As the saying goes, you can’t bear to spend your husband’s money, but someone will help you spend it. This sentence was put before, A Xue would never believe it. The concept she believed in, from when she first entered the city, she had enough food and clothing to now having good food and good clothes, she felt that she had changed a lot and made a lot of breakthroughs. Until today, when she found that the mistress holding her husband's arm was actually Xiaoya who usually ate imported food, branded clothing, luxury goods, and dressed brightly, she almost collapsed.
Axue met her husband Shiqiang. She had just graduated from college. Since she had not been admitted to the school, she helped manage and teach calligraphy in a training institution in a small town. Shiqiang worked as a salesperson in a chemical company in a small town. By chance, the two met, so, like other young men and women, their footprints and laughter were left everywhere on the stone streets of the town. After two years of love, the two entered the palace of marriage. In order to improve life, Shiqiang resigned from the company and used some old customers in sales to start his own business. He named it "Best Chemical Co., Ltd.", which means better in English.
In the first few years of starting a business, on the one hand, there was no corresponding stable source of wages. On the other hand, the factory needed cash to purchase goods, and customers used them first and then paid for them. Therefore, their lives were very difficult at that time. Shiqiang almost couldn't hold on several occasions. He was all Ah Xue who went to her parents' home to borrow money to help him support him and directly operated the company in a healthy manner. During this process, Axue developed the habit of being frugal. At that time, he wanted to share a penny in half. Therefore, no matter whether it is family food or clothing, as long as he can eat and wear warmth, he never expects to buy beautiful new clothes and go to a high-end hotel for dinner.
With the development of Beste Chemical Co., Ltd., just a few years later, Shiqiang paid off his debts and had savings. He bought a house in the city, moved his household registration for Axue and his son, and asked Axue to take care of his son in the elementary school in the city. With the further development of the company, the family's conditions are getting better and better, and the house is getting bigger and bigger, and Shiqiang has also begun to pay attention to his own image. A Xue is used to a frugal life. Although she doesn't need to consider how much money she has to pay for when using money now, she still likes to spend money on the edge. Usually, she only needs to match meat and vegetables with nutrition and clothing, as long as she wears it atmospheric and comfortable. She does not pursue the brand effect , and does not blindly compare.
Axue's best friend opened a kitchen utensil store and tea shop at the entrance of her own community. Usually, we can make dishes and share some snacks with people who come to drink tea. At that time, Axue's son happened to be in junior high school, and it was when she was growing up. So she went to her best friend's shop from time to time, learned a few tricks, and went home to do it for her son. Just in her best friend's store, Axue met Xiaoya. Xiaoya is the most exquisite person among the people in the store. She is different from A Xue. She came to the store to have tea, just to pass the time. I heard that she has a wealthy boyfriend who can satisfy her everything. She also has a nanny at home to cook and sanitize.
A Xue listened to Xiaoya saying that when she was body shaping clothes on her body, she couldn't help but smack her tongue; she looked at Xiaoya's diamond ring on her hand, which was more than 100,000 yuan, and felt so luxurious. In short, Xiaoya came over every day and chatted, she would always show off her latest gains, either clothes, bags, hand decorations, or skin care products, which made everyone envious. During that period, Shiqiang had more and more social engagements and returned home late. Until one day, A Xue found a lipstick mark on his collar. After being confused, she began to pay attention to his daily life.
The more you pay attention, the more signs you will have. A Xue finally knew that her husband had a third party outside. So, she began to follow Shiqiang. After knowing the community where Shiqiang's mistress was located, she began to block at the stairs. Until she saw that the woman who came out with her husband was Xiaoya, Axue really collapsed. I kept my food and food tightly and kept my family in an orderly manner, but my husband was better. Not only did I raise a mistress outside, but the mistress's food, clothing and expenses made Axue envious and jealous. No one can stand it if it is changed.A Xue asked Shiqiang why she treated her like this? Shiqiang said, "Didn't you give the money?" You don't know how to spend it yourself. You wear clothes on Taobao every day, with plain faces, and you can't even take it out for social events."
House and wife can share the same woe, but not the same woe. Axue was heartbroken, she filed for divorce, and asked to recover all the items to the mistress with the shared property during marriage. So when women improve their material life, remember to improve their spiritual life and external image, otherwise, other women will help you spend the money you save.
