People around him often say that his wife is not normal. Buy an egg for five dollars. Money is not money!
I don’t usually go out and just stay at home. Don't communicate with others, just watch TV at home. I'm afraid it's not with a fool, right?
Amid the rumors, he couldn't stand it and got divorced. The child and him!
quit his job and took care of the child
At first, he was able to go out to work. The child was five years old at that time, and his grandmother was gone. No one could take care of him and his sister-in-law. The premise is that the money you earn from going out has to be handed over to your sister-in-law.
After a few years of peace, he went home to take care of the child himself when he was about ten years old.
The reason is that I can’t reach an agreement with my sister-in-law!
All the money you earned is handed over to your sister-in-law, it is not worth it; if you pay less, your sister-in-law is unwilling to do so. If you can't stand the stalemate, you can only lead it yourself. Since the child’s divorce, he basically doesn’t care about the child and rarely comes to visit him!
From then on, the father and the father lived a life of dependence on each other.
There is no danger in the distance, the danger is around you. Life is defeated by others; life is truly in your own heart.
To live a life, you still have to have your own ideas!
After marriage, men and women try to persuade each other not to separate, especially after having children. Divorce is not good for both parties.
But before getting married, you can communicate many questions clearly in advance. cannot be vaguely taken because of being embarrassed; don’t just make things simple because it’s easy, but you feel that it’s not worth it and don’t be taken seriously afterwards!
What are women thinking?
In fact, from the woman's perspective, what is needed is attention and respect. When you have not gotten married in the early stage, various etiquettes can show how much attention the other party pays to you. Often, the wife who has put in great energy and financial resources in the early stage will not be embarrassed, because after all, if you spend a lot of money to marry, if you break up, wouldn’t it cost tens or millions to marry another person after divorce? This is also a common worldly understanding, and the expensive ones will pay more attention to it.
I read a certain sound before and saw a joke that the woman was resting at home and was on the air conditioner. My mother-in-law thought the electricity bill was too expensive and turned off the air conditioner. The daughter-in-law asked her mother-in-law to turn on the air conditioner in one sentence, and she said, "It's more expensive to change her daughter-in-law!"
This is a joke, but it is also a real thing. Some ancient things will make some sense. People who disrespect you before marriage will treat you casually, and will most likely treat you casually after marriage!
These probably contribute to the origin of the custom of bride gifts. Although I do not agree with this custom, I do not object to this world when the world is declining.
A woman must leave her home where she has lived for twenty or thirty years and go to a stranger's home. She must adapt to everything in their home, living habits and human nature. You have to start from scratch, but verbal promises cannot make people feel at ease in front of human nature. You need to use visible and feel attention to make yourself feel at ease! Those who care about you will understand your intentions and think about you; those who don’t care about you will think that you are making a big deal and are looking for trouble. This shows how is.
What is marriage?
Based on my understanding of marriage, Marriage is the beginning of another stage of life, the starting point of happiness, and a different journey in which people discuss things, follow things when doing things, and support them when doing things, and not be lonely. Two people in marriage are friends, partners, and relationships between relatives. It is impossible to measure with money, but it also tilts back and forth between money and feelings at the same time!
Marriage is not the whole of women's life. Many people's mistake after marriage is to leave all their focus to their family after marriage. They do not have their own career, connections, or hobbies. To put it bluntly, is happy because of others' happiness, but others may not be grateful for their success and happiness behind their happiness comes from the support you give.
The ideal marriage is that some people love and some people understand, and some people care about and some people favor; if there is nothing, then love yourself, improve yourself, spend the best time on yourself, and fight for whatever you want. If you have love, give others more love without asking for anything in return; if you have no love, you are self-cultivated to let yourself learn love.
We ourselves are the starting point of love and the end point of love.
