Recently saw a news that the bride's house had to add a bride's gift on the wedding day, and then the groom left the wedding car and left by himself. I have heard of a lot of things like
. What impressed me the most was a colleague he met when he was young. It was in the 1980s. When he went to meet the bride, the woman's mother blocked the door and insisted on adding another bicycle. The man persuaded him and finally said that he really had no money to buy a bicycle now, and he would give it to him later in a few days. The woman's mother disagreed and insisted on giving it to him at that time. The man was so angry that he left.
Some years ago, there was such a thing in our village, but it was not on the wedding day. Generally, the matchmaker came over the night before the wedding and said that the woman would add another tens of thousands of yuan to the betrothal gift. Many men choose to endure it. Later it became more and more intense, so that such a thing happened before everyone's wedding. It was not until several times when the man disagreed with the severity of the wedding. However, there are still many cases of temporary bride gifts.
I think the woman's family is too greedy for such a thing. Thinking that your man has paid a lot of brides, and he must have spent a lot of money to prepare for the wedding, and the wedding invitations have been sent out. He is definitely embarrassed to cancel the wedding again, so he just took a gamble and added a brides temporarily. On the one hand, the woman can increase the bride income, and on the other hand, she can also give the man a warning, so the man will be easily beaten in the future.
In fact, this method does not hurt not only the man, but also his own daughter. Regarding the temporary bride price, the man either reported that he had to break the engagement or chose to swallow his anger. If you choose to break off the engagement, will the woman look good at home? I don't think it's very good for my daughter. If the man chooses to swallow his anger, even though he has endured it at that time, the conflict has been planted and will sooner or later break out. Can such a family be harmonious?
I think the wedding is a couple living together, and getting married means a family. To put it bluntly, it means that they are irresponsible for the marriage. It's also irresponsible to your daughter. The wedding bride gift was discussed by both parties. After discussing the marriage, I will add a temporary bride price to the next time I get married. This is just a mess.
