Is a woman's heart a needle under the sea?
In fact, in the eyes of some "Sea King", women's hearts are basically a pure and lovely little "sheep".
But in the eyes of a person who really likes it, is a "sacred" unpredictable ocean!
In fact, the fundamental reason for this difference in thinking: is caused by two people's different thinking about women!
In the eyes of "Neons", was him who took the initiative to "select" her.
And in the eyes of a man who pursues his beloved, is his extravagant woman to "choose him".
And when you learn to pursue a woman with "strong thinking".
You will find that in fact, the girls you like are not that difficult to chase!
01-Reject self-touching efforts.
What is self-touching? That is: I think!
A simple example: You think girls should not go back too late, so you will often remind her to go back early after 10 o'clock.
This is a typical thing for . It is not safe at night. An adult will not understand it. does not need your repeated advice.
You think you are doing your best for her. In her eyes, you told her the second time and the third time, you were sentenced to death by .
In fact, Your starting point is to please yourself and let women listen to you, so that you will feel accomplished.
In a romantic relationship, the talents that can give occupies a high position.
In love, all your efforts are: If you want to give, you will give it.
This is the emotional value you provide unilaterally, and it is also to please the other party in your own way and let the other party remember your goodness.
and want the other party to remember your goodness and your efforts. is because you want to get rewards from her, such as emotional value, and behaviors that you want to wait.
This is actually a dangerous signal. is a request, and it will also keep you in deep.
Once the other party does not give you a good response, or has equal emotional value, you will be depressed.
In the end, you never care about things you care about, but you are struggling with it in your back and have been consuming it for a long time.
This self-moving behavior will only bring pressure to the other party and yourself, and will also become self-consuming.
Wait for you to consume your last patience and emotions, and the relationship will end.
If the relationship is moved by one's own, and by one's pleasing and accommodation, then such a relationship is difficult to last.
02-Take yourself seriously.
There is a saying that goes: If you don’t even value yourself, who will still value you?
people, first of all, you must pay attention to yourself and know yourself. You will know how to know and take care of others.
Only in this way, in love, When you meet the other party's requirements, you will not be wronged to satisfy the other party.
won't have a heart: I'm doing this for her.
. In fact, she thought you also liked it. did not feel that your obedience was to make sacrifices for her.
Instead of always thinking about the other person’s thoughts in life, it is better to consider yourself: What do I think about this?
Do I like it? Can I accept it? Do you want to continue?
At the same time, you must also have your own bottom line and principles.
confession should be bold, love should be made public, neglect and withdraw, and leave if you make mistakes.
When you treat yourself as the center of the world, I like you, but I like myself more.
Always keep yourself confident, be good and strong yourself, such a person is the most charming!
03-Doing things openly and generously.
There is one of the most commonly used plots in idol TV series: Misunderstanding.
The male and female protagonists often hide something from the other party, and originally wanted to say it at a certain time.
However, due to various reasons, the misunderstanding escalated and eventually parted ways.
finally went around and went through various n to finally get together again.
This tells us a truth: When the other person makes you happy, you praise it openly.
When you are unhappy, is also a little bit more straightforward to express the reasons for your unhappiness to the other party.
Don’t feel that you are so happy and sad about so many things you are happy and sad with, just say “ Serious people lose first”.
There is no winning or losing in real relationships, only sincerity.
You repeatedly suppress your true emotions, which will cause irreversible scars to this relationship.
There are no two perfect people in the world. Even if they are biological parents, will have times of quarrel.
As long as you tell the matter generously and solve it together, the relationship like will be more stable.
When you learn these "strong thinking", women will easily be attracted by the strong mentality of you.
After all, relying on the strong is the instinct of animals engraved in their bones!
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