people will meet many people in their lives, some people will stay in your life, while some people can only become passers-by.
Sometimes, you have to admit that love has a deadline. When a person doesn't want to love anymore, he will choose to disappear and may not even leave a word.
Of course, you will also have doubts. You even asked "why" thousands of times in your heart, but in the end you chose to accept it. He has made his choice, and you can only look forward and not retreat.
If one day you find him leaving quietly and completely disconnected from you, then don’t have hope for him anymore, and don’t let yourself think there is still a chance. Even if you are sad, you will quietly heal the wounds by yourself and don’t wait for him to look back and forth.
When he makes this decision, it means he gives up completely. Therefore, when a man "disconnects" from you, no matter how sad he is, don't do three things, it will only make you feel disrespectful!
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Don't ask the reason
Relatively speaking, women will be more persistent in their relationships. Even if they already have the answer in their hearts, they still don't want to believe it, and still want to wait for the other party to say it in person.
But many times, love disappears and disappears. There is no reason at all. Even if you ask again, he is still silent and cannot give the answer you want.
When the fate is over, the best way is to respect each other, rather than repeatedly asking the reasons. The more you insist on asking for an answer, the more sad you will make yourself, and in the end you still have to face it alone.
If one day he chooses to give up on you, then don’t give him another chance. Maybe it will be difficult to survive this time at the beginning, but I believe it will pass slowly.
02
Don't get entangled
When a man leaves without a sound, you will be sad and at a loss. You think that as long as he can turn around, you will be willing to do whatever you do.
So, like nothing happened, you continued to send messages to him, and even called him to make an appointment, but this behavior has become a kind of entanglement, and he will only feel that you can't afford to lose.
You must understand that when a man chooses to disconnect, to a large extent, he has given you the answer, but this answer is not what you want, so he wants to get entangled.
You think that being entangled with him may make him soft-hearted and may make him realize that he still loves you, but the result is that the more you are entangled, the more disgusting he becomes, and it will only disappear more thoroughly.
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Don't indulge in the past
It's painful to lose someone, but if you keep indulging in this pain, you will only be unable to get out and cannot start a new life.
Since the relationship between two people is no longer there, tell yourself to let go, don’t keep indulging in the past, treasure those good things, and those bad things will disperse with the wind.
You can never control the relationship. You can only love each other well when you love. Once you don’t love, you will leave casually. This is the correct way to deal with feelings.
repeatedly indulge in the past, and will only amplify the pain and make you feel that you can't get through it. If this continues, you will still be unable to get out of this relationship and make yourself happy.
Be brave, it is not scary to lose love, but losing yourself is the most scary.
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Conclusion
If you like someone, you want to go to the end with him, but when he gets separated from you, you don’t have to be too persistent.
As long as you have a clear conscience and be worthy of your heart in the days of love, that is enough. For the rest of the days, you will be well and don’t need to disturb you anymore.
Since he chose to leave without saying goodbye, you should also continue to move forward, let the past pass, so that the future will come, instead of being addicted to the past and not being willing to get out of this pain.
Maybe, you will regret the final outcome, and you will be sad for a while, but I believe that you will see the sunshine when you get through it. One day, you will meet the person who truly understands you.
