The reason why in-laws become relatives is because the children of two families form a family after falling in love and establish a relationship.
The emotional foundation of a relative is not deep and difficult to be solid. Even if the two families get along well, the relationship looks OK, but when interacting with each other, you must know how to behave.
You should know that once there is a problem with the relationship between in-laws, it will be a disaster for the children, and the relationship between young couples will also be implicated. After all, it is not good to favor either party.
Even some marriages may eventually fall apart due to conflicts between in-laws.
Therefore, when the in-laws get along, no matter how close they are, they cannot do these things. Remember.
1 Face to blame the other party’s child for his shortcomings
Parents all think that their children are the best, so when their children get married, they think that no one is worthy of their children, and it is difficult to recognize them depending on which partner the child is in.
However, children have their own blessings. Excessive interference in their relationships can easily lead to separation between father, son, mother and daughter.
Although some parents finally compromised and agreed to their children's marriage, they often showed dissatisfaction with their partners. This kind of mood is understandable, but parents should also take an accepting and tolerant attitude and not show it too clearly.
Especially when you get along with your in-laws, you cannot express your dissatisfaction, accuse the other person of the child in front of the other person, and even exaggerate the advantages of your child too much, which can easily lead to conflicts and disputes.
When getting along with your in-laws, you must understand that both parties are on two sides, so you must think twice when speaking, and don’t just try to be quick and the two families will eventually have a rift.
Even if the other party’s children really have many shortcomings, they should not criticize or give advice at will. On the contrary, explore the advantages of children and learn to appreciate their attitude. This will not only make the close relationship safe, but also help the relationship between young couples smoothly.
2 Don’t show off your wealth
Cinderella meets the prince, the princess falls in love with a commoner young man... Who can predict the emotional matters clearly? When love happens, it may have nothing directly to do with money and status.
So, your child may marry an ordinary family's daughter, and your daughter may marry a son who is not as good as your family's conditions, but as long as two young people truly love each other, this is enough.
Don’t always talk about things in front of your in-laws with the conditions of your family. It is never a smart person to raise yourself and belittle the other person. You should know that the more you say, the more you will lead to your child’s unhappy marriage.
I believe you don’t want your child to be unable to survive once he gets married. No matter how poor or rich other families are, they are all chosen by your children. I sincerely wish them better and better life. This is what parents should do.
Therefore, when you get along with your in-laws, there is no need to always feel superior. Whether you have money or not, everyone is equal. Too much show-off will not raise your true status, but on the contrary, it will make others despise you.
For the happiness of the child, you know how to respect the other person's family, there is no need to show off your life.
3 Try to avoid getting too close to
It is said that where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, and there are disputes.
, especially between in-laws, although it is nominally a kinship relationship, it is just the result of the in-laws of children and there is no direct blood relationship.
This kind of relationship is actually very subtle. Maybe a sentence or something you don’t think is there will be a problem with the relationship between the two parties.
Therefore, in order to avoid problems between in-laws affecting the happiness of children, in-laws should try to avoid getting too close when getting along.
Maybe in order to highlight your hospitality, you may always give gifts to your in-laws or invite them to stay at home, but you do not know how to get along with each other, and once there is a conflict, it will be difficult to end.
Therefore, when you are with your in-laws, unless you have to appear at the same time, try to avoid getting together all the time.
The relationship between people is mutual.
each good one. You know the scale of interaction and I know the distance between you, so that you can create a sense of beauty.
In-laws interfere as little as possible. After they get married, they should withdraw from their lives appropriately, maintain mutual respect, and establish a harmonious and stable family environment.
You should know that the more you participate in your children's affairs, the more conflicts will lead to, and it will also involve the disgust of the in-laws, and the relationship will eventually become messy.
Smart in-laws never say a word or break up with each other. Instead, they work together to promote the life of young couples in a happy and beautiful direction.
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