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In life, there are often such people who often think that other people’s choices are so stupid.
always thinks, if I were him, I would definitely not do this, I would do it, in short, if I was in his environment, I would definitely do better than him.
First of all, this article does not discuss the different definitions of good in everyone's values. Let's use the most popular definitions such as wealth, good health, and harmonious family.
But, this is not the case.
When we are discussing if I am in his position, we are still speaking from our current perspective.
In other words, when you think you can do better than others in that position, you actually think of everything you have experienced in this position.
If you are really put in his position, you may feel that it is difficult to walk, so how can you talk about running?
During the reign of Emperor Hui of Jin, the people were famine, and then a minister told Emperor Hui of Jin that people could not even have enough food.
Emperor Hui of Jin thought for a moment and said: Since you can’t afford to eat, why not eat meat?
And he was also excited about his idea, thinking that he had solved a very difficult problem, leaving only a group of ministers helpless...
This is the allusion of why not eat meat.
Each of us is mocking Emperor Hui of Jin, but aren’t we the only laughable Emperor Hui of Jin?
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In the workplace, some employees feel that the company's strategy is wrong and has problems without seeing the industry situation clearly and understanding the basic policies. They think that both their bosses and bosses are brainless.
If you become your boss, you will definitely do whatever you want.
But if he really understands some key information, perhaps his attitude will change.
is not the boss's brainlessness, and of course, it is not the employee's brainlessness. It is just that the two people make different decisions because the data and information they face are different.
Everyone talked about sb, but it did not disturb everyone working in a company.
After all, makes money, it doesn’t hurt!
saw it. When you think you can make better decisions than others when you change to someone else's position, you are not considering the real environment of the person who was replaced, but guessing based on your current environment.
But when you change your position with someone else, the resources you can use, the information you can obtain, and the limitations caused by various factors are different.
For example, changing an employee to the boss position means that the environment the employee is exposed to has changed and the resources that can be used are different.
For example, when you are a worker with a monthly salary of 3,000 yuan, you think that the boss spends a few thousand yuan specifically to hire a driver to drive, but he has money and has nowhere to spend it.
But when you really change to the situation of your boss, it means that the amount of funds you can use is different. You may not have a thousand yuan left in a month before, but now you are contracts worth tens of millions or even more waiting for you to sign.
You may also think that hiring a driver is the best choice.
Because your time cost has become higher, your time cost in the past was 20 to 30 yuan per hour, but now it may become 20 to 30,000 yuan...
This change in choice has nothing to do with right or wrong, it is just the change of the environment!
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Therefore, there is a saying that is very popular, called unknown full picture, and no comment!
But the reality is that we will never know the full picture of everything that happens to others, so in fact, this sentence is just telling us in disguise that we should not fuck others’ hearts, and not fuck our hearts that are not related to our own business.
This is not a kind of indifference, but a greater kindness.
When you are not strong enough, worry about it all day long. Apart from providing a little emotional value, what else?
But when you have enough strength, you are concerned about what happens to others, and you have the ability to help others!
It’s like when you have only one bread on your body, you meet a beggar on the way, which is very pitiful, but at this time, what else can you do besides giving him a sympathetic look?
But when you have a hundred bread on your body, you meet a beggar on the way. In addition to sympathizing with him, you can also give him a bread!
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