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On a quiet autumn night, Zhou Da (pseudonym) stood by the window alone, smoking cigarettes one by one, turning to look at his son who was sleeping. He felt more and more melancholy because he never expected that one day he really confirmed what his parents said:
"Just make a good deal, such a good wife doesn't cherish it, and you will regret it alone."
This day has really arrived, but it is not him guarding this familiar house alone, but he and his son who just turned 2 years old are guarding it.
The good wife his parents called was Zhou Da's ex-wife. The sleeping son in front of him was born to Zhou Da and his lover, but the lover has now left him, left him and his young son, and enjoyed life with a rich man.
Why did Zhou Da come to such a desolate situation? Let us turn the pointer of time back to the autumn 5 years ago.
At that time, Zhou Da was a successful man with a happy family and a successful career. Although he was a latecomer and only had the title of "boss" at the age of 45, his success made him a well-known local entrepreneur, which made him a little complacent.
It is precisely because of the pride in his heart that he forgot that everything he has gained is the silent efforts and support his wife has been behind the scenes for so many years. When he met his lover Xiao Wei (pseudonym), he betrayed his wife regardless of the consequences.
Later, after he and Xiao Wei established a relationship, he often took Xiao Wei out in public. Some friends advised him to stop in time and not affect his marriage because of the bad peach blossoms outside.
But at that time he couldn't listen at all. Even his parents' dissuasion was in his left ear and his right ear, and he still insisted on maintaining a lover relationship with Xiaowei.
02
Several months later, his and Xiao Wei's affairs were discovered by his ex-wife. The ex-wife hoped that he would return to the family when he knew his mistake, but he did not hesitate and resolutely chose to divorce his ex-wife.
After the divorce, his ex-wife left the house with her daughter who was in high school, and he quickly replaced the hostess of the house with his lover Xiao Wei.
After remarrying, Zhou Da was once immersed in the tenderness and affection of his young wife. He even felt that he was really charming and capable, otherwise how could he marry a young woman 15 years younger than him.
What made him even more happy was that a year later, his lover gave birth to a son for him, which was a great joy for him who had a middle-aged son.
However, something he didn't expect happened. When his son was over one year old, his business went wrong. In just five years after the divorce, he fell from the altar from his glorious boss.
initially had a break in working capital, but later the business stagnated. In the end, his company was blocked by the court because it could not repay the loan.
For a moment, his life fell from the highest point to the lowest point. Every day when he returned home, his lover would chatter and complain about him, their lives began to return to dimness, and the friction between him and his lover became more and more.
Until later, he found that his lover began to go out with heavy makeup every day and play with his friends, and he realized that there was something wrong with his second marriage.
During that time, he was like a madman, staring at his little wife every day, not letting her go out, checking her whereabouts, and looking through her mobile phone.
But even so, his little wife betrayed him in the end and got along with a rich man.
03
When the matter was exposed, the lover was as determined as he divorced his ex-wife. No matter how he begged, the lover was determined to divorce him. When he left, he didn't even look back at his son.
After divorced his lover, in order to take care of his son, Zhou Da had to take his son to drive an online car-hailing service to earn living expenses. When he was very busy, he put his son in his sister's store.
He also thought about putting his son in his parents' house, but his parents are old and in poor health, so he had to take care of him.He said that fortunately, his son is 2 years old and will be able to go to kindergarten in another year. Then he borrowed money to open a small shop and started over again.
Now think about the past, Zhou Da said that he was really confused at that time. Compared with his ex-wife, his ex-wife is really a good woman. He had no money in those years. His ex-wife suffered so much with him, but he didn't complain, but he was ungrateful and lost a good woman like his ex-wife for nothing.
Look at my young son. I can be the one who can enjoy family happiness in two years, but I still have to try my best to make money to support this son. Isn’t this asking for trouble?
How is his ex-wife doing now? Zhou Da didn't have the face to ask his friends for inquiries, but he knew that his ex-wife and daughter must be living well, because his ex-wife is a kind and motivated woman and will not treat her badly.
Finally, Zhou Da told me that he had ended up in such a land now, and he could only blame himself for his lack of conscience, not knowing to be grateful, not knowing to cherish, and not knowing how to cherish everything. He deserves it.
once read this sentence: "Once marriage breaks through the bottom line of loyalty, the final outcome will not end well."
And those who abandon their original wife and marry their lovers are mostly the same as Zhou Da's ending, and eventually make themselves scarred.
Zhou Da’s experience also reminds us that it is neither wise nor worth it to give up the original marriage for a fresh extramarital relationship.
Because in all extramarital affairs, there are two people's harsh feelings, how can we be happy?
In this world, only those who know how to cherish their original wife and marriage can have true happiness.
