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Introduction:
A 50-year-old woman said: "I originally had a happy family, but my marriage and family became fragmented because of my reasons. After my son went to college, I divorced my husband despite opposition, but after only 3 months, I regretted it. My husband refused to be with me. I really took it upon myself. The most wrong thing I have done throughout my life is to divorce my husband." What kind of thing is it? Let’s take a look at Ms. Li’s story together.
Self-reporter: Ms. Li 50 years old
I am 50 years old this year and am an ordinary worker. The job I do is business after-sales service. The work is not very busy. Our department has many female colleagues, so we often chat together. Although the work is boring, we are still very happy to chat with colleagues often. When I have any work, I will tell my husband that I got married earlier. I married my husband when I was 24 years old.
My husband is a very ordinary man. He is a rural man. However, after school, he stayed in the city to work. He is an automobile structure designer. His daily work is mental work. My husband is a typical science man. He is very capable and active in work, but he just talks little and does not know how to be romantic. He doesn’t know how to buy me some gifts during festivals. Anyway, our lives are very dull.
On ordinary days, there are always some things that happen. There are more women in the places where there are many things. My female colleagues are talkative and always like to talk, and some people like to show off. They are the cosmetics or clothes that their husbands buy for them, and they will tell everyone. At first, I thought they were bored, but later when I listened to them, I would have some other thoughts in my heart.
The feeling that my husbands are very romance, they also know that they love their wives, and they can buy some gifts or clothes. My husband and I have been so many years, but we have never got anything. Our lives are dull and we have no passion at all. Whenever we think of these, I feel a little uncomfortable. As a woman, why am I worse than them? This is not something that should be done.
Later, when I returned home, I felt angry every time I saw my husband, so I often got angry with him. I also pointed out my husband indirectly, but he didn't understand what I meant at all. He always lived in his own world. It was so boring. We often quarreled over trivial matters, which led to our relationship getting worse and worse, and even had a cold war for several days.
Later, when I was attending an event, I met a man who was kind and gentle. The point was that he could say some sweet words and always praised me. We had many common topics. Later, we often went out to eat with him. In short, we were very happy when we chatted together. Every time we came home and saw my dull husband, the good mood disappeared in an instant. I don’t know why this feeling always appears.
I gradually realized that my feelings for my husband have gradually disappeared, but instead I fell in love with that man. I wanted to file for divorce with my husband and be with that man. To be honest, my idea was particularly strong at that time, but my child was facing the college entrance examination at that time. I didn’t want to disturb the child who was preparing for the exam, so I thought about filed for divorce with my husband after the child was admitted to college, so I decided that I would like to file for divorce with my husband.
Half a year later, my son was admitted to a key university, so I filed for divorce with my husband, but my husband didn't want to divorce me. He begged me not to leave him. I really can't forget that look in my life, but I have made up my mind and divorced my husband. The next day I moved to a new man I met, thinking about looking for my brand new life.
But what I didn't expect was that this man didn't love me at all. At first, he borrowed 50,000 yuan from me and agreed to give it to me half a month later, but after a month, there was no movement. Later, he never went home and was always wandering around outside. After inquiring, I realized that he didn't have a serious job at all. He just relied on his own mouth and always coaxed women. I realized that I was cheated, and I was so sad.
I decided to separate from him and return to my husband, but when I went back, my husband didn't like me at all, and he didn't want to get back with me at all. Now I have no money and no family. I am really miserable. The thing I have done the last regret in my life is to divorce my husband. I am even collapsed now and don't know what to do next.
Today's topic:
Honey couple has gone through many spring and autumn together. The relationship between them is the most important thing. Don't always envy other people's lives. Maybe other people's lives are full of ups and downs, but we don't know. It's already difficult for them to maintain their own marriage. Don't do things that hurt their marriage, otherwise they will regret it in the future.
Do you think Ms. Li should remarry her husband after she comes back? If it were you, would you accept her? Everyone is welcome to leave a message in the comment section below for discussion.
