Wang Baochuan digging wild vegetables is popular:
Love brain is addicted, even the starring actor can't stand
text | Wumanlanjiang
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even the starring actor can't stand
text | Wumanlanjiang
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Wang Baochuan digging wild vegetables is suddenly popular.
The cause is that there is a TV series that plays the role of the Prime Minister’s daughter Wang Baochuan, Love Brain , breaks with the family and marrys a working dog, Xue Pinggui . Then Xue Pinggui went out to work and didn't send a penny to his home. Wang Baochuan couldn't survive, so he dug wild vegetables everywhere.
Wang Baochuan has dug wild vegetables for 18 years.
Wang Baochuan
If she started digging since she was 20 years old and had been digging for 18 years, she would have been 38 years old.
Then suddenly a boy came to flirt with her, but she decisively refused.
It turned out that Xue Pinggui was developed outside, became a boss, and married another princess and gave birth to two babies. Boss Xue had known that Wang Baochuan was digging wild vegetables for a long time, but was worried that Wang Baochuan would be "not abide by his wife's morality", so he sent someone to "test" Wang Baochuan. The result of the
test is that Wang Baochuan has no problem, she just likes to dig wild vegetables.
So Xue Pinggui took Wang Baochuan over, and the two wives could dig wild vegetables together in the future.
Xue Pinggui and Wang Baochuan
This strange story was used to be folk opera, and the people loved to watch it very much.
But it is a bit far from the concept of modern people.
So the Internet is full of jokes. If a girl is in love, then let’s take a look at Wang Baochuan. Do you want to dig wild vegetables for 18 years?
If you don’t want to dig, just make money first, OK?
This joke is used to alert girls - also to alert men.
It’s not just girls who are in love?
Which of the successful men in their careers is not a love brain?
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The first one, Wang Baochuan lived in a cold kiln for 2018 and digging wild vegetables. What are you talking about?
Modern people see Wang Baochuan living in a cold kiln and digging wild vegetables, which is very awkward.
Love is not like this.
But in the old era, China had backward economy and inconvenient transportation. It was common for someone to go out at home and it was not heard from for three or five years.
Every place is a remote place. What kind of poor thing you were born? It was still the same until you died. The only variable is that someone at home is traveling far away. What if he is developed outside?
So Wang Baochuan's story is not about Wang Baochuan accidentally digging gold or digging diamonds when he was digging wild vegetables. No matter how hard Wang Baochuan digs, he cannot find hope for improving his life.
Everyone scolded Xue Pinggui for scumbags and abandoned his wife for 18 years, but they didn't know that Lao Xue was the lucky one who succeeded in the general and died. More boys who left their hometown became bones by the Wuding River and became people in the dream of spring boudoir.
They will never come back.
Even if their lover has been digging wild vegetables for 80 years, he will not be able to dig out hope.
So, modern people see scumbags in this old drama, but people in the old era see hope.
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The second question is, what is a love brain, and why does there be a love brain?
Love brain, specifically refers to being extremely obsessed with a person and occupying a humble position in bilateral relations, and this humility affects normal life.
In this case, girls are called love brains and men are called dog licking.
Jin Yong novel, can be called a dog licking concentration camp, and there are all types of dog licking. For example, in " Tianlong Bazi ", the rich second generation You Tanzhi was originally a happy and happy life, and they were all lying flat. However, there were unexpected situations in the world. Suddenly, the evil man Xiao Feng came and killed You Tanzhi's father and mother, destroying his family business.
月情文情文情文, embarking on the road of revenge.
However, when You Tanzhi went north to Liao Kingdom and found the blood feud Xiao Feng, he became Xiao Feng's sister-in-law A Zi 's dog licking dog. It was a coincidence that A Zi was a perverted girl who abused You Tanzhi in various ways. She first made You Tanzhi into an iron-headed man, and then took You Tanzhi's cornea and turned You Tanzhi into a blind man.
You Tanzhi and A Zi
Why did You Tanzhi get so miserable?
Because he lost himself, he licked the girl when he caught it.
So psychologists say that love brain or dog licking is not a healthy relationship.
What is the normal relationship?
Love is just the most common social cooperation and the value-added relationship between the two parties.
Your value is only 10 points, and the other party's value is also 10 points, but you two are thunderous and earth-fire, and the baby is wrapped around your brother's waist. The total score after the combination is not 20 points, but 200 points.
This is called love.
Your value is only 10 points, and the other party is also worth 10 points. When you two are together, you become 0 points, and the other party is still 10 points. Then if you are a boy, you are a dog licking You Tanzhi. If you are a girl, this is a love brain.
only reduces your own value, but does not help the other party increase value. This is an unhealthy and unequal bilateral relationship.
After all, longing for love but not knowing how to love leads to the phenomenon of love brain and dog licking.
So how to avoid this ambiguous love?
of course is to learn to love.
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The third thing, the most important thing in life is to learn to love.
There is a chemical word called catalyst .
Two substances are piled together and there is no reaction.
If you add the catalyst, you will hear the earth-shaking and earth-shaking two substances that have no reaction. The catalyst does not participate in chemical reactions.
This catalyst is love.
This is why everyone must find love. It’s a bit like Yang Guo and Xiao Longnu who have just left the world. They are separated and beaten in various ways. The two are together, the two swords are united, and they beat others in various ways. When the relationship reaches this point, it is impossible not to love them.
So how to master the method to increase the value of both parties?
is nothing more than being a wise person. As stated in the "Tao Te Ching", those who know others are wise, and those who know themselves will be wise. Know the other person's strengths and weaknesses are called wisdom. Knowing one's own strengths and weaknesses is called enlightenment. Therefore, the beautiful love in the world is that both parties use their strengths to make up for each other's weaknesses, so that the value of the two people is not addition but factorial.
For example, in "The Legend of the Condor Heroes", if he does not belittle himself in his relationship with A Zi, but presents high value, can meet A Zi's expectations and make A Zi unable to leave him, love will naturally arise. But You Tanzhi first doesn’t understand himself, and secondly, he doesn’t understand A Zi, so in the book, A Zi removed his cornea - a double titanium alloy dog eyes but refused to see himself clearly. What’s the use of these two tricks?
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Enjoy love, enjoy the joy and trembling of life, is the mission and power of all young people.
So you must know:
First, young people are in the stage of insufficient material accumulation, but the highest cognition.
says that young people lack material accumulation, which everyone can understand.
But when it comes to young people having the highest awareness, everyone is a little confused. The truth of
can be seen from corporate recruitment. All companies are constantly recruiting people, why are they so short of staff?
Because there are too many people who have been learning in middle school all their lives. They have been in the workplace for several years and have not learned interpersonal relationships, but they have lost the most valuable things they have learned.
So I find young people to squeeze out the intelligence and physical strength of young people.
Many young people know this, but they suffer too late to enter. Others have saved points in the workplace and learned a lot of bad methods. If you are young and immature, you will be taken advantage of by others.
What you master in school is your advantage in this life - but from then on, others will derogate your value in the workplace until you no longer believe in yourself.
Once you no longer believe in yourself, you will never be able to see yourself clearly.
If you can’t see yourself clearly, you will become a love brain or a dog licking. Their hearts are too humble and I always hope to make others pity you in a miserable way. So they always find it difficult to get happiness in work, life and love.
The second one, find a way to help yourself and the other party.
The men and women who finally came together are mutually supportive.
For example, Huang Rong and Guo Jing . Guo Jing is a hard-working dog, and Huang Rong can always find opportunities for Guo Jing to grow, and at the same time, she can also allow herself to continue to grow.
Guo Jing and Huang Rong
If you assign the perverted girl A Zi to Guo Jing, it will be very difficult to do. Guo Jing will definitely not be a dog licking, but A Zi must put an iron head on him. In the end, the two will definitely get divorced and break up with the Civil Affairs Bureau.
On the contrary, A Zi's sister A Zhu is a Huang Rong type person. She and Xiao Feng are separated and their respective life problems are difficult to overcome. But the two of them combined and solved all problems instantly.
So whether A Zi wants to take Guo Jing or Xiao Feng, she just needs to find a way to help each other - but this girl did the opposite, saying love, but she didn't care about Xiao Feng at all. She was right next to Xiao Feng, but she didn't understand Xiao Feng's difficult situation at all. Instead, she joined forces with Xiao Feng's opponent and put Xiao Feng in a cage. How dare Xiao Feng love her?
So loving this thing is very simple, it is nothing more than caring and guarding. You refuse, but keep belittling your own value. You won’t even want this kind of love yourself, so how can you force it to others?
The third one is that young people should be more greedy, career and love are indispensable.
Wang Baochuan is a story after all.
In reality, a person can't live for 18 years if he digs wild vegetables. If you get sick for a few days, the person will be gone.
For such traditional stories, we must see the essence.
The essence is that a person must always be strong in order to get everything he desires. Wang Baochuan, who was digging wild vegetables, was as strong as a cow for 18 years, and Xue Pinggui, who went out to make a living, could also work hard to get out of the situation. In this way, the two people still had emotional connections no matter how far apart they were, because their three views were consistent.
A Zi’s three views can only be with You Tanzhi. Xiao Feng met Huang Rong and Guo Jing, Xiao Longnu was Yang Guo, and Ren Yingying was Linghu Chong , because he never lost himself. This is strength and the power of love.
Young people are born strong. As long as you don’t get lost in this chaotic world, you will get everything, whether it’s career or love.
So today's question is:
You Tan's story begins, and he is definitely a righteous boy with revenge. But in the end he became a tragic dog licking dog, so the question is, why didn’t Guo Jing and Xiao Feng become a dog licking dog, but You Tanzhi licking?
(*The pictures in this article are from the Internet)
