For many women, it feels that some men have strong emotional control and their emotions are not easy to show. Some men are honest and dull and do not understand feelings. Some men are careless and it is difficult to see how they feel about others. However, more men are good at disguising and performing, falsely speaking, inconsistent with others, and conceal their true mentality. In all these, it is difficult to judge whether it is true love in terms of relationships between men and women. They are afraid that they will be passive in terms of relationships. In fact, it is not complicated to know the authenticity of men's relationships, and it is not difficult to judge from four aspects.
First, it is "use time"
There is a popular saying "companionship is the longest confession, and staying together is the warmest promise". This statement seems beautiful and romantic, and is a bit abstract, but it fully illustrates a simple truth and a real phenomenon, and also reveals the truth. Indeed, in all interpersonal relationships, if both parties think that each other is important, pay attention to each other and care about each other, and have deep feelings, then they will give each other enough time and spend a lot of time together. It can be said that using time is directly related to the depth of the relationship between the two parties, which is a normal human relationship.
is also an instinct manifestation. It is particularly obvious and prominent in the relationship between men and women, and is very typical. There is no doubt that no matter which kind of man, as long as he is willing to spend time for you, squeeze out time to be with you, and stay with you as long as he has time. And as long as you need him, he will try every means to find time to meet your needs. It is a pleasant and happy thing for him to be with you. This means that a man has affection for you, and from this, he can judge the depth of his feelings based on the degree of time he uses you.
Second, "pay"
Under normal circumstances, a person will not give to others for no reason. When he is willing to give to whom, it means that the person is very important to him or needs the other person very much, so he is willing to give to him. This is due to feelings, and the significant feature is that how much he gives is proportional to the degree of feelings. The deeper the feelings, the more he gives, and the less he pays. This kind of effort is reflected in all aspects. Maybe some people may ask that the so-called "payment" is a very general and vague concept. How to judge? This can start with four comparisons.
1 is a comparison with what you do in your daily life. For all men, they will be willing to give more than usual when facing the woman they love. This is driven by instinct and is also to express their feelings through this. If the contrast between you and your daily life is greater, the more sincere the feelings are. The second is to compare the behavior of treating you with your self. Under normal circumstances, everyone has a strong sense of self and should consider more of themselves. When they are in love, the situation will change drastically. This will consider the other person. As the relationship deepens, they will gradually treat the other person like themselves.
even surpasses oneself and reaches the state of selflessness and selflessness. The deeper the relationship, the more obvious this phenomenon is. The third is to compare the tolerance and limit ranges shown in the process of giving, based on the actual situation of the man, and look at the range that he can afford and bearable, and compare the tolerance and limit range. The higher the situation, the deeper the relationship. The fourth is to compare the timeliness of giving. If you are emotionally impulsive or want to deceive you, your efforts are short-lived and limited, and will not last long, because they will fade away passion or worry about gains and losses. Only true love will give for a long time.
Third, "heartedly"
People call men and women in love "loved people" and each other as "loved people", so there is no doubt that both of them occupy an important position in their own minds and take each other's heart. Moreover, the importance of both parties is closely related to the relationship between both parties, so you can judge the relationship with the level of attentiveness. This is easier for men to observe and discover, because compared with women, most men are rough and careless, relatively rough and casual, and rarely pay too much attention to and worry about many things.
is especially true in details and small matters. Despite this, after having the woman they love, when facing the woman they love, they will be abnormal and undergo a great change. They will often think about and care about each other in their hearts, care about each other everywhere, and seem to take it as their responsibility to protect each other, so as to demonstrate their masculinity and sense of responsibility to women. At this time, they are particularly active, proactive and enthusiastic, and they are more delicate than before, thoughtful, meticulous and considerate to women. Everything
does is a spontaneous behavior, so a woman can perceive the emotional components of a man’s feelings for him from the degree of care he is about himself. If he performs well, his level of care is completely different from usual, and it will be significantly improved. The greater the difference, the deeper the emotion he uses. On the contrary, it is difficult to show that he really has you in his heart, because the reason is very simple. Since he has himself in his heart, why do he often fail to think about it? And it is not reflected in action, how can it prove that you are in your heart?
Fourth, "result"
As the saying goes, "When you say it, you will do it, and you will do it." It means that as soon as you say it, you must implement it in action. There must be results after action. This is the quality that everyone should possess and the code of conduct that should be followed. Everyone should follow this requirement and restrain themselves. For men, due to the influence of concepts, culture and social environment, they value this more. As the saying goes, "A gentleman's word is as good as his horse." Men must keep their word, which has become their philosophy, and it is still the case for ordinary people.
So when facing the woman you love, this kind of cognition and awareness is stronger and does better. It is to gain the other party's recognition and acceptance. It is afraid that the other party will deny and reject it if they are not good. At the same time, it will make you lose face and lose dignity. You will be responsible for what you say in front of a woman and will put it into practice. Finally, you can speak with the result. You can say that your words and deeds are consistent, and you will keep your promises when you say it. Despite this, the degree of performance of this behavior is also directly related to the importance and importance of the other party. The relationship is average and the relationship is ordinary.
may not have done well, and there are differences and differences from reality, or the result is greatly reduced. If the relationship is deeper and the closer the relationship is, it will not be like this. Do it with all your heart and strength, and do your best, and do it with all your strength and do it without fail. It can be said that you have done a solid job and give you the results you want or are very satisfied with. This is reflected in the fulfillment of his wishes and promises to you, and the final implementation of what you have proposed to him, and as much as possible in line with your wishes or expectations. As long as you do these two aspects, the more sincere your feelings for you.
