced a lot of stubbornness about women, but he is still a little annoyed. He resists explaining to her that it is not right to the right thing or the wrong person does not mean denying Balabala. It seems that my sister is somewhat relieved. In fact, Ma Er thought to himself, at least I don’t need you to forgive me for this matter, right? He didn't say anything heavier. Indeed, the family always loves and fights each other, why bother to dig out the other's painful feet? As we get older, it is difficult to meet each other, and we have made subtle changes and hopes for the way we get along. Every time I talk about my brother-sister relationship with my wife, I always choose the warmth part. Even when she pretends to step on her brother's chest for her current husband, it is a good memory. It’s probably because of the similar age. Now it seems to be getting much better. I even licked my face and asked for a birthday gift. The first in more than a decade?
But my father is in trouble. For example, this summer, he stayed in the hospital for a long time and was finally discharged from the hospital. He complained that the doctor was not good, saying that his knees were not strong enough, and he was looking forward to a different hospital. Ma Er said, that's aging, what should I do? Why don’t you wait until this wave of epidemic passes and go to my sister’s place (the city where she is located) to take a look? I was actually warm in my heart. Later I thought about it, my words were still a bit cruel. Who would accept aging and there was no way? Ma Er knew it well and knew that he should express it in another way, but he didn't. When I got home a few days ago, I met my father walking in front. Ma Er quickly helped him open the elevator in two steps and turned to look at him. My father raised his head and expressed his intention of saying hello. Then he habitually lowered his body and walked over step by step. His knees looked so light and his stride was so small. Ma Er suddenly remembered Mrs. Little Foot! But from entering the elevator to leaving, neither the father nor the son spoke, and maybe he didn't look at each other again, right? I don’t know what my father thought, but in fact, Ma Er is evading communication with his father.
In the words of Ma Er, it is: As long as you say a few more words to him, he will interfere in your life. Every child refuses this, right? My sister is 40 years old this year. Every time she comes back, she sits in the living room, and she is still calling her parents. She occasionally writes a few lines of words and pushes them to her father. Whenever this happens, Ma Er will quietly sigh: It’s great to raise a daughter! Every time my wife laughs and says she won’t raise another sister? No matter how joking is, after all, living on a roof for so many years, Ma Er knows his shortcomings in these aspects. For example, when his son Mo Ming felt wronged a few years ago and said that he just wanted to cry for a while, Ma Er would smile and nod, not just saying that a man would do whatever he wanted. As for whether a man should reveal his emotions? It’s hard to say, maybe it’s just right? However, it seems to be bad in childhood education. There is a saying that men are more accustomed to walking side by side. Looking back, it was true at least for many years.
At some point, habits are really annoying. Recently, at one or two o'clock in the morning, I would hear my father walking around, from the kitchen to the living room. I don't know why? He had never asked, and Ma Er was lying on the bed waiting for the voice to disappear by himself. It’s not that I’m not curious, but I feel inexplicably unable to disturb me. Everyone has the time to close their own world. Of course, Ma Er's father stayed a little too long! Twenty years or thirty years? I never forgot that one day my father came back in anger and asked Ma Er to break up with those relatives immediately! Who is right and who is wrong? At least in Ma Er's eyes, the question is why people are knocked down by a trivial matter, especially after experiencing half of their lives? This is what Ma Erbai can't figure out, and it is also the fundamental reason for the alienation of father and son? Haha, of course you love, but you can't love like your sister long ago; as for hatred, it doesn't matter, but maybe? I also want to guess whether my sister will have hatred? Haha, it is said that in terms of daily gender relationships, women always play the role of output.
