Love is an eternal topic. It can make people confused and heart-wrenching.
For women, love is love right, and love is listless if it is wrong. Just like the rich girl Emilia in "Sad Coffee Song", she fell in love with an ugly man, cousin Li Meng, but was eventually deceived. She gave up on herself for the rest of her life and died alone.
When we love each other, deep affection is the icing on the cake, but in the face of ruthlessness, deep affection is just a mess.
So women, never be too affectionate, keep some points for themselves.
Not all love will resonate
In a remote town, the main street is less than 100 meters. It is lonely and dull here, and what is even more dull is that there is a big house, but the doors and windows are locked.
The owner of this house is Emilia, a rich man. She opened a cafe because of a man, Li Meng, a cousin, but later he took all her money and ran away. This starts with Emilia's ex-husband who has only been married for 10 days.
Her ex-husband is a gangster, but since she fell in love with Emilia, she has turned her back and turned into a serious person, crazy pursuit of Emilia, who is not beautiful.
Magically, Emilia's ex-husband is very handsome, 1.85 meters tall, blonde hair, gentle gray eyes, and has a good income.
Most women will be moved by such a handsome man, but Emilia agreed to his proposal indifferently, but she did not let the groom stay in the room on the wedding night.
Emilia treats the groom as if she is a customer, neither enthusiastic nor cold. Once the groom wants to get close to her, she will give him a gloomy face without hesitation.
The groom thought of various ways to please Emilia, and even handed over all her property to her, but she just accepted the various gifts from the groom, but she did not have a better attitude towards him. When he tried to have physical contact with her, she directly gave him a fist to eat.
The bad man is willing to change his appearance after he meets love, but for a woman who doesn't love him, the more friendly and affectionate he is, the more worthless his love appears.
There has never been fair love in this world. The deep affection of one party may only bring in the indifferent and peace of mind of the other party. Not all affection can resonate.
Love is a kind of sexual thinking, and marriage is a rational choice, but only the heart knows whether love or not.
is not always remembered, but has echoes
In love, it is not always remembered, but it is inevitable that there will be echoes.
Love hard and loves humble people, after giving all their feelings, they realize that their efforts are worthless. Even if they try their best to treat a good person, they can only lament that their lives are thinner than paper in the humble feelings.
Emilia can give orders to her ex-husband without letting him enter her room. The relationship between husband and wife is in name only and eventually part ways.
Don't think that Emilia is a stern-hearted woman. Her gentleness is given to another ugly man, Li Meng's cousin. He is an ugly and short Luo Guo, but at first sight, Emilia is moved.
Seeing him, she was a little happy and a little painful because Li Meng's cousin was always indifferent to her. But she took him in and was willing to open a cafe as he wanted.
Not only that, she did not hide anything from Li Meng's cousin, her important business, bank passbook, and antique cabinet keys. He can also get a lot of money directly from the store and go out to spend.
In order to please him, Emilia can do anything. She always wants to do more things for the man she loves and give him more gifts, so that he may like her more, attach more importance to her, and may miss her.
Emilia is like many women, thinking that if you empty your people and money, a man will be devoted to her, which means giving thoroughly.
Indeed, it makes no sense to fall in love with whom, and there is no suitable or inappropriateness, only various reasons. Just as the book says:
A missionary can fall in love with a fallen woman; the suitor can be a person with two sides, greasy head and powdery face, and a bad record. Yes, the suitors can see these clearly, but it does not affect their natural love at all.
Love is originally unreasonable. If you love it too obsessed with it, you may not necessarily gain true love.
The so-called love is completely defined by the suitor himself. They are always trying to spy on their lover's mind, even if they know that their efforts have not gained anything, they still flew into the flames.
Love the wrong life will only be more lonely
Regrettably, love that love misses not only does not make people happier, but life is more miserable.
Love can save the soul of a bad person, and love can also destroy a person's mind. Life is a process of reincarnation.
Li Meng's cousin finally let Emilia down. He and her ex-husband stole all her money and antiques and ran away. Before leaving, they smashed her store, ruined her business, and wrote curses on her on the coffee table.
Emilia's enthusiasm instantly disappeared. Since then, she closed the coffee shop, stretched her face all day long, and said indignantly to Li Meng's cousin: Let me catch it, I have to take out my intestines and throw it to the cat for food.
When she said this, she did not have the vitality of the past, and all her feelings were gone, making her even more lonely and lonely.
Emilia has been waiting for cousin Li Meng. She was staring at the street in front of the window every day, looking forward to the arrival of a miracle, but he never came back. In the fourth year, she asked someone to seal all the doors and windows of the house and never left afterwards.
The leaves next to her house are dark gray, and the house begins to tilt, but she doesn't care at all. For her, Emilia, life and death have been left out, and she doesn't care about anything.
The tragedy of loving the wrong person is this.
When trust between people collapses, it will only be more lonely, the soul has no place to rely on, confining itself to the "dungeon", willing to isolate the spirit.
Love but cannot get it is the ultimate loneliness in life. If you have loved and be let down, you will either awaken or annihilate.