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hand, like a mirror that alludes to women's life.
What kind of life a person can live can be seen from her hands.
The "good life" woman has fair and tender hands, is well maintained, has never suffered too much, and will not engage in excessive physical work.
Many "hard" women who keep working hard in life will grow thick calluses in their hands. If you repeat a certain physical work, your fingers will become thick and hard, and may even bend and deform.
hands can reflect a woman's fate.
A woman's hands can reflect her life state, and can also show what kind of pursuit and attitude a woman has towards life.
Look at the state of the "hand" to understand the real life of a woman.
Whether a woman is a good life or a miserable life can tell by looking at her "hand".
02. Women's hands are constantly working hard in housework, which is very hard-working. Women are often the "maintenance officer" of a family. They have to wipe the floor, cook food, and take care of their clothes. I am busy all day long and my hands are not spared.
When cutting vegetables, it may hurt your hands; soak them in very cold water and wash clothes and dishes; or there is no time to take care of them, which will cause many small cracks to grow on your hands, which will hurt if you gently pull them.
A woman with "hard life" has burned her hands with hot oil and hit by heavy objects. The joints of her hands will swell and hurt when it is cloudy and rainy. Even so, the work she should have done has never been done.
No one cares whether her hands are rough and cracked, like her state of life. I gave everything but never cherished it.
"hard" women, when they wash clothes and cook at home, their hands will be corroded by detergent, molt and crack, and will show a feeling of vicissitudes of life. The skin cannot show a smooth and flat posture.
More importantly, women suffer in their hearts. The more hard a woman is, the more she is, she is often because in life, no one can share the burden; no one can understand her efforts.
If no one cherishes it, women should cherish themselves and let their hands rest for a while, so that they can get some proper care.
Learn to love yourself and put yourself in an important position. In the long life, don’t let yourself live too wronged.
03. A woman with good fortune, a woman with good hands is well maintained
"A good fortune" in life, some people love her, and some people carry the burden on her.
The person who loves her always can't bear to let her overwork and her hands be too busy.
Luo Zijun in " My First Half of Life ", after divorce, he tried to find a job. She works in a supermarket and goes to see her. She is not used to her current job.
took off the high heels on his feet, changed to Tang Jing's flat shoes, and asked Tang Jing that he wanted to come with hand cream, so he poured half a bottle on his hands and applied it constantly. The details of
reflect that she was well protected by Chen Junsheng in marriage.
"Good life" women often live in families with good financial conditions. She doesn't have to do housework and can live a leisurely life. If you have nothing to do, go to tea, go shopping, do beauty treatments, and have a pair of hands, you will be protected very well.
A "good fate" woman has the love of her husband and the reliance of her parents. Even if she gets married, she can still become a queen, or she still has the posture of a little princess.
A woman who is "hard" loses her protection, just like the flowers in a greenhouse that have to go through the wind and sun, and the days will become sad. I have to use my hands to support all the difficulties of life.
When a woman is loved by someone, the state presented by her hands often does not have the vicissitudes of life.
04. The hardworking woman with her hands, the better her life
In life, a "good life" life requires one's own hard work.
There are some women who are independent and self-reliant, not afraid of hardship, and are willing to use their own hands to create a better life and be the master of their destiny. Even though her hands were scarred, she could conquer her own future.
"Good life" women, no matter what their background, are willing to learn more skills and become more diligent. Although there will be many traces of injuries on their hands, they are all like military medals, making themselves stronger.
Even if the trump card of life is not that good, the lack of resources will be obtained through hard work with both hands. Trying again and again will always find the right path and knock on the door to success.
Some people have "hard life" because they are unwilling to learn and change themselves. Although my hands are constantly working hard, I have not allowed myself to show greater value.
Yishu wrote in "Star Fragments": "No matter what, a person is always unforgivable to fall through excuses. The less no one loves him, the more he should love himself."
"Good life" women will not rely on others to choose a comfortable life, but rely on hard work and wisdom to use all resources to make themselves better.
Even if no one carries the burden for her, she can rely on her own abilities to realize her dreams and live her ideal life.
05. Summary
"Intimate Relationship" writes: "Love in the right way, do not change the other person, do not compromise yourself, so that we can all love and be loved as we wish."
Women, use their hands well and don't always be busy for others. We must learn to use our hands to improve ourselves, change our destiny, and have a better life.
Women, please live well, treat those who love you, and treat yourself well.
No matter what situation you are in, learn to be responsible for your life and make your hard work meaningful. When loving people who are important in life, learn to free up your hands and embrace yourself.
relies on both hands to continuously learn and improve, and complete its own transformation. Be kind to yourself, life will be more likely to be successful in a counterattack and have a better fate.
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Author: Xia Mo, a new emotional tutor, psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer on the entire network of over 1 billion, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.
