For couples, after spending a period of time, they feel almost done and will take them home to meet their parents.
In many places, when the woman comes to the man’s house for the first time, the man’s parents will give him red envelopes, and the amount is not the same.
The less you are probably given a red envelope of one or two hundred yuan, while the more red envelopes may be worth tens of thousands, and some even give jewelry, etc.
There are many places where a boy takes his girlfriend home and the man’s parents give him a red envelope, which means he is satisfied with the girl. The red envelope is equivalent to a meeting gift, and this red envelope must be collected.
The man’s parents give the woman a red envelope. This is a kind of etiquette, which means that the man’s parents understand etiquette and are also a kind of intention.
But not every couple will definitely enter the marriage hall after meeting their parents, and may break up for various reasons.
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In response to this, someone asked: "The woman went to the man's house for the first time and received a red envelope from the man's parents. Do you have to marry me?"
Marriage is something you want and I need both parties to be satisfied. If you feel that you can't go on after receiving the red envelope, or are not satisfied with the other party's family. You don’t have to marry the other person reluctantly, because marriage cannot be forced.
But if the woman does not want to marry the other party, please return the red envelope given by the man’s parents when breaking up. At the same time, during the relationship, the valuables and large red envelopes collected should be returned, because men's money is not picked up from the ground, but earned with hard work.
But it should be noted that if during the relationship, the other party gives you valuable items and you give you a corresponding amount of gift, then there is no need to return the gift. Similarly, red envelopes are the same.
Why do different women have this idea? It is very common for separation before things are settled. After all, when you get married, some people divorce for various reasons.
No matter what the reason is, you must give up clearly. If you collect other people's money but do not return it, it will be particularly likely to arouse the man's anger. Moreover, when returning items, you must keep a good record, such as transfer records, express records, etc.
If you add the WeChat message of the man’s parents or relatives and return the red envelope given by the man’s family to the man, you must send a message to the other person’s parents. Because some men received the returned gifts and red envelopes after breaking up, and did not tell their parents. Uninformed parents may think that the woman is greedy for money. If she goes to the woman’s company, it will affect the woman’s work.
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A friend met a fellow villager on a blind date, and the man had been to the woman's house. That is, the man and his parents went to the woman's house. The parents of both sides met and also added contact information.
The two happened to work in the same city, so the man would ask the woman for dinner on a daily basis, but he did not confirm the relationship between the man and girlfriend.
Once the man gave her a silver bracelet, the woman said she didn't want it, but the man went directly downstairs of her rental house.
Because the man directly stuffed the gift into her arms, he had no choice but to accept it. Later, he sent a red envelope to the man, but the man did not accept it.
In the end, both parties did not become lovers, and things thought they had just passed. Unexpectedly, one day, the woman was called by her mother and scolded her bloody scolding.
Because of the woman's relative, she told her mother directly that she had received someone's gift. The man's parents said she was greedy for money, but she accepted gifts but did not date others, saying that she cheated on money or something.
The woman was very unhappy about this and felt particularly wronged. The man forced himself to do so, and he didn't collect the money he gave him. Unexpectedly, his parents would say this, which led to his scolding and his reputation also became worse.
In the end, the woman took advantage of the time she went home and handed the silver bracelet to her grandmother, asked her grandmother to hand it over to her relatives, and then asked the relatives to hand it over to the man's parents.
Although things are over, a bad impression has been formed. Even if one passes to ten, ten passes to hundreds, I don’t know what it is like.
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Everyone is different. During the period of knowing and dating, what you know is only superficial, and you cannot understand a person at all.
In order to avoid this situation, it is best not to accept valuable gifts from men, especially when the relationship between men and women is not confirmed.
Because everything is unknown before getting married. If you accept it, you need to return it to others one day.
If you don’t pay it back, someone will sue you and you will have to deal with the lawsuit. There have been many examples of men spending a lot of money during love, and men suing the woman for repaying the money after breaking up.
There are too much poisonous chicken soup now. It is said that a man is willing to spend money on you, that is, that is, that he loves you, and that he does not spend money on you, that he does not love you.
But in fact, there are exceptions in everything. For rich people, the money they spend is drizzle. They are just lonely and want to find someone, and even have a wife. They are with you out of freshness. That is not love.
For people who have no money, maybe they spend very little money for you, and even if they eat, they just take you to street stalls. That doesn't mean that he doesn't love you, he just doesn't have the conditions to be rich.
It is not a omnipotent way to use money to test a person. Work hard to improve yourself and be independent. No matter which kind of man you meet, you don’t need to be afraid, let alone worry about being abandoned.
Always thinking about dependent on a man, and one day when he gets used to his existence, it will be difficult to survive rationally. Once the other party doesn't love you, everything he gives you will no longer exist. If you meet a terrible man, you will even sue you in court with a complaint, so that all the money spent on you will have to be returned.
In this case, the woman will not only bear debts, but will also be unable to adapt to ordinary life because she has not been working for a long time or is used to a luxurious life, and will not be able to go to work with peace of mind. For the woman, both physical and mental torture will be tortured and she will be in vain!
