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On the other hand, let’s look back at the actual marital status, especially in blind dates, as a man, when he is on blind dates, he is often asked, “Do you have a building at home?” At this time, if you answer: “No”, it can basically be said that you don’t even have a chance to meet. This is the current situation of some blind dates.
In fact, after all, this is also a competition of financial resources. Just imagine, if a person is really rich, would he not be able to afford a house? But then again, if you have money and a building, can you find a marriage partner very smoothly? If you think so, you think about marriage too simply.
To put it bluntly, in many cases, "having a building" is just a threshold for meeting. Whether you can enter a marriage depends on whether the two people can see each other in a close relationship after a period of time.
If you see each other, you may make the next engagement. If it goes well, you will get married after a while. If there are some unexpected situations before getting married, or if the two cannot get along, it is highly likely that the two will not be able to get married.
It can be seen from this that whether there is a building or whether it is particularly rich is not the key to getting out of singleness. Correspondingly, there are some situations in real life, such as when two people go from falling in love to getting married, or when they are introduced by their relatives and friends, they finally get married successfully when their parents do not have particularly strict requirements for the building.
So, Strictly speaking, money is not the decisive factor for a man to become a bachelor. On the contrary, many relationships between men and women will be together because of their character matching, and will choose to separate because of their character matching.
In addition, in our real life, if we carefully observe some old couples, we will find that there is a kind of man called "合无合无合", which means that we always lose our temper at home and will not be able to do it once we leave the house. We have no ability, and we are even embarrassed to say a few words to others. What kind of impression will a man like
bring to others? To be honest, if such a man is put into this era, he will most likely be a bachelor's life, because he is incompetent, because he is incompetent, and he will lose his temper at his family at any time. Without the backbone and responsibility of a man, the one who will end up suffering will be his wife and family.
From this heart-wrenching fact, we can draw a conclusion, that is: If a man is of poor quality, does not have the appearance of a man, does not have a man's backbone and strong sense of responsibility, the possibility of becoming a bachelor will increase.
Changyan Changyu:
determines that a man becomes a bachelor, is it money or personality? If we look at it from the perspective of most ordinary people, we are not particularly rich people, so it is not the money-based approach that determines the probability of our singleness, but the possibility of personality will be greater.
If we look at it from the perspective of objective facts, we will also find that those who are not young and want to get out of singleness, find several blind date partners, but have not yet had a long time to succeed, have some bias in their personal qualities, which has no particular absolute connection with their personality and economic conditions.
So, Generally speaking, a person's inner qualities are the core of determining the probability of getting out of singleness.
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