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Many people say that relationships and marriage are two different things. Relationships mainly depend on personal feelings. If you like them, stay together, and if you don't, you will separate. Marriage, on the other hand, is more like a "transaction", emptying two families to create a new small family.
Later I discovered that in fact, relationships are just a preview of marriage. Marriage will put real issues on the table for discussion, while relationships, although the focus is on feelings, are actually inseparable from reality.
Whether opposite sexes can develop an "intimate relationship", that is, whether they can become lovers, actually mainly depends on these three issues, which are very true.
Is there any feeling between two people?
In my opinion, good feelings are inseparable from the relationship. If there is no good feeling between two people, it is difficult to open up to accept another person.
Why is it so difficult to find the right person? The bottom line is that there are fewer people you meet, and even fewer of them can make your heart beat. Whether your heart will move or not depends on whether there is something mutually attractive between the two people.
This thing can be a favorite personality or a handsome face. There is no fixed answer.
Whether two people can be together, it is very important for them to like each other. Because most love cannot happen without that little good feeling at the beginning.
The matching degree in all aspects must be appropriate, otherwise there is no need to discuss it.
When two people get together, they may rely on good feelings at first, but no matter how passionate the love is, there will be a time when it cools down. After calming down, most people will consider one thing, is this person suitable for them?
Some people who do not consider this issue will choose to separate because they are not suitable for each other because of their different views and behaviors. Lucky people may find someone who suits them, but there are also many who are unlucky.
Between opposite sexes, even if they like each other, it will not work if the two people are not matched enough in all aspects.
For example, the personality is not suitable, the three views are not suitable, the two people's future plans are not suitable, etc. In fact, these are all worth considering.
But when two people have a good impression of each other, these issues may have been forgotten long ago and will only be considered during the relationship!
Whether it is relationships or marriage, money is inseparable.
Many people say that you don’t have to worry too much when it comes to falling in love, as long as you have love. But in fact, even if people are talking about relationships nowadays, rich people are more popular, because no matter whether they are talking about relationships or marriage, who is willing to live a hard life with you?
Besides, many people also have the mentality of comparing each other when looking for a partner. Aren’t those who are taller and have a lot of money in their pockets more enviable? The comparison mentality between women is still very strong.
all say that marriage is very realistic and all about money. But in fact, money doesn't seem to matter when it comes to relationships. If you don't have money or a decent job, many women won't be with you even if they have a good impression of you. This is the reality.
Finally, whether the opposite sex can develop an "intimate relationship" actually depends to a large extent on these three points, namely, goodwill, compatibility in all aspects, and money. Regardless of relationships or marriages, it is actually very realistic to maintain relationships between people, but some are on the surface and some are secretly. Friends who like
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