In this era when everyone pays more attention to themselves, the divorce rate remains high, and many people choose not to remarry after divorce. For the elderly, , as they grow older, they yearn for family affection and excitement. If you are a single old man, even if you tend to be single when you are young, you will have the idea of finding another partner in your later years, hoping that someone will accompany you to spend the rest of your life happily.
We also know that no happiness comes from the sky, and every marriage has its own difficulties. If you want to get a happy marriage, in addition to choosing the right person, you also have to work together and go to the two sides to manage the marriage well. Otherwise, remarriage several times would be the same unfortunate ending.
58-year-old aunt remarried 63-year-old uncle broke up in a month. Aunt: He was too troubled, uncle: This is how husband and wife are. What the hell is going on? It is not easy to meet someone who is in love in his later years. The elderly who are in the newlywed stage should be happy and sweet. Why do the two elderly people break up? Let's take a look together.
Aunt Qin/58-year-old
I lost my husband in middle age. A few years ago, my son got married and moved out to live there. The huge house was empty and I was the only one left. When I go out, I fear the most. Some old people are still loving in their later years. Watching them walking on the street holding hands, the feeling of walking from black hair to white hair is touching. On the other hand, I am alone and do whatever I do, not to mention how lonely I am.
It would be great if there was someone around me who cared about me and accompanied me. As soon as this idea came out, I was shocked. I laughed at myself. I was so old and still longed for love like a young man. If others knew about it, I wouldn’t laugh at me for being unfair. However, after my sister knew what I thought, she especially supported me to find another partner.
Sisters say that remarriage is very common for elderly people now, and they will not be verbally irresponsible like in the past. She found a lot of videos for me to show, and then I believe that society is really tolerant of remarriage among the elderly. So, the idea of finding a partner buried in my heart was about to move again. It happened that Lao Chen, whom I met when I was dancing square dance, looked at me very much, and I took the initiative to chat and interact with him.
Lao Chen used to sell seafood in the vegetable market. Although this job is dirty and tiring, he earns a lot of money. Lao Chen relied on the seafood stall he ran to buy a house and a car for his two sons to help them make the wedding grandly. Now that Chen is old, he can't do it anymore. His sons have their own development, so he transferred the seafood stall. Lao Chen said that he couldn't make enough money, just enough for him to support his old age.
Lao Chen now lives in a three-story self-built house. It is beautifully decorated, fashionable and luxurious, and it is no different from those villas that sell millions of dollars. Lao Chen took me to visit. The garden was full of flowers and it was so pleasant to sit in the pavilion and drink tea. The house was luxurious and tidy, which amazes me. If you can live in a house like this, it would be a great pleasure.
In addition to his good financial conditions, Old Chen is a good person and is familiar with everyone. He is humorous and funny and often makes people laugh. Lao Chen is particularly considerate and respectful to women and has a rare gentlemanly demeanor. Old Chen is deeply loved by me in all aspects, and I am trying my best to show my strengths, hoping that he can take a fancy to me.
Old Chen took the initiative to confess to me, and I agreed without hesitation. We had been together for half a year and everything went well and we got married. When I moved into Lao Chen's big house and woke up in the luxurious bedroom every day, I could drink tea and enjoy flowers in the garden, and this kind of life was as unreal as in my dream. When I held Lao Chen's warm hand, I knew that all this was true, not a dream.
I thought I would continue to be happy like this, but not long after, I discovered Lao Chen’s bad habits. Old Chen is very good at sex and doesn't sleep for me very late. At first I thought it was normal for newlyweds to get tired of it, but later I found out that Lao Chen was too active in this matter, which I really couldn't stand. There was no result in communicating with Lao Chen, so he only cared about himself and ignored me.
In just one month, I lost weight due to lack of sleep and excessive body consumption, and I was exhausted and I didn’t have any strength at all. I know this will not work, but Old Chen doesn't listen to me at all. What can I do? I thought I would live a happy life after marrying a caring wife and living in a beautiful big house, but I didn't expect it to be like this.
Now everything about Lao Chen is not attractive to me. I just want to return to my life alone, quiet and healthy. When Lao Chen was still unwilling to make changes, I filed for divorce from him. Old Chen found it incredible. He felt that he gave me the best and I had no reason to divorce.
I accused him of being too troublesome and I couldn't bear it. Until now, Old Chen didn't think there was something wrong with him. He said that this is how his husband and wife are, which means he cares about me and likes me, otherwise he would definitely not be interested in me. It's so difficult for me. Why do men think like this? Now we are having a divorce, and I don’t know what the result will be. If he gives in, I'm willing to live a good life with him. If he continues to be stubborn, I really have to leave him.
