text/Moran
In our lives, we will meet many people and gain a lot of things.
But sometimes, life requires subtraction. When you reach a certain age, you must see clearly what is worth it and leave your time and energy to those who care about you.
I believe many people will feel this way. They see that there are quite a few people around them, but when they need it, I searched through the friend list and found that there are not many people who can really talk about it.
As we grow older, our circle continues to expand, but few people really care about it.
Therefore, you must learn to give up in life. When you reach a certain age, you must throw away these four things.
meaningless wine party
Life is not about the more friends and the bigger the circle, the more you feel.
In fact, looking back at the past, you will find that the circle doesn’t need to be too big, just be sincere.
The rare thing in life is to meet someone who is sincerely good to you.
For those friends who drink and meat, there is no meaningful wine party, you should give up when you reach a certain age.
Some parties will only consume your time, affect your cognition, and will not help you at all.
At any time, we must choose to be with meaningful people, so that we can make us better.
Anyone who consumes you should give up as soon as possible. If you have meaningless wine parties, you should stay away as soon as possible.
People who don’t love you
In this world, some people love you, and some people don’t love you.
For those who love you, you must learn to cherish; for those who don’t love you, you must learn to give up, and you must know that not everyone is worthy of entering your life.
Some feelings, you have to let go if you should, and you have no choice; some stories have no sequels, and if you delay each other, you will consume your youth and energy.
When your affection cannot be exchanged for sincerity, efforts cannot be exchanged for response, and enthusiasm cannot be exchanged for warmth, you should stop the loss in time.
Love cannot be forced. People who don’t love you don’t need to compromise themselves and get entangled.
Let go calmly, it may be cooler to be more chic.
snobbish relatives
say that human nature can never stand the consideration. No matter how close the relationship is, you will not hope that you will live a better life than him.
The reality is that if you live a good life, there will be a group of snobbish relatives who will curry favor with you. Once you live a bad life, you will take the blame.
There is actually no need to take this kind of real relatives too much, and don’t treat each other sincerely. Just maintain superficial harmony.
There is a kind of person who will never be satisfied, nor will he show that others are living well.
Many times, those relatives who are tempted by the tendency to be strong can understand it. There is no need to worry about it, just try to stay away.
Never give yourself a grievance for the sake of the so-called face and force yourself to do things you don’t want to do.
Fake friends
I believe that each of us will have our own circle and a group of friends, but few of us can truly be called friends.
There is actually no need to waste time for those who are not sincere and hypocritical.
Staying away from those false friends is to reduce your burden on making friends, and at the same time, it can also avoid the embarrassment of your position in others' hearts.
The more you reach a certain age, the more you need to adjust your circle.
is not a person from the same world, and a false person is not worth entering your life.
Only those who can get along and be sincere to each other are worthy of your attention. When you realize this, you will no longer have false fantasies about some people.
Summary:
Adult circles must be clean and sincere, so that they will make sense.
When people reach middle age, they should learn to give up, give up what they should give up, and leave behind something truly meaningful.
The second half of a person's life is a process of subtraction. When you see it clearly and think it clearly, you will naturally understand it thoroughly.
So, the older you are, the more you should be open-minded, learn to throw away meaningless things, and live your own life well.
