But parents and children are different. In the first half of their life, parents are leaders and the controller of the situation, and have the greatest say. Children should listen to their parents and often follow their orders. In the second half of life, the situation reverses, and the children who were originally at a disadvantage come from behind and control their voice. However, parents fall from a high position to become a disadvantaged group, so they naturally have to take their children's opinions as the wind.
This strong reversal and gap is psychologically unacceptable. What's more, we have always put filial piety first, and the family pattern where children have the upper hand of their parents is more likely to make people feel sad.
But the waves of the Yangtze River push forward the waves, this is a natural law and an inevitable progress in history. Older parents will be careful in front of their children, just as their children are cautious in front of their parents when they were young.
As children, we must take on family responsibilities, resist this banner, and become the ones who give orders. What we need to do is be patient and loving, be more companionship, be gentle, let parents be less cautious, protect their parents physically and mentally, and make them happier and happier in their later years.
