There is a lyrics like this: The older you grow, the more lonely you become. Why?
When I was a child, my family was coaxing me. My youth was either coaxed by others or around my sweetheart. As a result, when I was about thirty years old, all this was basically over.
After the age of thirty, it is becoming more and more difficult to make friends. They are all foxes for thousands of years. What are you talking about to me about Speak of Chinese Studio! Even if you have the courage to trust a stranger as stupidly as your young self, it is difficult to achieve a friendship that you have completely revealed.
The object I once loved finally became a legal couple, but my heart was no longer pounding. What kind of romance can I say about the common style?
At this time, what we need most is to make ourselves happy and want to wait for our partner to coax ourselves? I'm afraid I can't even dream!
It is actually very simple to make yourself happy. Everyone should have their own way of being happy.
Usually we think that a woman, especially a woman who is a mother, is nothing more than buying, buying, or having more time of her own.
In fact, these are just icing on the cake, or just scratching the surface.
A person needs to make himself happy to solve the problem from the root. The most appropriate way is to accept yourself and tolerate yourself and allow yourself to make mistakes.
There are three things that are easy to control and suppress life: time, money, and past experiences.
Remember the saying "no desire will lead to hardness." Don’t be anxious to succeed, don’t be sensitive to your money, and don’t be bound by past experiences.
In the past, whether it is good or bad, it was all the past tense and old. Now I am a brand new self. Every day I wake up is a brand new day. Why bother to let a person who should be glamorous and shine all over the dust?
Maybe we have not lived the way we want, or we live the way we hate, but it should not prevent us from loving ourselves. If we cannot even tolerate ourselves and love ourselves, who can we count on?
The advanced state of being able to make oneself happy is to be tolerant and accept others.
In our lives, there will definitely be "eyed" guys that are angering themselves. Don't be angry at this time. Because some people have that kind of brain, they don’t realize that their words and deeds have caused harm to others. The so-called “snakes do not know that they are poisonous.”
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When a person cannot tolerate others, he often suffers himself. Being angry affects his health is only one of the main things. The most important thing is that it affects his interpersonal relationships. He always can't stand others this or that. Over time, he no longer wants to socialize with others and becomes more and more autistic.
Good interpersonal relationships can often make one's body and mind more happy.
If someone makes you more and more autistic, then stay away from this person and let yourself relax and naturally contact more people.
The best way to make yourself happy is to give yourself some small surprises from time to time.
How do you surprise yourself?
is actually very simple. It is to constantly learn some new things, keep yourself curious, and let yourself discover more things you have not discovered before and care about and have not done before.
For example, you can try to follow the food blogger and make a dish that is both colorful, fragrant and delicious. It doesn’t matter if you fail, as long as you can’t kill anyone.
You can also find some beautiful bloggers and take beautiful photos according to their actions. Even if they are not as delicate as others, they can discover their own unique beauty and unique beauty. There are many examples like
, and everyone is different from everyone. Try to do something that has never been done before and see what new discoveries will be made!