Can the two people after breaking up still be friends?
may be many people, even if they break up, they will not immediately draw a line with each other. They always feel that they will get to know each other, so why do they become strangers?
can be connected continuously. Think about it, two people once loved each other so much, but they still couldn't stand time. In the end, they could only part ways. Even if they had contact information, they would not contact again.
Although I feel a lot of reluctance in my heart, it is better to have a complete conclusion than to be entangled in the past. When you give yourself an end, it is also equivalent to starting to face life again.
Since both of them have made this decision, don’t expect to go back to the past. It’s better to be frank and let each other go. This is also the best gift to each other.
After two people are separated, their clever approach is to "break out" with each other. Only in this way can they better accept reality.
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3 people will always have some hope, even if they break up, they will still think that they are still friends, or if they have anything to contact you.
But in fact, the more you do this, the more you cannot get out of the pain of the past. Your reluctance is the greatest harm to you. Until one day, you are unable to bear this pain, you will struggle to get out.
Instead of doing this, it is better to choose to break the connection from the beginning. Since you are destined to be without separation, don’t torture each other anymore. It is useless to keep that contact information, but will touch the scene and make you feel.
Then let each other go, delete all information, no longer expect the two of you to have some contact, maybe you can get out of the past faster, and you can calmly welcome a new life.
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3 Disconnection can make each other no longer care about
Like a person only takes a moment, but it takes a while to forget. Even if the two people are separated, they will still care about each other in their hearts. It is normal to want to know the other person’s recent situation.
Since you already understand that there is no result for two people, don’t give yourself a chance. Leave the contact information, but there is more concern and it will not benefit you from other things.
You may feel unbearable, or there is still a lot of reluctance. You want to leave the contact information, which is at least a proof of the beautiful feelings of the past, but the feelings are no longer there, and it is meaningless to keep them.
often need to be decisive. To outsiders, it seems very heartless, but this is also a kind of responsibility for feelings. Since we have broken up, let's get together and part.
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3Disconnection, you can do what you should do
I don’t know if you have noticed it. When you still have the other person’s contact information, you will always want to click on it, or past chat history, or his circle of friends.
When you see the news about him, you will still feel it in your heart, and you will even have the impulse to contact him, want to say hello to him, and want to chat with him.
At the end, you will find that you are completely calm and do not come to your heart to do other things. You can only indulge in the pain of the past and cannot get out.
Instead of doing this, it is better to just be a little bit disconnected from the other party. At least you can divert your attention and do what you should do, so that you can become better and better.
may be a bit difficult at the beginning, but when you get busy and make your life full, you will slowly look open and feel that everything doesn't matter.
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Conclusion
After two people break up, the best way is to choose to break off the connection rather than continue to be friends with each other.
You think that if you keep the contact information, you will have the opportunity to go back to the past, but this will only become your obstacle, making you unable to continue moving forward without distraction.
Since you can't be together, it's better to be more casual and let each other be strangers again and live their own lives well. This is also a good ending.
