Text丨There is Love in the West Chamber
Time is not long, I hope you will meet in my words and it will not be too late!
There is no right or wrong in love, only whether you like it or not. When you really like someone, both your mate selection criteria and your behavior will change accordingly.
all say: "Rules are dead, but people are alive." This is most vividly reflected in love.
Maybe the person you like does not meet your original criteria for choosing a spouse. Maybe you will do things that are impossible for the person you like. Everything is possible.
And all these possibilities are actually based on love. In other words, if you don't like the other person at all and don't want to see the other person, then it will be a completely opposite situation.
Men, like women, are very obvious about whether they like something or not.
If a man likes you from the bottom of his heart, then everything about him will change for you, even a little change.
And if a man doesn't want to see you at all, then he won't do it for you even if it changes a little bit.
So, it is very obvious whether a man really likes you. To use a popular metaphor, when you sit by the stove, you can feel strong warmth.
That is to say, if a man likes you, you can feel his feelings. Therefore, as a woman, you need to know that it is obvious that men do not like you, and stop fooling yourself.
Frequent hitting and belittling you, despising you
One of the obvious signs that a man does not like you is that he frequently hits and belittles you.
To put it bluntly, he just despises you. If he doesn't want to see you, it means he hates you, and he will despise you from the bottom of his heart.
In this situation, no matter what you do, he will find fault with you and think you are not doing well. He will continue to deny your efforts and achievements and put you in a very low position.
Faced with such a man, even if you give him your heart, he still won't take you seriously and won't be able to accept you emotionally.
You have to understand that love is tolerance and accommodation. If a man really likes you, even if he just has a crush on you, he won't look down on you so much.
Even if you make a stupid mistake, he will think you are cute and will be willing to tolerate and accommodate you.
Doesn’t care or care about anything about you, ignores you
If a man doesn’t care about you at all, and doesn’t care about anything about you, it means that he obviously doesn’t want to see you. If you like and love someone, you will care about them and value them, for fear of losing and missing them.
The reason why a man ignores you and doesn't care about you is because he doesn't have you in his heart at all.
You are not even a friend in his heart, so naturally he will not have this burden, and it is expected that he will ignore you.
He will never take the initiative to ask about your affairs. Even if you take the initiative to ask, he will not say more than half a sentence, and usually just politely stop.
Whether you are sad, sick, or helpless, he will not worry about you, let alone feel anxious.
refuses your approach and contact, and resists your
approach to the opposite sex. If I also have a good impression of the other person, then this approach will make me feel happy and excited.
On the contrary, if I have no feelings for the other person at all, then this closeness will be a burden and pressure, which will make people disgusted.
Therefore, whether a man doesn't want to see you will be known by whether he resists you, that is, whether he refuses your approach and contact.
If a man wants to see you from the bottom of his heart, then he will accept all your proactive care and contact. He will not avoid or resent your physical contact.
You can find that he enjoys the feeling of being close and contacted by you, and he also likes you. Otherwise, he would have a cold and aloof attitude that would keep strangers away.
Women always make blind and self-deceptive mistakes in love. They either think that as long as they try their best to be good to the other person, they will definitely receive a response; or they hold the wrong illusion that the other person loves them very much, but they just can't express it.
The result can be imagined. After hitting the wall many times, I finally woke up. Zhang Zhizhi in the
TV series " Dear Myself " and Liu Sisi in "Light Me, Warm You" are two such women who are completely unaware of men's dislike.
Liu Yang always attacks and belittles Zhang Zhizhi, completely contemptuous of her efforts and achievements. Whether emotionally or in life, he never cared or cared about her.
In fact, this is an obvious sign of not loving.
And Liu Sisi greeted Li Xun with greetings and gave her various gifts, but Li Xun completely ignored her and even scolded her in public. His unwelcome attitude was obvious.
After being disliked, Zhang Zhizhi still worked hard without complaining, while Liu Sisi continued to pursue Li Xun...
Perseverance is indeed needed in love, but persistence that is blind and can see the result at a glance is paranoia.
This kind of paranoia will make you lose yourself and your dignity. If love is like this, it would be better to be single and feel more comfortable.
So, if a man doesn't want to see you, no matter how much you like him, you must wake up in time and stop deceiving yourself.
