A master of Chinese studies once said that any feeling you give birth to is the best experience composed of "nature" and "cognition".
Some people stood on the road and suddenly felt a car coming, and then he luckily avoided it. Otherwise, he will encounter an accident. This is the premonition under the blessing of "nature".
Some people watched others play football next to the football field, but they actually felt like they would be hit by the ball. After a while, his feelings became reality. This is also a premonition under the blessing of "nature".
What is this natural law? In addition, is this so-called premonition really that mysterious?
In psychology, there is such a noun - super sensory perception . Baidu Encyclopedia explains that it refers to the phenomenon of gaining perceptual experience from external things without relying on sensory information.
Western psychologists have given four explanations: 1. Telepathy; 2. Creative inspiration; 3. Predictive ability; 4. Spiritual activation. These four points of are the direct manifestation of super sensory perception.
To put it bluntly, super sensory perception is what we often say " sixth sense ". , the so-called sixth sense, will make us shine inspiration at critical moments and come up with the most correct answer.
If he makes you feel these four feelings, it is God that you should stay away from him as soon as possible.
1. I looked at it at first and felt it was not very pleasing to you.
There is such an interesting phenomenon in real life - love at first sight. Some men will feel aroused when they see the opposite sex, so they will pursue the opposite sex.
Since there is a situation of "love at first sight", there must be a situation of "disgust at first sight".
Some people, if you look at them, you will feel extremely disgusted. What will you choose next? Should we deal with it, or stay away as soon as possible? The best way to do
should be to stay away as soon as possible. All the people you dislike are actually people who are repelled from your "magnetic field". Once there is a problem with the magnetic field, you will not be able to get along. Even if you are together, conflicts will arise.
What people pay attention to is the fate of living harmoniously, not the relationship of "you blame me and I hate". To put it bluntly, this kind of relationship is the embodiment of "bad fate".
Whether you are looking for a partner or making friends, you must find someone you like. Perhaps, these talents fit your magnetic field.
2. It makes you feel scared.
There is such an allusion among the Three Kingdoms, called "Sanma Food Tank" .
is about Cao Cao in his later years and dreamed that there were three horses eating grass in the manger. After waking up, Cao Cao was particularly frightened and thought that someone was going to take over his Cao family, so he hurried to find someone to explain his dreams.
Cao Cao asked Sima Yi , who is these "three horses"? Sima Yi was frightened and responded that it was Ma Teng and his son. Cao Cao did not respond at all. Sima Yi continued to say that maybe it was the three brothers of Liu, Guan and Zhang...
In fact, Cao Cao had already known that the so-called "horse" was not Ma Teng and his son, nor were Liu, Guan and Zhang's son, but Sima and his son who had the appearance of "eagle looking at the wolf".
However, Cao Cao felt that he and his son Cao Pi could control Sima Yi, so he didn't take it seriously. Who knew that decades later, Sima and his son really seized the great Wei Dynasty.
people's first feeling is often the most accurate. Because it is the optimal "omen" of natural formation. can only say that some things cannot be believed, but they cannot be believed in them all. You must be mentally prepared.
3. You have no sense of trust in him at all.
A boss once said that when doing business, it depends on whether the customer can bring you a sense of trust. This sense of trust must be perceived by the heart and cannot be easily deceived by his disguise.
How can we determine whether a person is honest? The so-called "listen to what he says and observe what he does." What he said, what you listened to, and then you judged it in a moment to characterize it.
If you make a momentary judgment that he feels that he is a distrustful person, then you must be vigilant and do not blindly trust him when doing business with him.
If you make a judgment in a moment that you think he can believe it, then don’t believe him easily, but further observe what he does, so that you can make the final judgment.
Of course, if you think that he lacks integrity at the first time, then he is probably not honest. Because the sixth sense of human beings is particularly accurate when it is not disturbed by external factors.
, the so-called "super sensory perception", will make people have more judgment beyond their facial features and cannot be ignored.
4. I always feel that he has bad intentions.
For some people with similar views, you will be open to interact with them without much precaution. And for some people with different values, you always think that they will harm you.
Many people will say, isn’t this the “dirty paranoia” in psychology?
Disease of being killed is often related to suspicious people. For people who are not suspicious of ordinary people, paranoid disease does not exist. The latter is mentally aware of being killed. Perhaps it is not that he has a problem, but that the other party has a problem.
For example, the more you look at this person in the workplace, the more you feel that he is ill-behaved. The root of this conclusion is either that he has committed harmful behavior or that he has potential threats to harm others, which requires you to be vigilant.
Believe in your sixth sense and your supersensory perception, which seems a bit neurotic. can be psychologically speaking, the first-time psychological perception is often the most real.
Stay away from those you don’t like very much, this is the way to protect yourself.
text/Shushan Youlu
