In this world, what is as unpredictable as the weather is love, which has too many variables and things that are unpredictable.
We thought that we said that we would never leave you and never leave you. If we just like you, we can really last for a long time, but we are always suddenly said that we don’t love you, and we will be separated cruelly.
Little do you know that there is no eternity in this world, nor is there "suddenly". All departures have been planned for a long time, and you are just "suddenly" told the fact that you are not loved.
Tea will cool down, people will change, let alone the heart. Love never disappears suddenly, it will only slowly transfer to others.
Whether you are moved or changed, there are traces to follow. When a person falls in love with someone and wants to break up with you, he will treat you like this.
1. No longer contact you frequently, often disappear
The more blatant you are when you like it, and the colder you are when you don’t like it.
At that time, I heard your voice every day, and I couldn’t bear to hang up until late at night. I put the WeChat top and answered the phone in seconds. If I encountered driving for a meeting, I would reply to you not long after I hung up.
If you don’t take the initiative to contact him, he will still contact you on his own initiative every day, and will also jealously ask you what you are doing. I don’t know how to think about him when I’m free.
is now, don’t ask, If you don’t look for him, you won’t look for him; if you look for him, the information will be gone but not returned, the voice will be busy, and no one will answer the phone.
I vaguely felt that the other person had changed. When you questioned the other person, he said coldly that you were thinking too much and being too busy. This kind of contact lasted for more than a month. You said break up in anger. He asked if he really wanted this? You didn’t reply.
More than a month later, the other party posted the partner on his circle of friends. It’s hard to tell whether you are riding a donkey and looking for a horse, dating at the same time, whether you have the current position first, or you are just an underground lover.
Otherwise, why do you separate in anger? Not long after, there is a new person around the other party.
person, sometimes sixth sense is very accurate. What you perceive is not cared about, the affair you perceive, and the closeness of his affair are all because you are ready to leave you.
2. From saying anything, to not wanting to say something more to you
has nothing to say, it is probably the most direct manifestation of a relationship disappearing.
A person takes the initiative to send messages to the other party every day and shares his daily life. The other party is reluctant to reply to an emoticon packet. After a long time, he can't help but disturb you and replied, "I'm so busy, are you going to finish it?"
busy? Haven't you been busy before? I used to tell you everything, but what I ate today, what I ate at home and what I ate at company, but now I ignored it and summarized it all in one sentence.
responds the most to silence. If you say a few more words, he will think I'm noisy and say impatiently, "What the hell do you want to do?"
When you don’t love it, your every word and action will disturb him.
The hot people cool down first, but the slow-heating people are just getting hot and still boiling. During the days when the two of them were relatively speechless, they saw who couldn't stand it first, who couldn't help it first, and who took the initiative to leave first.
3. No longer have patience with you, always lose your temper inexplicably
When you chase you, no matter what you say, you can't run away. No matter how angry you are, he will also have the patience to coax you. He will always bend down and admit defeat, and you will always follow the steps.
Ta is willing to restrain your temper for you and will always have endless patience for you, as long as you are happy.
Now, the word you said unintentionally makes him feel irritable, he is cold-tempered and fights with you when he is looking for trouble, and he loses his temper at any time. He can't stand everything about you and will never follow you again.
becomes impatient, which is probably a sign of losing feelings to a person.
After all, people never act impatient with what they care about.
4. If you can't work together for a lifetime, say goodbye to
When you are sure that the other person no longer loves you and changes your mind to you, let go.
I hope you don’t pretend to be stupid, don’t pretend to be ignorant, force will be fruitless, and force staying is useless. The longer you delay, the harm will not be others, but yourself.
, don’t ask, because everything you can think of is the answer.
Fate has depth and sadness and joy in the ending. Instead of delaying one another in a relationship that is not loved, it is better to let go of what should be and leave what should be gone.
Only by not entangling with the wrong people can you have the chance to meet someone worthy of your brave love. All your love and friendship can be treated sincerely in him.
After all, the world is long and the river is vast, and we will not always love it.
