People in the world say that is a big gamble, If you marry well, you will be happy for a lifetime. If the other party is not well-off, it will be difficult to go home to visit your parents!
Many people have a psychological misunderstanding, thinking that transportation is so developed nowadays, no matter where the country is, it is just a matter of air tickets or train tickets. They don’t know that all this must be based on an economic foundation!
As the saying goes, Poor couples have everything to be sad, A simple sentence perfectly summarizes the helplessness in the lives of ordinary couples. If you still marry far away, the road to home can be said to be a long and difficult situation!
Although living conditions are better now, many rural areas will not be too bad. It is equivalent to some people having scooters. Although they drive wherever they want, they cannot go wherever they say they can!
Recently, a woman shared her daily life, telling the story of her family marrying from Guizhou for 15 years. Her family visited her for the first time. The scene was extremely awkward and there was no place to sit!
A woman and her husband are in a free relationship. She met many years ago when she was working in another place. In order to be able to marry her husband, she also said some things that made her parents sad. Her family has never visited her home!
As time goes by, the resentment in the hearts of parents and brothers and sisters is gone, so when the moment is not very busy, he drove to Guizhou to visit his daughter, but saw this scene in front of him!
The woman married in Guizhou for 15 years and gave birth to three children with her husband. After having children, in order not to make the children become left-behind children, neither of the couple chose to go out to work and stayed in their hometown for a long time!
The current situation of their couple is also a problem that most couples may face. There is no job in the place where there is home, there is no home where there is work, and there is no home where there is work, and has no choice but to do that in order to take care of the children!
The woman said that no one helped her for many years, and her husband started from scratch. They worked hard for more than ten years to renovate the old house at home, but they still haven’t had time to decorate it yet!
The parents and family suddenly came over, which caught the couple off guard. The family was barely bare and there was no place to sit. They could only be arranged in the yard. After dinner, their parents and family set off on their way home again!
Seeing that parents are getting older day by day, they have married for so many years, but have not fulfilled their basic filial piety. Especially after having children, I feel more and more that I owe my parents, but I am not able to give back to them!
My mother's family came to see the current situation of their couple and did not say anything bad. Instead, they also expressed their understanding that life is getting better and not many people can have everything from birth!
Seeing the back of my mother's family leaving, the woman was mixed with feelings. She didn't know what words to use to express her mood at this moment. She was both sad and helpless, and she seemed a little embarrassed?
is similar to this scene. I believe anyone will break the defense after experiencing it. Parents and family come from afar, but they don’t have the ability to entertain themselves well. They just return the same way after eating. Who can feel guilty?
But life often runs contrary to ideals. Everyone wants to live a decent life, but their fate is bumpy. If you don’t have the help of your parents, you still have to raise children or something, ordinary people will really have a hard time!
But the woman's situation is still pretty good. Although she cannot entertain her mother's family well at present, the house is being renovated. After the house is built, she can invite her family to visit again!
When seeing such a picture, women may just feel a little embarrassed, but their parents feel heartbroken. As parents, who don’t want their children to live a happy life?
Traveling thousands of miles to visit his daughter, but witnessing so many life experiences. How uncomfortable it should be. Maybe only the person involved will know that if the parents with lower tears, they may all cry on the spot...
Although their life is not very satisfactory, the relationship between them is enviable. Although their family life is not rich, they can depend on each other, which is very valuable!
