text丨Tao Xiaojing
The spring breeze is not as good as you in ten miles. Xiaojing is here, waiting for you!
-01-
In the anime movie "Ponyo on the Cliff" directed by Hayao Miyazaki , there is a sentence that deeply remembered me:
"Every move is a promise, and it will be seen and remembered by another person."
Each of us is looking forward to being remembered by another person in the heart, even if it is just a short memory, we will feel very satisfied.
But, except for the person who loves you the most, who else will remember you in your heart?
Everyone’s heart is limited, and the person who can be kept in his heart must be the most important.
If you are not important to a person, even if you give everything you have for him, you will never be able to enter his inner world and become his sweetheart.
This is the feeling in reality. It looks beautiful, but in fact it is realistic and cruel.
In the cruel world of love, the person you love may not take you to your heart.
-02-
It is truly a heartbreaking thing to not be taken by your lover, but how many people have seen this fact clearly?
In love, there are too many people who like to deceive themselves. They obviously got nothing, but they still naively feel that they will be happy.
If you do the same, then you will sooner or later be injured.
When it comes to feelings, everyone should be more sober. You should know that if a person cannot give you these things, it means that he does not take you to heart.
can't give you to accompany you
The happiest thing for people in their lives is to have someone who loves you by your side, no matter how time changes, they will never leave each other.
Such happiness is often based on the most sincere love. Only by being with someone who truly loves you can you be so happy.
If the person you love does not love you, or he does not take you in his heart, then he may not even be able to give you the most basic company.
Although he can give you a legitimate reason every time, it is undeniable that he does not have you in his heart.
The person who has you in his heart will not ignore your existence no matter how busy you are at work. As long as you need it, he will be by your side.
The development of relationships is inseparable from companionship. The person who always cares about you will accompany you no matter how busy he is.
If a person has never been with you well, then stop illusions about him. He didn't take you seriously at all, so why bother to make fun of yourself?
can't give you a sense of security
Everyone seeks a sense of security in their relationship, but not many people really get a sense of security.
The sense of security comes from the true love between two people. Only when both of them have made up their minds to walk hand in hand can a sense of security arise naturally.
The person you care about will try every means to satisfy your desire for security. Only when you are truly satisfied will he feel happy.
Those who love you will give you a sense of security, while those who don’t love you will not give you anyway.
A person can’t even give you a sense of security, which means that he has never considered your feelings. He only cares about himself from beginning to end.
People who know that you lack a sense of security but never give it to you is clearly not taking you in their hearts. Don’t be foolish about it.
When you meet such a person, I advise you to let go. You have to know that a person who can’t even give you a sense of security is not your final destination at all, and letting go is the best choice.
can't give you help
"If a person does not have the ability to help the person he loves, it is best not to talk about love or not."
As this sentence says, if a person can't even give you the minimum help, the love in his mouth will be greatly reduced.
For those who truly love you, helping you is his mission. No matter what kind of difficulties you encounter, he will take the initiative to lend a helping hand to help you overcome them.
He doesn't want you to take any harm, and even if you don't ask for help, he will take the initiative to provide help.
People who are willing to help you, even if they don’t love you the most, will always take you to heart. Those who are unwilling to help you will not take you in their hearts at all.
Because he doesn’t have you in his heart, your affairs have nothing to do with him. Even if you keep begging, he may ignore it.
Falling in love with someone who doesn’t care about you at all is a big mistake in life. Only by correcting this mistake as soon as possible can you not suffer any harm.
-03-
"Everyone is longing for getting it, but not everyone can wait for that effort."
This is the world of love. Before you wait for the person you care about, your desire will only end in disappointment.
No one will give you for no reason. Only those who love you and take you in their hearts will do everything possible to meet your needs.
This is a form of love. This is the case for those who love you, and the opposite is true for you who don’t love you.
If a person has never given you these things, then you will be waiting foolishly. You should understand that the person in front of you does not take you seriously at all.
Being able to guard such a person who has no you in his heart is the greatest harm to himself. Only by leaving this person as soon as possible can you get the happiness you want.
