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time can verify people's hearts. After all, there is a saying that people's hearts will be seen over time. When you recognize the true face of brothers and sisters, brothers and sisters who do not need to interact should not be for the sake of interaction.
1. When you are not as good as your brothers and sisters, your brothers and sisters will look down on you, ignore your attitude, and ignore your feelings.
The brothers and sisters who look down on you will stand by and refuse to pull you at the trough of your life, and instead will take the blame. In addition to sarcasticizing you, brothers and sisters will also attack you from time to time until you mistakenly think that you are not good enough. At the same time, brothers and sisters will deliberately distance themselves from you, for fear that you will ask for help. Whether you ask your brothers and sisters to pay or ask your brothers and sisters to work hard, brothers and sisters will avoid it and fear it will not be enough. So that brothers and sisters will create difficulties in life out of nothing in advance, thereby eliminating your potential help-seeking thoughts. Even if you have never planned to ask for help, brothers and sisters will prevent problems before they happen.
2. When your living standards exceed your siblings, your siblings are not happy for you, but will be jealous of you. Brothers and sisters don’t want you to chase each other, but don’t want you to surpass them on the basis of not being enterprising.
If brothers and sisters hear that you are doing well, even if they are happy, they are not happy from the bottom of their hearts. At best, they will smile and not smile. They will tacitly treat your good things, which will bring your good things to an abrupt end. Of course, whether your brothers and sisters spread your good things belongs to your brothers and sisters' freedom is nothing wrong, but the brothers and sisters who laugh at you will both like to hear and see your bad things, and will also talk about them in secret. From time to time, they will take things out of context or add fuel to the fire, which means that your brothers and sisters are gloating. It is fake to comfort you with an understanding tone on the surface, but it is true that your inner joy is secretly happy. Facing your jealous brothers and sisters, it’s better not to interact with each other, such family affection is still as thin as paper.
3. Brothers and sisters will turn against you for the sake of their interests. It is not about sharing the interests equally, but about seizing as much interests as possible. There is no room for negotiation whenever the vital interests of brothers and sisters are involved.
If you have no interest disputes with your brothers and sisters, you can barely be at peace. If you involve the vital interests of your brothers and sisters, your brothers and sisters will be unwilling to let go. As for relatively large vital interests, they will become more aggressive. Whether it is the expense of supporting parents or the medical expenses of parents, brothers and sisters will break up with you if they pay less in order to make money. The purpose is to make you suffer more losses and take advantage of your brothers and sisters. If your brothers and sisters turn against you for the sake of profit, it means there is no need to interact at all.
Conclusion: Brothers and sisters only have a higher starting point of family affection. As for the process and results, brothers and sisters need to be managed by them later, so brothers and sisters cannot be generalized.
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