Love is a magical thing. Even in the vast sea of people, even if you just see a back, you will instantly know that it is you.
Love may have been based on a tall and handsome appearance, or a long hair and a fair and beautiful face. But the beautiful skin is the same, and there will always be times when you grow old.
A true love is not simply attracted by appearance, but more about knowing how to float for a long time in the ocean of love until you get ashore, rather than swimming halfway through and sinking to the bottom of the sea.
Too many women lose completely in the game of love. Perhaps some people are because of distance, or perhaps some people are because of personality. In the final analysis, this love cannot stand the test of time and reality.
In fact, when you love the right person, when you get along with him every day, you will understand very well what he really needs and what you really want. With these two questions and answers, this love will continue to move towards the beauty you expect.
Then the man around you will be unable to live without you. In fact, it was just you who gave him these three very ordinary and simple feelings.
1: Let him feel like he wants to protect you
It is said that a spoiled woman is the best, but that's true.
Nowadays, society has trained many women into strong women. They are decisive in the workplace and are omnipotent when facing life alone. They do not need to rely on men at all.
Although they seem to be economically free and free in life, it is extremely enviable, but it is often difficult for women like this to meet true love.
Why? Because men are born with a marvelous manhood, they need a weak woman to realize their desire to protect women. In the movie "The Best Life for a Sexy Woman", Xiao Gong and Zhou Hui have been good friends since college. Zhang Hui actually has always had a crush on Gong Gong, but she never said it out loud. Instead, she regards herself as his good buddy.
Until one day, Xiao Gong met a girl and soon started dating. Zhou Hui was jealous and wanted to see what kind of girl Xiao Gong liked.
When the three of them had dinner together, she realized that the other party was completely different from her. She was not afraid of every day and everything depended on herself. That girl is different. She will act spoiled with the person she likes and show weakness.
Zhou Hui realized that what men like is the weakness of women. In fact, proper display of one's weakness in sexual intercourse is just a small method used by a woman in love.
Men are like this. They hope that women are like water. They hope that you are weak and that you can feel a sense of protection in front of you.
2: Let him feel warm and comfortable
There is such a " warmth rule " in psychology, that is, the north wind is compared with the south wind. The biting coldness of the north wind brings pedestrians to wear thick clothes and wrap themselves tightly just to resist the invasion of the north wind.
The south wind is different, it blows slowly, and the wind is sunny. Because the pedestrians feel very warm, they start to unbutton and then take off their coats.
Therefore, this warmth rule is more applicable to feelings. If you want to win a person's heart, you must give him warmth and make him feel comfortable as if he is bathed in the spring breeze. Only then will he open his heart and accept you with confidence.
No matter what kind of interpersonal relationships it is, everyone likes to be treated gently by the other party, which not only brings pleasure to the other party, but also promotes the improvement of each other's relationship.
Although it is said that men are careless men, in fact, they want each other to treat themselves gently than women in their relationship.
3: Let him feel at steadfast and belonging
Each of us is born lonely, so we work hard every day in the future, work hard to make money and prove our value. Try to find a life partner and walk the lonely journey together.
When a man is fighting all the troubles outside and pushing open the door at night and returning home, there is a goose yellow warm lamp always on for him, I believe that at this time, his heart must be as warm as this lamp.
Because of this lamp, he knew that there was someone at home who was always waiting for him, who was always with him and guarding him.
I still remember that before a friend got married, he asked a few of us to have a small gathering. We didn’t expect that he, who had always been unwilling to get married, would enter the marriage hall one step earlier than us.
So one of the friends asked him why he suddenly thought of getting married. He had been in love so many times before, and always said that he enjoyed the feeling of falling in love. If he never got married in this life, why did he want to get married?
He took a sip of tea and looked at us and said, "Because of this she gave me a very down-to-earth sense of belonging. She would get up early every day to prepare breakfast for me. In the evening, no matter how late I come back, she would wait for me. I suddenly felt that every moment I was with her was something I had never felt before."
So that's it. No matter how much a man loves to play, he will have times when he is tired and wants to rely on him. Therefore, when someone gives him the sense of belonging and can make him depend on each other, he will be like a child, wanting to return to the person who can give him warm belonging.
There are many rules in the game of love, so when managing a relationship, you must use your brain and think more to master how to better develop this love.
Some women think that as long as they are beautiful enough, they can tie a man's heart, but their faces have passed away, who can stay young forever?
Those women who make men unable to live without themselves, you will find that they shine with their own unique ways and charm, attracting men's hearts and making them obsessed with themselves.
