There is a saying:
"A person's emotions come to an end, and it is silence."
In fact, this is how women are.
When a woman sighs, crys, or even makes a furious act because of you, it means she still has expectations and hopes for you.
It is precisely because you are still in her heart that your behavior can affect her emotions.
However, once you do something extraordinary, she will not care about it. No matter how you disappoint her, it doesn’t matter.
This only means that she has been disappointed and has saved up enough, no longer has any expectations for you, and her feelings have come to an end at this moment.
left with great fanfare, all of which were testing
I once watched a video like this:
A couple quarreled, and both of them were very out of control, so they both said a lot of words to hurt each other.
Perhaps it was because of grievance or because of anger, the girl blurted out:
"You don't care about me at all, let's break up!"
After saying this, both of them became completely quiet. Although the man wanted to keep him, he couldn't stand it.
Women are also stubborn and it is difficult to take back even if they say it.
So the woman packed her luggage, but when she packed her luggage, she made all kinds of noises, either saying that the clothes could not be found or the shoes could not be seen.
The luggage was not packed from morning to night, and he also took advantage of the time of packing his luggage to complain to his boyfriend in various ways.
But seeing that her boyfriend did not stop him, the girl finally couldn't help but say to her boyfriend:
"You just rest assured that I, a woman, moved out so late? You are really a bastard."
After hearing the girl say this, the man woke up.
Then apologized to the girl, and the girl took advantage of the situation and made up the donkey, and the two of them reconciled as before.
Fudan Talented Woman Results:
"Those who leave with great fanfare in their relationship are actually temptations. The real departure is never farewell."
A woman loses her temper with men because she still cares about men in her heart and has various expectations.
It is precisely because of caring that I can’t help but have emotional fluctuations in men’s ways.
Couples who can quarrel and condemn each other often have to quarrel. All the harsh words released by
are just wanting the other party to care more about yourself.
The real departure is the soundless
Someone said:
"Emotional fluctuations, we will only give the person we care about the most. When one person has no emotions towards another, then love will be gone."
Because she has you in her heart, she will make a fuss in front of you;
Because she cares about you, she will be so sad and irrational for the disappointment you bring to her.
But once she takes you out of her heart, everything about you has nothing to do with her. Why should she argue with you and complain to you!
has a female friend.
I often heard her complaints about her boyfriend before, and of course the two often quarreled over some conflicts.
But after a quarrel, you can make up in three days.
But in recent times, she has become quiet and has conflicts with her boyfriend. She no longer cry or condemns her.
Even if the other party forgot about the anniversary, she would have caused a big upset thing, and she no longer had any emotions.
I was very surprised by her condition. Later, when I was chatting together, I asked her tentatively, why is she so easy to talk to?
And she just said:
"I have saved enough disappointment!"
Although it is just five casual words, I understand that her relationship is destined to have no future.
agrees with this view very much:
"The people who shouted at the top of their voices were all the ones who bent down to the ground and picked up the porcelain bowl that had fallen to the ground. The person who really wanted to leave was just picking a sunny afternoon, wearing an ordinary piece of clothing, and never came back without saying a word."
In a relationship, when a woman is quiet, it is not because of being sensible or maturity, but because she no longer takes it seriously and no longer expects, so she no longer makes trouble.
Silence is the real ruthlessness of a woman
Tu Lei In " Love Defense War ", said:
"Everything doesn't matter, then your feelings don't matter."
Really care about a person, you can never be able to do something calm.
When the other party makes you sad and disappointed, you will be heartbroken and will uncontrollably want to express your dissatisfaction with emotions.
And all these emotions are just to want the other party to care more about themselves.
But when a man keeps disappointing her, she makes her cry.
So disappointment will be saved one day, and tears will flow dry one day.
When she no longer quarrels about your affairs, no longer becomes emotional because you let her down, just accept everything you do quietly.
, that can only mean that you are just an outsider to her. After all, we can only be so calm when dealing with outsiders.
As a man, never let a woman you love become silent.
Because she was silent, your relationship was over!
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Author: Li Yu Weiliang, a post-90s writer who can be rational and emotional, likes to express personal opinions in words, bringing you spiritual healing, emotional resolving, and life insights.
